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| Author: | chazman0426 [ Tue Mar 20, 2012 12:29 am ] |
| Post subject: | body language when approaching. |
I heard you are suppose to approach and look like you are on your way out but what if the girl is by herself or there's a two set at the bar. Is it ok to ever approach and directly face them (like I normally do naturally)? I heard that's a big no no. |
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| Author: | Greenleaf1019 [ Wed Mar 21, 2012 12:57 pm ] |
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Now this is only from experience but I'm sure there are guys here who got this stuff down like a science. There was this HB8 at a book store (GREAT PLACE TO MEET GIRLS BY THE WAY), and she was in an isle looking at some stupid science fiction books (I know, an HB8 in science fiction, it was crazy). So I quietly walked passed her, paused and turned to look at the same shelf she was checking out. I'm about 4-5 feet away from her now. Also, I was not facing her. This is important because facing a girl too early gives her your "power", if you know what I mean. Always talk from the shoulder first. This is almost always non-threatening. Imagine walking straight at a girl (especially one by herself) with both shoulders pointed at her. From her perspective it's going to be a little intimidating, am I right? So after about 4-5 seconds, I started talking to her. I do NOT turn and fully face her until she turns first. When she does, then I turn half way (not fully at her, but not over the shoulder side-by-side anymore), kind of like a mid turn. Then we continued talking. When her body language showed that she was more interested (leaning against shelf, or hip suddenly tipped), then that's when I'll probably turn to fully face her. What's nice about a place like that is that quiet speaking is almost enforced or expected. So like any good PUA, you'll want your voice to eventually transition into a seductive tone. Slow and quiet. Leave a few well placed pauses to increase sexual tension. It ended in a number close. I hope that helps. |
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| Author: | poeticlyskuac [ Wed Mar 21, 2012 2:50 pm ] |
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When you approach a woman you should have a confident but nonthreatening body language. Opening different women in different situations is body language/observational most of the time for me. Opening a girl by herself I would go up and read her body language so I have an idea what she feels like or is thinking about. When it is a pair I would just say something off the wall with a bit of wit. |
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| Author: | Leo-Jed [ Thu Mar 22, 2012 11:15 am ] |
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It's important but not as important as you would think. I have a pretty good hit rate when approaching and the one thing I keep forgetting is my body language as I enter. The most important thing is to get in a position where you are leaning back and it now looks like they are gaming you. And DO NOT peck in if in night game. Let the girl come to you if she can't hear. |
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| Author: | poeticlyskuac [ Fri Mar 23, 2012 4:28 am ] |
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Quote: It's important but not as important as you would think. I have a pretty good hit rate when approaching and the one thing I keep forgetting is my body language as I enter. The most important thing is to get in a position where you are leaning back and it now looks like they are gaming you. And DO NOT peck in if in night game. Let the girl come to you if she can't hear.
No it's more important than you think, there is a difference. Body language is the most important part of courtship. The difference is you don't have to pay attention to it because you show natural comfort and confidence. A big part of confident(alpha) body language is relaxed body language, you have that. I have a friend that did not say one word to a girl for like an hr and half, he literally was silent the entire time. Kissed her then started talking and got her number. Eye contact, made faces, flirted, etc. I agree with your body language advice of let her come to you, and leaning back, but at some point you need to engage her, you need to respond to her. Otherwise she'll move on to the other guy. |
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