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Author:  Black Jak [ Fri Feb 17, 2012 4:05 am ]
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Ok guys, scenario..

Your in a club where the music "everywhere" is so loud that to talk to more than one person would be impossible at the same time. You would have to go mouth to ear and scream to hear anything.

There's a load of dudes, all creeping on the girls. The dancefloor is totally jammed to the point that your just pushing people off you, not dancing.

Every good looking girl has guys around her just dancing and hoping to get in, so even the tall good looking ones gets rejected for any type of interaction with them.

Even if a girl likes you and is giving you looks, when you approach she just clings to her friends and pretends your not even trying to interact with her. Even if you take her hand etc.

Yes this has happened to me tonight , and every other night that I'm forced to be in a insanely loud club that's packed.

So what do you do to pull?????
And before anyone says " just take there hand and spin them etc".. Ive already tried every variation I can think of, multiple times.. Rejection straight off the bat.
Im a good looking guy so it's not because of that ( not bragging, just info).
This ALWAYS happens to me. I get pumped up for a night and end up not being able to use the material I have, because dancefloor game is the only option..
Any help would be so appreciated!
CCCCHHHEEERRZZZ
ps: I think this is a big prob for a lot of guys.

Author:  hippelo [ Fri Feb 17, 2012 4:33 am ]
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Ask her in her hear while keeping en eye contact or whatever : "do you really like this kind of dancing (in such jammed packed area of the dancefloor)?" if she says "yes" ask her why and she'll probably start to show you what she likes about it (shaking her ass or anything) if she says "no" (cuz in fact it's unpleasent to get pushed from everywhere while trying do dance ...) well you're in business, show her how to have more fun and isolate her to a calmer spot of the dancefloor where you could benefit from a better game.

(I already do this when I feel the dancefloor game isn't working well, I make her follow my lead...)

Author:  madfranc [ Mon Feb 20, 2012 1:02 am ]
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If your actually getting the IOIs on the dancefloor gambler demonstrates an interesting opening in his 'stealth seduction' dvd

Author:  Black Jak [ Mon Feb 20, 2012 7:19 pm ]
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Ive seen what he does. Ive tried that dancing back to back, then looking around " for your friend", but they don't tend to notice it all that much :/

Author:  _Action_ [ Tue Feb 21, 2012 4:38 am ]
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How is your dancing? Do you stand out or just nod your head like 95% of the guys in the club? Good dancing will help you. I make a point of dancing noticeably, and I'll just dance around firing negs into the ears of all the hot girls in the area.

"You need to work on your dancing!"

"I like your heels. How tall are you really?"

"I like your outfit. What animal died to make that?"

You'll number and kiss close on the dance floor no matter how loud the music is.

Author:  Black Jak [ Wed Feb 22, 2012 4:47 pm ]
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Hmmmm, well Im NOT that guy who literally stands on the dancefloor nodding. I'm very in my own world/ singing the lyrics/ a lot of movement type. I don't have incredible style or technique but I'd be better than 60% of the guys in a club in my town anyways.

About these negs.. how do you deal with your responses? Like if I were to say to a short girl , "how tall are you?? You're adorable!".. Or something like that...
If she smiled and responded well Id be grand.
But what would you do if she seems very cold to it, or doesn't reply and just looks at you etc..?

Author:  _Action_ [ Thu Feb 23, 2012 1:09 am ]
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If girls respond that way it isn't a neg. A neg is not an insult. It's playful.

"I like your necklace. Did you get it at a yard sale?"

Seems like a pretty weak line, but I've used it a lot. The girl will always laugh.

Author:  Flash Point [ Thu Feb 23, 2012 2:32 am ]
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black jak,

opening on the dance floor can be tricky because girls are so use to guys moving in to fast and getting grabby. you've got to be tactful and not go in too quickly. let the girl warm up to you first before getting physical. eye contact is one of the easiest ways to open on the dance floor. when she returns eye contact take it as an ioi - assume that she wants you to approach.

search my other posts i've commented regarding dance floor game. also, i'm a fan of this dude's material, he has good tips on his site (and his e-book rocks as well) so you may wanna check it out: http://www.flirt2thebeat.com/ i hope it helps!

Author:  coldghost [ Thu Feb 23, 2012 8:29 pm ]
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Seems silly to me really talking to a girl on the dance floor. The floor is where you go up and let your body do the talking. The energy vibrant, the music blaring, everyone knowing where the dance floor is supposed to dance. I don't get why you would need a line better than your body.

I just get up there and start dancing, having a grand ol' time, making sure everyone acknowledges my precense by improvising, sometimes being smooth and being cool barely moving my feet and moving to the music, or by being a idiot and dance so crazy depending on what is playing. Whichever the way, I notice I get alot of eyes to me.

Only then do I usually make my move by dancing with the woman, at first from a distance and escalating kino without saying a word. Only if the woman responds do I say something (which is usually a playful neg since the woman is "surprised" bitch shield up)

At least my opinion. The dance floor is for showing off your energy, creativity, and skills, not for talking.

V What he Said lol V

Author:  skills360 [ Thu Feb 23, 2012 9:47 pm ]
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Ok guys, scenario..
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Your in a club where the music "everywhere" is so loud that to talk to more than one person would be impossible at the same time. You would have to go mouth to ear and scream to hear anything.
First i advise not to talk in the club, just dance, talking annoying to women when they are trying to dance, plus you have to be repeating yourself, you will lose the girl, just go up to her and dance, club game is none verbal, if you have to talk which i recommend only do after she is into you and really invested or after make out, get really close to her and cup her ear...
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There's a load of dudes, all creeping on the girls. The dancefloor is totally jammed to the point that your just pushing people off you, not dancing.
yes, that is good, those guys have no game, what makes you different, show the girl you approach you got game and skills you are different... with that being said bitch shield higer in club game cause women get creeped out by guys with not game.
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Every good looking girl has guys around her just dancing and hoping to get in, so even the tall good looking ones gets rejected for any type of interaction with them.
women know that, those guys hesitating shows lack of confidence and no game,i call it parking, i just approach accidentally with confidence right away and start dancing with them...
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Even if a girl likes you and is giving you looks, when you approach she just clings to her friends and pretends your not even trying to interact with her. Even if you take her hand etc.
never grab at opening, unless latin music or latin beats, like shakira, pitbull or regetoon, no grabbing, and if she gave you ioi, and then girl coded to her friends, is because you took too long to approach shows lack of confidence, in her head "uhm he is cute but he is not a man, he takes too long to approach, no game, there fore he thinks i am above him, he does not have abundance of women, he is a beta"
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Yes this has happened to me tonight , and every other night that I'm forced to be in a insanely loud club that's packed.
Learn club game, club game different that all of the other games...
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So what do you do to pull?????
And before anyone says " just take there hand and spin them etc".. Ive already tried every variation I can think of, multiple times.. Rejection straight off the bat.
Im a good looking guy so it's not because of that ( not bragging, just info).
This ALWAYS happens to me. I get pumped up for a night and end up not being able to use the material I have, because dancefloor game is the only option..
Any help would be so appreciated!
CCCCHHHEEERRZZZ
learn game, and no do not spin etc... that is weak omg! Looks with no game, irrelevant, wait for my book and videos, learn club game, for now go on the lounge and look for mr. matt post on club game...

Author:  Black Jak [ Mon Feb 27, 2012 10:11 pm ]
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Wow man your making a lot of sense here. I'll admit that the only stuff I know is verbal (as in when you can actually talk). I havent a clue how to deal with non verbal game.. any links you could put up would be awesome! When do these vids and ebook come out!?? Would so want to have a look.
CCHHEERRZZ

Author:  skills360 [ Tue Feb 28, 2012 1:51 am ]
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Quote:
Wow man your making a lot of sense here. I'll admit that the only stuff I know is verbal (as in when you can actually talk). I havent a clue how to deal with non verbal game.. any links you could put up would be awesome! When do these vids and ebook come out!?? Would so want to have a look.
CCHHEERRZZ
working on it, go to lounge and look for mr. matt club game... closest to club game in the community is 60 yoc, aaron sleazy, gunwitch but the material does not really go into club game...Pm me for tips or questions or post them on the mr. matt threat at the lounge..or here..

Author:  Flash Point [ Thu Mar 01, 2012 3:11 am ]
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skills! hey bro, how you been? it's been awhile!

Author:  skills360 [ Thu Mar 01, 2012 4:21 am ]
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skills! hey bro, how you been? it's been awhile!
sup dude! mizzz u 3

Author:  Flash Point [ Tue Mar 06, 2012 1:45 am ]
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skills,

good to know you're still around. i've not been on the board in awhile. i actually was dating a chic i met when on the dance floor - not surprising :) anyways, that's over so i'm back on the prowl!

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