Hey guys,

There is a ton of loud nightclubs near my house. When girls are on the dance floor they are often in a group (2,3, etc) and there back is to everyone.

My question is how do u approach a girl on the dancefloor? Can u just go up behind them and start grinding.....alot of guys do this and it seems to work. The girl will usually look over her shoulder and if ur hot its okay.

Or do u touch them on the shoulder....and try to make them turn around. Do u hold ur hand out?

Really clueless on this. How do u approach on the dancefloor??

Hey guys,

There is a ton of loud nightclubs near my house. When girls are on the dance floor they are often in a group (2,3, etc) and there back is to everyone.

My question is how do u approach a girl on the dancefloor? Can u just go up behind them and start grinding.....alot of guys do this and it seems to work. The girl will usually look over her shoulder and if ur hot its okay.

Or do u touch them on the shoulder....and try to make them turn around. Do u hold ur hand out?

Really clueless on this. How do u approach on the dancefloor??

Hey guys,

There is a ton of loud nightclubs near my house. When girls are on the dance floor they are often in a group (2,3, etc) and there back is to everyone.

My question is how do u approach a girl on the dancefloor? Can u just go up behind them and start grinding.....alot of guys do this and it seems to work. The girl will usually look over her shoulder and if ur hot its okay.

Or do u touch them on the shoulder....and try to make them turn around. Do u hold ur hand out?

Really clueless on this. How do u approach on the dancefloor??

when i go out with 1 friend or multiple (doesen't really matter) i just have fun we always take our favorite spot in the middle of the venue and that's where most HB's are (close to a raised platform, close to the bar and no ppl trying to get through )

when dancing, if u notice a HB next to you, "incidently" bump into her. look at her like ' wy the f*** did u just bump me (bit of a stumbled look) " after that if she bumps you or the other way around (which is logicaly gonna happen since it's mostly crowded) u'll see if she wants to dance cause if she looks at you again wehn bumping/ being bumped and u just look at her and continue dancing (slightly shifting body language towards her) she will turn her body (behind) towards you.

I had the same problem before. all you have to do is start dancing face to face and keep eye contact and always smile. 95% of the time within 15 seconds she will turn and start grinding.

Dancing face to face is hard when they often are dancin in circles wih their backs to everyone.. Just have balls go up behind them and start grinding.. If they want it they'll grind back if they don't they will just push you off.. Either way you lose nothing just go up and dance with then

This advice is garbage, every chump double fisting beers has the balls to sneak up on a girl from behind. You'll creep out girls doing this that would have otherwise danced with you if you had gotten their attention before trying to grind.

Personally I just groove through the dance floor and either grab the hand or touch the arm of girls that I'm interested in.

I don't know about you, but the genre of music isn't affecting how open I am to meeting someone in a club. I've had girls reach through the crowd and grab my hand. Did I freak the hell out? No, I turned to see who it was.

I refer to grabbing as taking hold of something. Not taking hold and pulling towards you. or molesting the girl.

Not knocking the waiting for IOI method, because it works, but not waiting can work just as fine. More rejection, but more success too.