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| Author: | BLUU [ Tue Jan 24, 2012 1:32 am ] |
| Post subject: | First weekend out |
This was my first night out trying to walk away with numbers. Several of my friends and I went to a house party in the college town I used to go to school in. I did two Semesters there as an engineering student then dropped out because of partying too much. I tried to get women there but it was always awkwardly without much thought or many words said. It didn't go very well then. Tonight started off pretty slow, so I just tried to make conversation with as many people as possible. Nothing really happened for a while, until when we were leaving. Then the clouds parted and opportunity shined in my face. I'm out side smoking a cig with the buddies I came with, when an 8 begins her descent down the back steps of the house. I instantly lock eyes with her and greet her with a smile. She approaches me with, "you look like the guy who helped me put my coat in the bedroom upstairs." I took that as a sign of her trying to isolate me. Her friends were saying I wasn't that guy but she kept trying to convince me. I told her, "I get that a lot, [that I look like other people] but I can be that guy." No sooner had the words come out of my mouth when some guy she knew walked up and heard her saying how she needed her coat. As soon as he heard her he ran off up the stairs to go help her find it. She tried to stop him but ultimately ended up following him. Close, if only I wanted to help that girl as badly as that other guy. Next girl, 8, walks to the top of the stairs and hollers down to ask for a cigarette. I tell her I'm not just giving up a cigarette without a little bit of conversation. She lights up at the idea and hikes down the stairs to my circle. When she got to me, I tell her she had to "battle" me for it in a thumb wars. I told her not to cheat, but she instantly threw her elbow in the air and went for the kill. She got me and I would've called a rematch but my buddy standing next to me was reffing the bout and called it clean. So I had to forfeit my cigarette. My other friend looked across the street and thought he saw a cop. One of them might have been underage. So, they wanted to book it out of there. I quickly got her number and her response was "do you smoke anything other than tobacco?" I'm not going To answer that for you today. We left right after that. walking down the street this girl in a group of guys dropped her wallet. I said "nice hands, Feet." She mentioned how she was rich and had a bunch of ones. She said it made her look like a stripper but she was actually a waitress. I told her she looked a little more like a waitress than a stripper. She responded that she works at Applebee's on Monday and that I should go see her. Only problem, I forgot her name. |
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| Author: | BLUU [ Tue Jan 24, 2012 2:36 am ] |
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Saturday I really worked on my approach anxiety. My buddy [username pending] saw me get that number on Friday and was amazed that picking up girls could be a learn-able skill set. We were at a basketball game and by half time our team was down by twenty. We looked at each other and each knew that watching this game was getting old quick. He asked, "Should we go practice method?" I knew what he meant and we instantly started walking around trying to figure out where to start. Neither of us knew where to start so we just started pretending to recognize girls. "hey, Jessica, Weren't you at that party last night?" [learned quickly that giving her a wrong name made her less likely to even respond in words.] keep it vague. "Hey, I think I know you" "Hey, weren't you at that party Friday?" "I swear we talked for at least an hour." "No? You're in my environmental science class then." "Shit, you've just got one of those faces." "Wait, I know, we played soccer together last semester?" Doesn't matter where we said we saw them, after three questions they stopped trying to walk away. By the end of the night we had approached more than 30 women of all shapes and sizes. We started off opening every woman who passed regardless of age, attractiveness, or reason to be there. Most, at first, would look at their feet and walk away. Then as we got more comfortable we could drag conversations out for a while. We made friends with several members of the staff, got three free cigarettes and got a set of numbers out of it. I have never before approached that many people for no reason. It felt good. I approached a couple hundred people to get signatures for NORML once back in school. This felt like about the same thing except for way more interesting. I just need to learn to carry on a conversation with out letting interest wain. AA has always been my biggest problem. Now that I'm seeing my way around it, this will open up a whole new world of possibilities. Does anyone know any good funny openers? I will try anything and post responses here. |
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