I would add her, but she somehow set it so people can't search her on FB
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| Author: | PUA_Trainee [ Mon Jan 16, 2012 8:24 pm ] |
| Post subject: | HELP! I think I messed up... |
So there's this girl i've been seeing around campus last year. i knew i wanted something, but i never approached her. i kinda just let it go and just moved on. i ran into this same girl at a house party (luckily) and i knew i had to approach her. I went up to her and said that i recognize her (or something like that), and in our drunken conversation, she said that "we met before," which i'm taking it as "i've seen you around campus." She then asked if I had an iPhone (which i do), and proceeded to put her number into my phone. That was pretty much it for the night. This is where it gets bad (i cringe everytime i think about it). I texted her the next afternoon saying "Hey captain black out! This is Rob. idk if you remember but you put your number in my phone so i just wanted to say hi!" Just as I expected (right after i sent the text), i got no response. Embarrassing, I know . I'm just wondering if there is any way I can fix this. I don't think texting her again is a good idea, or a facebook add. I'm not really sure who our mutual friends are, I don't really know anything about her (except her name), and I hardly ever run into her. I need help from the experts, what should I do? I think my only option is to wait and hopefully run into her again, but that just might not happen. Thanks guys! |
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| Author: | Mannix [ Mon Jan 16, 2012 8:36 pm ] |
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pretend it was a mistake, make it out that you either meant to text that to someone else or someone else had your phone. it really comes down to how good you are at covering your ass. also, add her on facebook, take every girl as a test of how good you are. measure yourself not by how many girls you can get but how many you can keep. never be embarrassed, that's when you start to make mistakes. |
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| Author: | PUA_Trainee [ Mon Jan 16, 2012 8:47 pm ] |
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I would add her, but she somehow set it so people can't search her on FB
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| Author: | Phoenix_ [ Mon Jan 16, 2012 8:59 pm ] |
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If you guys were drunk, you probably should have made sure her number was in her phone too( you could have sent her a text and asked if she got it) to make sure it was the right number. I would have asked for her fb info too. I would text her or call her again if your certain you probably won't see her again. If she doesn't answer, oh well, move on. Your gonna come across many flakes, its a numbers game at times. |
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| Author: | Mannix [ Mon Jan 16, 2012 9:06 pm ] |
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look ahead, enough thinking of the past. instead of waiting for that text reflect on yourself on ways in which you could have handle the situation at the first number close. the best way i've found when drunk is too look her in the eye, take her phone and enter your own number. when entering your name end it with a 'x'. this means your name will stand out in her contacts. do not take her number unless she offers first. asking for numbers feels needy and builds shitty foundations as to how she thinks of you as a person. |
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| Author: | PUA_Trainee [ Mon Jan 16, 2012 9:09 pm ] |
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Awesome tips. I definitely see areas where I messed up and areas where I could improve. Thanks a lot guys 
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