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| Author: | Smooth...? [ Tue Mar 27, 2012 1:32 am ] |
| Post subject: | Need some opinions...girls actually approach me |
Hello my friends, So after 2 years and a half of being in a relationship it has gotten me pretty rusty. I should chang e my name from smooth to rusty lol. i was at a music festival and got 3 numbers. I told my self i wasnt going to leave empty handed. PROBLEM (but i guess good problem) is: the 3 girls approached me. they were all cute no 10's tho. Im not going to get many 10's waiting for them to appoach me. Speaking of 10's a beautiful girl "liked" a picture i posted. i know its not much especially since the pic was of breakfast i made. that was also a few days ago. whats a good convo starter i can use if i message her on fb? i have ideas but would like to hear different ones best, Smooth |
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| Author: | AmazingArt [ Tue Mar 27, 2012 1:46 am ] |
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If your thinking what to text her you're already starting on the wrong foot. You see right now your thinking you have to be careful with her and text her something good because if not you might lose her. Therefore, you're on the defensive which means you think she's higher value than you. The thing is you can text her anything you want it doesn't matter as long as it comes from the right mindset. Just to give you an example before you text her just think this scenario in your head " You are sitting in between 10 hot girls and they're all over you trying to touch you all over and kissing you. You push one of the hotties away because there are so many of them. You tell her sorry babe next time (bluntly like you own her). Then the other girls are fighting of whom should give you head. You grab one of them and pull their hair and make out with them and control their bodies. Now in the middle you take a break and remember you have to text this girl. How would you text her?". You would feel now like she's just another girl and nothing special. If anything she should have a good reason for you talking to her because there are super hot girls waiting there on your bed. That's how you should always feel. If you do feel like this things will go so smooth for you and you'll act like an Alpha Male. |
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| Author: | Smooth...? [ Tue Mar 27, 2012 2:01 am ] |
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nice dude i like that. im starting to feel like the old me just by reading that  this isnt a text this is on facebook..i dont know her. she wasnt one of the 3 girls that approached me. but should not make a difference on facebook or text right? remember i never spoke to her. cheers S |
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| Author: | Absoliutas [ Tue Mar 27, 2012 2:41 am ] |
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What breakfast did you made? If it was a steak, ask her if she wants your steak. |
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| Author: | poeticlyskuac [ Tue Mar 27, 2012 6:08 am ] |
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Quote: nice dude i like that. im starting to feel like the old me just by reading that
It certainly makes a huge difference if you have built a physical attraction first. It's difficult to have wit and be interesting right off the bat through social media. Usually it takes repeated exposure (commenting on similar shit multiple times), than you friend her after a few solid interactions. After you friend them you just message her witty and fun remarks and build comfort and some attraction before asking for a meet up. this isnt a text this is on facebook..i dont know her. she wasnt one of the 3 girls that approached me. but should not make a difference on facebook or text right? remember i never spoke to her. cheers S It's way way more difficult to go through the courtship process this way. |
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| Author: | djx29 [ Tue Mar 27, 2012 12:28 pm ] |
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Ya agree with the first response; you've already thought about this waay to much. For something as simple as that, you should have already said something to her, and be prepared for it to go nowhere (if it does). |
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| Author: | AmazingArt [ Tue Mar 27, 2012 3:03 pm ] |
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Texting facebook the same thing. It's not about what you say it's how you say it. If you feel very good about yourself anything you say out of your moth will become gold. And if these 3 girls approached you it means they're interested. Good luck. - Amazing Art - |
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