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Did you know statistically 90% of communication happens non-verbally?

When picking up a woman, it is more important how you act than actually what you say. Knowing this, there are a ton of tactics you can use that will increase the percentage of getting her number. Here is one you should always be using...

One of the great salesmen, Brian Tracy, explains to his marketing clients that in order to increase the percentage of the client buying a product, you 'assume the sale' and approach the customer as if they have already decided to buy it.

You need to use this assumption method in your interaction with women and do what I call assuming attraction from the start. When interacting, it is essential that you act like your target is already attracted and interested in you. Get use to thinking that it is really you that is the catch you are just in the process of 'screening her' to see if she is worthy enough of getting her number.

For example, when approaching, never just walk directly up to her, face her, and start talking. Approach her with the mindset that you know she acknowledges you by taking your time and talking to her from the side. Directly facing her gives away your power instantly.

Also, when closing never ask for her number. Never say something like " so, can I get your number" and give her permission to say no. Assume the sale and say "Hey, I will put your number in my phone so we can continue the conversation later" and then start opening your phone right there.

Again, there are a tons of tactics you can use that subconciously increase your chances of success. Start with 'assuming the sale' as soon as you start your interaction and your chances of getting her digits will really skyrocket!

Hope this helps...if you have any questions feel free to PM me.

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i agree your actions are more important than the words you say and to assume the girl is attracted to you. The worst case scenario is that she isn't attracted whichs lets you know to move on to another girl.

What i disagree with here. Is not walking up to her and facing her directly. If the girl is walking (which many are during the daytime) approaching from the side comes across as weak. if she is moving and you come in from the side yeah many times she will acknowledge you and also majority of the time she will just keep walking. It will come across as creepy if you keep following her. Especially when she has to make a turn and you keep following her

If you are approaching with the mindset of assuming shes attracted to you, then you would also assume she is going to stop for you. I dont see how directly facing her gives away your power at all. jogging past her and then turning around with your hands in a stop motion signals that you mean business and that you expect her to stop for you.

also i have used the word "number" and girls will still give it to me. I also have had girls offer me their number making me not need to even ask for it. if you assume she likes you why wouldnt she give you her number?

Silence is your biggest enemy. Can't have it. Don't try to change subjects if she is actively interested in the topic. Just go with it.

I disagree with this as well. Silence + strong eye contact=GOLD. its how i build the sexual tension between me and the girl. its all about how comfortable you are with the silence

I agree with not changing the subject if shes actively interested in the topic. And guess what everyone favorite topic is? talking about themselves. get to know the girl as a person. asking questions like "why do you do what you do?", "what are your dreams?" and everyone has a answer to this one:"What do you want most in life? and why? are you passionate about that?

This sounds like great advice and something that will really help me from the start rather than waiting to receive IOI's later. My body language and hesitant words have likely put off more girls than I thought in the past, I have to remember I make the difference between losing them and keeping them.

Author:	pickupmasteryjd [ Wed Feb 01, 2012 2:27 am ]
Post subject:	Do This In Your Approach to Increase Your Chances!
Did you know statistically 90% of communication happens non-verbally? When picking up a woman, it is more important how you act than actually what you say. Knowing this, there are a ton of tactics you can use that will increase the percentage of getting her number. Here is one you should always be using... One of the great salesmen, Brian Tracy, explains to his marketing clients that in order to increase the percentage of the client buying a product, you 'assume the sale' and approach the customer as if they have already decided to buy it. You need to use this assumption method in your interaction with women and do what I call assuming attraction from the start. When interacting, it is essential that you act like your target is already attracted and interested in you. Get use to thinking that it is really you that is the catch you are just in the process of 'screening her' to see if she is worthy enough of getting her number. For example, when approaching, never just walk directly up to her, face her, and start talking. Approach her with the mindset that you know she acknowledges you by taking your time and talking to her from the side. Directly facing her gives away your power instantly. Also, when closing never ask for her number. Never say something like " so, can I get your number" and give her permission to say no. Assume the sale and say "Hey, I will put your number in my phone so we can continue the conversation later" and then start opening your phone right there. Again, there are a tons of tactics you can use that subconciously increase your chances of success. Start with 'assuming the sale' as soon as you start your interaction and your chances of getting her digits will really skyrocket! Hope this helps...if you have any questions feel free to PM me.

Author:	AFC_Suave [ Wed Feb 01, 2012 3:10 am ]
Post subject:	Re: Do This In Your Approach to Increase Your Chances!
Quote: Did you know statistically 90% of communication happens non-verbally? When picking up a woman, it is more important how you act than actually what you say. Knowing this, there are a ton of tactics you can use that will increase the percentage of getting her number. Here is one you should always be using... One of the great salesmen, Brian Tracy, explains to his marketing clients that in order to increase the percentage of the client buying a product, you 'assume the sale' and approach the customer as if they have already decided to buy it. You need to use this assumption method in your interaction with women and do what I call assuming attraction from the start. When interacting, it is essential that you act like your target is already attracted and interested in you. Get use to thinking that it is really you that is the catch you are just in the process of 'screening her' to see if she is worthy enough of getting her number. For example, when approaching, never just walk directly up to her, face her, and start talking. Approach her with the mindset that you know she acknowledges you by taking your time and talking to her from the side. Directly facing her gives away your power instantly. Also, when closing never ask for her number. Never say something like " so, can I get your number" and give her permission to say no. Assume the sale and say "Hey, I will put your number in my phone so we can continue the conversation later" and then start opening your phone right there. Again, there are a tons of tactics you can use that subconciously increase your chances of success. Start with 'assuming the sale' as soon as you start your interaction and your chances of getting her digits will really skyrocket! Hope this helps...if you have any questions feel free to PM me. Good stuff man. Brian Tracy is great for inner game. I've have just finished listening to the psychology of achievement and really love what he says about going in there as if you sold the product already, or in this case, go in there and right before you open, imagine already that the girl is attracted to you and gives you her number. Think that through your head. honestly, a lot of time I see a hot girl and I automatically think..."I don't know if its gonna work, but I'll give it a try"...Trying pre-frames failures. Have you gone through his whole program and intensively used this ? I'm thinking on taking on his 21 day challenge untill this stuff sinks into my unconscious mind. On thing to add in your post is to dress well and not to break eye contact. When I put on a suit jacket, v-neck tee-shirt, nice jeans and dress shoes. A lot of girls make eye contact with me and I end up attracting my kind of woman - classy, elegant.

Author:	Consequences_ [ Wed Feb 01, 2012 11:33 am ]
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I used to sell Kirby Vacuums. Everyday before work, we'd have an hour seminar on how to react to the customer and how to get them to buy something they wanted and not needed. This tine of my life was also probably my most sexually productive as well cause I was using the same sales techniques for my self as I was in the vacuum. Here's some key points I really focused on women. -Smile. No matter the situation. If she is talking about something negative, keep smiling and bridge her into a more positive topic. Whatever you do, just keep smiling -"Assume The Sale". This ideologue is correct. Talk to the woman as if she has already committed to the product. Never ask for permission to do or say anything. Instead of, "hey can I ask you girls a quick question". Say instead, "Hey girls me and my friend need your opinion...ect". Or when closing say what's going to happen rather than what you want to happen. "Ima be leaving soon, why don't you give me your number before I head out". Instead say, "I gotta leave, go ahead and put your digits in my phone" as you reach out your phone. -Never say "Number" when getting their number. The female psyche has developed and auto rejection to not give it to you. Not saying it doesn't work, but your chances of # closing increase when you don't use the word "Number". If you know the area code you can also use this neat trick. With you phone out, say, "Hey Stacy you number starts with 606 or 541?". Her natural reaction is to continue giving you the area code, followed by the rest of her digits. Sometimes they don't but you just say something like "Okay now the rest goofball" or hand her the phone and let her finish putting it in. -Say her name. REPEATEDLY. Not only does it help you remember, but by saying her name you automatically turn a stranger into an acquaintance and make your relationship personal. Goofy nicknames can help to as it only increases the level of personability. -When you exchange names, handshake is a must. It's polite and helps take you from stranger to friend. Also breaks the contact barrier. -Silence is your biggest enemy. Can't have it. Don't try to change subjects if she is actively interested in the topic. Just go with it. -You don't want to talk about yourself, BUT, you do want to give her a little bit of a backstory atleast midway through the conversation. This builds a relationship with her immediately getting you out of stranger danger zone. Hope this helps.

Author:	nuke123 [ Wed Feb 01, 2012 1:35 pm ]
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Cheers Consequences_. i really like the idea of approaching a set as if you would approach a salesperson. I can happily sell something to anyone but I have never taken this attitude and confidence out with me to a club. I really think saying the girls name is a must, not only are you moving away from being a stranger it also shows youve been listening.

Author:	chill46 [ Thu Feb 02, 2012 7:03 am ]
Post subject:	Re: Do This In Your Approach to Increase Your Chances!
Quote: Did you know statistically 90% of communication happens non-verbally? When picking up a woman, it is more important how you act than actually what you say. Knowing this, there are a ton of tactics you can use that will increase the percentage of getting her number. Here is one you should always be using... One of the great salesmen, Brian Tracy, explains to his marketing clients that in order to increase the percentage of the client buying a product, you 'assume the sale' and approach the customer as if they have already decided to buy it. You need to use this assumption method in your interaction with women and do what I call assuming attraction from the start. When interacting, it is essential that you act like your target is already attracted and interested in you. Get use to thinking that it is really you that is the catch you are just in the process of 'screening her' to see if she is worthy enough of getting her number. For example, when approaching, never just walk directly up to her, face her, and start talking. Approach her with the mindset that you know she acknowledges you by taking your time and talking to her from the side. Directly facing her gives away your power instantly. Also, when closing never ask for her number. Never say something like " so, can I get your number" and give her permission to say no. Assume the sale and say "Hey, I will put your number in my phone so we can continue the conversation later" and then start opening your phone right there. Again, there are a tons of tactics you can use that subconciously increase your chances of success. Start with 'assuming the sale' as soon as you start your interaction and your chances of getting her digits will really skyrocket! Hope this helps...if you have any questions feel free to PM me. i agree your actions are more important than the words you say and to assume the girl is attracted to you. The worst case scenario is that she isn't attracted whichs lets you know to move on to another girl. What i disagree with here. Is not walking up to her and facing her directly. If the girl is walking (which many are during the daytime) approaching from the side comes across as weak. if she is moving and you come in from the side yeah many times she will acknowledge you and also majority of the time she will just keep walking. It will come across as creepy if you keep following her. Especially when she has to make a turn and you keep following her If you are approaching with the mindset of assuming shes attracted to you, then you would also assume she is going to stop for you. I dont see how directly facing her gives away your power at all. jogging past her and then turning around with your hands in a stop motion signals that you mean business and that you expect her to stop for you. also i have used the word "number" and girls will still give it to me. I also have had girls offer me their number making me not need to even ask for it. if you assume she likes you why wouldnt she give you her number? Silence is your biggest enemy. Can't have it. Don't try to change subjects if she is actively interested in the topic. Just go with it. I disagree with this as well. Silence + strong eye contact=GOLD. its how i build the sexual tension between me and the girl. its all about how comfortable you are with the silence I agree with not changing the subject if shes actively interested in the topic. And guess what everyone favorite topic is? talking about themselves. get to know the girl as a person. asking questions like "why do you do what you do?", "what are your dreams?" and everyone has a answer to this one:"What do you want most in life? and why? are you passionate about that?

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Author:	pickupmasteryjd [ Thu Feb 02, 2012 6:15 pm ]
Post subject:	Re: Do This In Your Approach to Increase Your Chances!
Quote: Quote: Did you know statistically 90% of communication happens non-verbally? When picking up a woman, it is more important how you act than actually what you say. Knowing this, there are a ton of tactics you can use that will increase the percentage of getting her number. Here is one you should always be using... One of the great salesmen, Brian Tracy, explains to his marketing clients that in order to increase the percentage of the client buying a product, you 'assume the sale' and approach the customer as if they have already decided to buy it. You need to use this assumption method in your interaction with women and do what I call assuming attraction from the start. When interacting, it is essential that you act like your target is already attracted and interested in you. Get use to thinking that it is really you that is the catch you are just in the process of 'screening her' to see if she is worthy enough of getting her number. For example, when approaching, never just walk directly up to her, face her, and start talking. Approach her with the mindset that you know she acknowledges you by taking your time and talking to her from the side. Directly facing her gives away your power instantly. Also, when closing never ask for her number. Never say something like " so, can I get your number" and give her permission to say no. Assume the sale and say "Hey, I will put your number in my phone so we can continue the conversation later" and then start opening your phone right there. Again, there are a tons of tactics you can use that subconciously increase your chances of success. Start with 'assuming the sale' as soon as you start your interaction and your chances of getting her digits will really skyrocket! Hope this helps...if you have any questions feel free to PM me. i agree your actions are more important than the words you say and to assume the girl is attracted to you. The worst case scenario is that she isn't attracted whichs lets you know to move on to another girl. What i disagree with here. Is not walking up to her and facing her directly. If the girl is walking (which many are during the daytime) approaching from the side comes across as weak. if she is moving and you come in from the side yeah many times she will acknowledge you and also majority of the time she will just keep walking. It will come across as creepy if you keep following her. Especially when she has to make a turn and you keep following her If you are approaching with the mindset of assuming shes attracted to you, then you would also assume she is going to stop for you. I dont see how directly facing her gives away your power at all. jogging past her and then turning around with your hands in a stop motion signals that you mean business and that you expect her to stop for you. also i have used the word "number" and girls will still give it to me. I also have had girls offer me their number making me not need to even ask for it. if you assume she likes you why wouldnt she give you her number? Silence is your biggest enemy. Can't have it. Don't try to change subjects if she is actively interested in the topic. Just go with it. I disagree with this as well. Silence + strong eye contact=GOLD. its how i build the sexual tension between me and the girl. its all about how comfortable you are with the silence I agree with not changing the subject if shes actively interested in the topic. And guess what everyone favorite topic is? talking about themselves. get to know the girl as a person. asking questions like "why do you do what you do?", "what are your dreams?" and everyone has a answer to this one:"What do you want most in life? and why? are you passionate about that? yes i agree with you. if you are not sure what to say simply ask about her or what she is doing there. women love talking about themselves so use this to your advantage too.

Author:	silverito [ Fri Feb 03, 2012 3:20 am ]
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I always assume that. I mostly approach only when I see some IOI's so I am more than comfortable assuming she is interested anyway

Author:	.:Gambit:. [ Sat Feb 04, 2012 8:34 am ]
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This sounds like great advice and something that will really help me from the start rather than waiting to receive IOI's later. My body language and hesitant words have likely put off more girls than I thought in the past, I have to remember I make the difference between losing them and keeping them.

Author:	pickupmasteryjd [ Sat Feb 04, 2012 5:15 pm ]
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Quote: This sounds like great advice and something that will really help me from the start rather than waiting to receive IOI's later. My body language and hesitant words have likely put off more girls than I thought in the past, I have to remember I make the difference between losing them and keeping them. yea exactly gambit, the men who get women believe that deep down they are the catch and when 'picking up' a woman it is simply a selection phase in which they determin if she is worth getting to know not. Apply this in your pick up attemps everyday, even when it is obvious to others the woman you are approaching is much better looking than you.

Author:	ralphiedonj [ Mon Feb 06, 2012 3:59 pm ]
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awesome idea man! thanks i am going to try this next time and see how I fair

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