PUA Forum :: Openers

Ok, so I have -real- trouble with talking to girls at clubs and so-on. Part of this is down to overthinking, which I can't really do anything about until I just give it a metaphorical boot in the stones.

The other part is, I don't have any solid openers to use. I'm not the best at thinking on the spot (Cue turning very pale and passing out,) so for example, Mystery's "girls fighting outside" line would leave me a little stumped if pressed for more information.

Can anyone offer a new guy some suggestions?

I the club, find some poor sucker hitting on a HB way to hard, and point it out to YOUR target. like "Do you think he's getting anywhere?" simple!

Of course, that's all good until she tells you that A: He is, or B: That's her boyfriend. I'll give it a try though

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Of course, that's all good until she tells you that A: He is, or B: That's her boyfriend. I'll give it a try though

Already over thinking it! LOL

If she answers with either of those, it is a good chance to start a convo!

A: So you like that style huh?
B: Friends of yours?

Get the idea?

Yeah, starting to get the image

A great way to club practice is to open girls sub par to your standards; girls you would never think about taking home.

You: Is it hot in here? or is it just me?

Her: Yes!

You: So you think I'm hot huh?.....bla bla bla

Or

Her: No I'm freezing!

you: Let's go over there and warm up!....

Author:	Hold [ Mon Mar 26, 2012 3:30 pm ]
Post subject:	Openers
Ok, so I have -real- trouble with talking to girls at clubs and so-on. Part of this is down to overthinking, which I can't really do anything about until I just give it a metaphorical boot in the stones. The other part is, I don't have any solid openers to use. I'm not the best at thinking on the spot (Cue turning very pale and passing out,) so for example, Mystery's "girls fighting outside" line would leave me a little stumped if pressed for more information. Can anyone offer a new guy some suggestions?

Author:	Heywood Jablowme [ Mon Mar 26, 2012 4:12 pm ]
Post subject:	Re: Openers
Quote: Ok, so I have -real- trouble with talking to girls at clubs and so-on. Part of this is down to overthinking, which I can't really do anything about until I just give it a metaphorical boot in the stones. The other part is, I don't have any solid openers to use. I'm not the best at thinking on the spot (Cue turning very pale and passing out,) so for example, Mystery's "girls fighting outside" line would leave me a little stumped if pressed for more information. Can anyone offer a new guy some suggestions? I the club, find some poor sucker hitting on a HB way to hard, and point it out to YOUR target. like "Do you think he's getting anywhere?" simple!

Author:	Hold [ Mon Mar 26, 2012 4:21 pm ]
Post subject:	Re: Openers
Quote: I the club, find some poor sucker hitting on a HB way to hard, and point it out to YOUR target. like "Do you think he's getting anywhere?" simple! Of course, that's all good until she tells you that A: He is, or B: That's her boyfriend. I'll give it a try though

Author:	Naithiz [ Mon Mar 26, 2012 4:32 pm ]
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Laugh at the point she give the bf answer and ask the question again nudging him. leave after. Its just to get used to negative responses. That way after 100 negative responses, when you approach for real and she is at all receptive you will feel great knowing the negative was not the response to your real game. Just something I have been trying. I'm new as well. so listen to the masters but try things to get rid of fear. From the mind of Naithiz

Author:	Heywood Jablowme [ Mon Mar 26, 2012 4:34 pm ]
Post subject:	Re: Openers
Quote: Of course, that's all good until she tells you that A: He is, or B: That's her boyfriend. I'll give it a try though Already over thinking it! LOL If she answers with either of those, it is a good chance to start a convo! A: So you like that style huh? B: Friends of yours? Get the idea?

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Author:	Hold [ Mon Mar 26, 2012 4:40 pm ]
Post subject:	Re: Openers
Quote: Quote: Of course, that's all good until she tells you that A: He is, or B: That's her boyfriend. I'll give it a try though Already over thinking it! LOL If she answers with either of those, it is a good chance to start a convo! A: So you like that style huh? B: Friends of yours? Get the idea? Yeah, starting to get the image I really am out of practice lol. And yeah, I'm -severely- analytical. Enough that it's a serious problem for me. Just gotta put the thoughts to one side and wing it as it goes in some of those conversations, huh?

Author:	Hold [ Mon Mar 26, 2012 5:06 pm ]
Post subject:	Re: Openers
Quote: A great way to club practice is to open girls sub par to your standards; girls you would never think about taking home. You: Is it hot in here? or is it just me? Her: Yes! You: So you think I'm hot huh?.....bla bla bla Or Her: No I'm freezing! you: Let's go over there and warm up!.... Worth a shot Shall bear that in mind for my next shot taken.

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