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| Author: | WarrenBuffett [ Wed Feb 15, 2012 4:31 am ] |
| Post subject: | Help with college opener? |
So I've been working on getting over approach anxiety and trying to open as often as possible. I have realized that spontaneous openings are much easier than planned ones. Theres this hb I see all around school at random times and I haven't been able to really open and transition. I was hoping maybe you guys could give some advice. The one time I did try to open, I couldn't figure out how to transition, (I'm pretty new to all of this). So I saw the hb in the gym and I approached and asked if I could jump in on the machine she was using (I legitimately needed to use the machine). I approached at an angle and didn't lean and all that,made eye contact spoke well,but all I got was a nod. She had her headphones in which sort of threw me off. I couldnt come up with anything to say to open her and she ended walking away when finished with the machine. Do you guys think I should still try and open her,or should I keep it moving to not risk coming off as a creeper? |
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| Author: | AmazingArt [ Wed Feb 15, 2012 5:49 am ] |
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It's interesting how guys think the girl decided whether you appear as a creep or not. In truth the only person who decides that is you. If when you talk to her you feel inside like your a creep she will feel that too if you feel you have the full right to talk to this girl and will give no excuses she will feel that strong confidence. I come up to girls and tell them weird shit and they still stand there and laugh because after I say what I say they look at me and see how I react. DO I look apolegetic for what I said ? Do I look nervous ? etc.. So the key for you now is to focus and changing your mindset. The biggest advice I can give you is be yourself and be ready to fail. |
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