PUA Forum :: She asks you for a lighter. Where do you go from there?

Okay so I really think that approaching a girl by asking her if she has a lighter isn't a good way to start a conversation. It is probably the most worn out approach technique.
On the other hand if an attractive girl asks YOU for a lighter it seems like such a waste to just give it to her and not try anything.
So my question is, do you guys have any suggestion on how to start a conversation from there? Lets, off course, stay away from all the "What will I get in return?" or "I'm sorry, I only lend things to hot girls ... joke*" as there a pretty lame ...

Make her qualify for the lighter.

"You can use it if you tell me three cool things about yourself."

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Make her qualify for the lighter.

"You can use it if you tell me three cool things about yourself."

I personally would NEVER do that. The fact is theres so many lads that can just give her a lighter why would she want to spend time explaining herself to you? Its to early for qualification i think.

I would say something like
Me-Sure*give her lighter* while your here quick question....
and go into your normal routine or whatever opener you want to use.

She is basicly opening you.

Or if you go direct i use
Me- Wow i just about to come over to you and claim i needed a light to start a conversation with you!
Her- *laugh*
Me- No but seriously your extremely cute..who are you?

Author:	Slaym [ Sat Jan 21, 2012 6:58 pm ]
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Okay so I really think that approaching a girl by asking her if she has a lighter isn't a good way to start a conversation. It is probably the most worn out approach technique. On the other hand if an attractive girl asks YOU for a lighter it seems like such a waste to just give it to her and not try anything. So my question is, do you guys have any suggestion on how to start a conversation from there? Lets, off course, stay away from all the "What will I get in return?" or "I'm sorry, I only lend things to hot girls ... joke*" as there a pretty lame ...

Author:	GetFamiliar [ Sat Jan 21, 2012 7:15 pm ]
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Quote: Okay so I really think that approaching a girl by asking her if she has a lighter isn't a good way to start a conversation. It is probably the most worn out approach technique. On the other hand if an attractive girl asks YOU for a lighter it seems like such a waste to just give it to her and not try anything. So my question is, do you guys have any suggestion on how to start a conversation from there? Lets, off course, stay away from all the "What will I get in return?" or "I'm sorry, I only lend things to hot girls ... joke*" as there a pretty lame ... Make her qualify for the lighter. "You can use it if you tell me three cool things about yourself."

Author:	griff_199 [ Sat Jan 21, 2012 7:37 pm ]
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Quote: Make her qualify for the lighter. "You can use it if you tell me three cool things about yourself." I personally would NEVER do that. The fact is theres so many lads that can just give her a lighter why would she want to spend time explaining herself to you? Its to early for qualification i think. I would say something like Me-Suregive her lighter while your here quick question.... and go into your normal routine or whatever opener you want to use. She is basicly opening you. Or if you go direct i use Me- Wow i just about to come over to you and claim i needed a light to start a conversation with you! Her- laugh Me- No but seriously your extremely cute..who are you?

Author:	GetFamiliar [ Sat Jan 21, 2012 7:44 pm ]
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Quote: Quote: Make her qualify for the lighter. "You can use it if you tell me three cool things about yourself." I personally would NEVER do that. The fact is theres so many lads that can just give her a lighter why would she want to spend time explaining herself to you? Its to early for qualification i think. I would say something like Me-Suregive her lighter while your here quick question.... and go into your normal routine or whatever opener you want to use. She is basicly opening you. Or if you go direct i use Me- Wow i just about to come over to you and claim i needed a light to start a conversation with you! Her- laugh Me- No but seriously your extremely cute..who are you? Making the target qualify for the lighter gives her the impression that you have high social value. She'll be thinking: "Who is this guy with the balls to not give me what I want when I want it?" You could bump it down to "Tell me one cool thing about yourself." if that would would make you more comfortable, but I would definitely make her qualify.

Author:	puanub [ Wed Jan 25, 2012 3:34 pm ]
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I would go more direct, something like this: Me: I only lend my lighter to cute girls, are you cute? "if she says yes" Me: Let me see "stare at her for a while with a little smile" then Me: okay i think you're cute "lend her your lighter", what's your name? then proceed... "if no" Me: i was just kidding, actually I think you're cute! "lend her your lighter" then ask her name then proceed with your normal routine

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