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| Author: | Mr. Iceman [ Wed Feb 01, 2012 7:05 am ] |
| Post subject: | Advice for first move? |
So there's this HB 9 who I am trying to get with. She just recently broke up with her boyfriend and I have had multiple friends tell me that she thinks I am hot.. I want to make a move but im not sure what to do next. Should I send her a text and build attraction that way or just ask her out to do something in person. Any advice would be great. |
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| Author: | FCgame [ Wed Feb 01, 2012 10:05 am ] |
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Hey! You should know if she's in the right place to meet someone, maybe it's to soon for you so my 1st advice would be to call her and meet her , don't try anything you are there to know what's going on in her life. Once you know what is it that she wants you can work from there, the fact that she means you are "hot" doesn't mean anything so don't meet her with the intention of making out with her or anything. The whole idea of this meeting is to create comfort, ok? don't start asking random questions and prove her that you are genuine interested in what she's saying. Check this 2 videos I'm sure they can help you out https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7oga02d ... YkdGE8l04O https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BWeQJmd ... bxgZ5hWo_W Good luck |
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| Author: | Teh_Weapon [ Wed Feb 01, 2012 10:27 pm ] |
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I advise asking her out to do something casual but in person, it will be more effective than texting man: words are wind. |
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| Author: | Mr. Iceman [ Fri Feb 03, 2012 4:21 am ] |
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ok so if asking random questions is a bad strategy for getting to know her.. what would be a better one? |
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| Author: | Hakuna [ Fri Feb 03, 2012 7:55 am ] |
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This is completely the wrong approach. So long as you remain vivisecting the different ways you can approach a girl and over-analyzing the multiple ways you can fuck up, you will not be successful. Remember the ideas of challenge and having a prize mentality? Remember how you need to ESTABLISH higher value than a girl, to showcase your dominance and confidence? If you post here asking for suggestions, your entire dynamic with her is littered with the subconscious understanding that SHE IS ALREADY PEDESTALIZED. Best case scenario, it becomes reduced to intellectual masturbation and you absorb the thousands of different ways you COULD HAVE done better Instead, You need a balls-out cool as fuck attitude, one that surpasses the need to think "am I saying the right thing?" It doesn't matter what you say, 75+ percent of what you communicate is done through inaudible channels anyways. Kino, body language, tone, how you carry yourself, these things are infinitely more important. You don't need to find a method to approach her, just send her a text that says "Meet me at _________" That's it. The natural submissive gesticulations of women will never be eradicated. Women do not want to be asked, they want to be commanded. They are not decorations to be admired, they are meant to be consumed. You don't have to find some backchannel into her vagina, ask her for her number straight up. No fear, just do it. She wants a guy who can take control, a guy not afraid to display his secksuality. Random questions are fine, it doesn't matter how you approach. If you're asking random questions, see the situation as: "I'm asking these questions to screen you, are you worth my commitment?" Rather than "Oh shit am I boring her with these questions?" It's how you FRAME the situation and its context that matters. Discourse shapes reality. Fuck all the advise you're getting, fuck The Game, fuck PUA handbooks, fuck Alpha Male manifestos, forget all that shit. Do this raw without any fear. Go up to her butt ass naked, just you and your balls, and ask her if she's DTF |
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| Author: | Mr. Iceman [ Sat Feb 04, 2012 1:29 am ] |
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good shit.. thanks for the advice man |
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