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Author:  mintsauce [ Wed Feb 22, 2012 6:14 am ]
Post subject:  Same old problem : Girl in my class
Hi all,
I am new to this game and hoping to get some views on my situation. 8)

I am in this language class as a hobby. the sub of interest is a HB7. now I didn't really notice her earlier, one for I was not looking to pick up (yeah I know, rookie mistake) and two because it's a biggish class of 40 and I had my sights on someone else.

I had missed the last class and while checking what I missed (from a guy I knew from an earlier class) she volunteered to help me out without asking with some enthusiasm, more so than usual, let's say. ;)

anyway, the guy gave me a few hooks to throw out some DHV stories which I accepted with both hands. managed to do it without coming off as a braggart, so job well done. she was suitably impressed (I am highly educated with an impressive job) we had some light conversation which seemed to be going well.

the instructor arrived meanwhile and I moved back to my seat, so as not to come off as desperate. during class I noticed her repeatedly eyeing me when she thought I wasn't looking.
after class I had to leave quickly without an opportunity to talk to her.

what should be my strategy for next day ??

p.s. I stupidly missed a chance to kino. my problem is I am overweight at the moment due to a recent medical problem. about 20 lb on a 5'10'' frame, so quite a bit.
Author:  mintsauce [ Wed Feb 22, 2012 3:01 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Same old problem : Girl in my class
26 views but no friendly advice yet ? damn ! I expected more from the players at pua forum ! :)
Author:  Mr.Confident [ Wed Feb 22, 2012 8:23 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Same old problem : Girl in my class
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26 views but no friendly advice yet ? damn ! I expected more from the players at pua forum ! :)
One this quote makes you sound needy. U literally just did a DLV on yourself.

As for advice be playful and try to get her contact info and maybe study plan for a study date or something. You need to build attraction though body language and confidence and build comfort - though rapport. Have other things to talk about then just how smelly the teacher is and what not.
Author:  EzAlex [ Wed Feb 22, 2012 9:00 pm ]
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hey man theirs a bunch of things you can do,
Look good,
so when you go to class, dont dress all fancy and shit, but look good, where nice clothes.
smell good
obviously brush ur teeth, gum etc.. and have a nice colone on. these things are very obvious but, women really notice the smell of your breath or ur body odor, especialy if your gonna get close.
be funny
so this is very general but add in a funny comment whenever you get the chance.
look at her behaviour
examine ur Hb look around what time she gets to class so that you can the next day arrive at the same time for more chances to run into her. Look at where she usualy sits down so you can sit close. Look at how much time she takes to leave class, if its short then u gotta be quick, if its long then take your time.
All of these things are helping you, even if you have no game at all, if you get a chance to talk to her a few times, its much better then a pua with decent game and only sees her once. So you wanna maximises ur chances of having an encounter with her.
This could also include scoping out her friends, this is important, if you see if she has a friend in the class that she likes talking to or whatever, you wanna make friends with them as fast as possible. Essentialy you would want to pawn them ( so winning them over in order to get ur target ). Once you have made good connections with her friend or friends then your basicly in.
eye contact from time to time make strong eye contact, smile at her.
body language you want to look confident
social value althought this can be very hard given the situation, try to establish good conections with everyone, this might seem like its doing no good, but trust me if shes interested she will be watching you. Plus having a few friends alwais helps dosent it

Anywais man, these are just little tips, some you might no alwready.
Ezalex
Author:  Nightwing69 [ Thu Feb 23, 2012 12:08 am ]
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Sure try the study date and see how that fares, quite honestly, I've never believed in them. But, if she's really into you, it might work.

Say hi, ask about her life, major, what she likes to do after school, then say hey you seem like a pretty interesting person and ask for the number. :)

Always close with the girl if you feel like you've had a good conversation, sometimes, there's no second chances and they'll take it personally, or somebody else (especially in college) will plow them before your second meeting.
Author:  mintsauce [ Thu Feb 23, 2012 4:01 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Same old problem : Girl in my class
thanks guys. most are known but still good to go over it.
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26 views but no friendly advice yet ? damn ! I expected more from the players at pua forum ! :)
One this quote makes you sound needy. U literally just did a DLV on yourself.
everything has a time and place my friend, no law applies everywhere.
here, my object was to get some advice, since I was not trying to pick up guys, a bit of DLV is fine by me if it gets the job done.
Author:  *FlaiR* [ Fri Feb 24, 2012 12:47 am ]
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Stop thinking about DLV's or DHV's.. a true dominant man knows he has value all the time..your perceived status about yourself speaks volumes about you. A dominant man doesnt recall times when he lost "cool points" or I dont know what kind of behavior. He knows in his mind he's a first class male with characteristics that any women find attractive.

First thing you got done..you got ride of the opener..now it's game time. Stop thinking about things and being in your head. "What should I say?" "Fuck why I said that? Oh no fuck". Do not complicate things..it looks that she gives you some IOI's. Don't do what 95% of guys on the planet do: wait for more signs. You have your IOI's..you have to convince yourself 100% that she's attracted to you. Believing attractione exists even when it doesnt actually creates more attraction. Why? Simply because if you believe with every fiber in your body she wants you, when you will talk to her that will radiate as confidence and you will start to present high dominance cues that women are attracted to.

Start qualifying the soon as possible and see her responses. Qualification solidies attraction. Building attraction is like opening the door for her to come in..for her to enter your door you need to solidify attraction with qualification.

Good luck! Stop thinking and act. Focus on your actions. Stop being in your head. Fear is an illusion. Don't let illusions take control over your life!
Author:  mintsauce [ Fri Feb 24, 2012 6:34 am ]
Post subject: 
thanks, that's genuinely good advice.

I have no problems with shyness or approaching girls, just wanted to know how pua experts felt 'things should be done'. I have had my scheme of doing things with reasonable success. I learnt about PUA only recently, some things I had figured out myself, as anyone with common sense would, some I learnt here are new.

on to specifics.
question, there's another HB6 who seems interested (she opened and other signals). should I flirt some with her to get HB7 jealous or would that be a wrong move ?

next class is middle of next week.
Author:  *FlaiR* [ Fri Feb 24, 2012 10:45 pm ]
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Quote:
thanks, that's genuinely good advice.

I have no problems with shyness or approaching girls, just wanted to know how pua experts felt 'things should be done'. I have had my scheme of doing things with reasonable success. I learnt about PUA only recently, some things I had figured out myself, as anyone with common sense would, some I learnt here are new.

on to specifics.
question, there's another HB6 who seems interested (she opened and other signals). should I flirt some with her to get HB7 jealous or would that be a wrong move ?

next class is middle of next week.
Man again...you think too much!! Flirt with grandmas, cats, dogs, HB6's and HB 1's..you dont give a shit if it makes or not HB7 jealous. Everything turns around you your the center of the universe. Who gives a shit if HB7 is jealous or not? You want to talk to that HB6??? Do it. You dont want to?? Fine no problem. Theres nothing wrong by going and talking to that HB6. Stop thinking. period.
Author:  mintsauce [ Tue Mar 13, 2012 6:42 pm ]
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update : things are moving smoothly. kino escalation is going on nicely, she seems as interested in doing it as I am. all I have to do is take my hand near her and she would find a way to accidentally touch it with her body ! :lol:
I will take her out next time. not going to ask her or anything, just grab her at the end of class and head off. would have done it today but some other things came up.

p.s. thanks Valentyn, your advice was very helpful. I knew what to do but the additional boost does wonders.

p.p.s I swear by 60YoC's body language stuff by now. take a bow man.

I knew it was important, had no idea it could be THIS powerful. just take this class, I am one decent looking fat guy among a bunch of younger good looking guys with much better physique. and yet all the girls in the class seem to have eyes for only me, even the ones with (good looking) BF's. this shit is amazing.
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