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Author:  SikGun [ Sun Jan 15, 2012 4:06 am ]
Post subject:  Opening at high school parties
So I'm in my last year of school, and the 18 birthday parties will be coming up soon, have the problem of opening and building attraction. Sometimes it comes naturally but most of the time it doesn't. Need some pointers in some openers and techniques to meet more girls.
Author:  Slip n Slide [ Sun Jan 15, 2012 4:24 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Opening at high school parties
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So I'm in my last year of school, and the 18 birthday parties will be coming up soon, have the problem of opening and building attraction. Sometimes it comes naturally but most of the time it doesn't. Need some pointers in some openers and techniques to meet more girls.
Oh yes! Way to throw me an underhand pitch. All about this one, I'm a senior in high school.

The key is to open immediately. Everyone. From the moment you walk in the door, as soon as you see someone you don't know, you introduce yourself. No hesitation at all. Each time you come upon a new person, immediately introduce yourself. It's expected at a house party, people WANT to meet each other. You probably won't remember most of their names later, but they'll remember yours.

The names you WILL remember are the names of the important people. They're cool, interesting, multi-faceted people, with a lot going on in their lives. If you aren't one of these types of people (I am, but through conscious effort) you'll have to fake it a little, but these are your new friends. The other people at the party matter, if in a conversation with any of them, really try to learn about them. But these important people are the ones you laugh and joke with, present yourself as one of their breed and they will accept you.

As far as girls, specifically. You can't hide your attraction. You're really going to want to, but you can't if you want to be successful. When you want her to follow you to the kitchen, you need to take her arm and say, while looking into her eyes, "Hey, let's go to the kitchen." NOT "Hey guys, let's go downstairs" or "Hey I'm going to the kitchen..."
That physical contact paired with eye contact does says "I want to spend time with you tonight" and that simple assertion is big. You can be more sexual soon, but don't try to pull off any big sexual moves in front of groups. Isolate, then close. Without those two steps, you're going to have a boring night.
Author:  SikGun [ Sun Jan 15, 2012 11:09 am ]
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So befriend everyone there, pick target isolate then close. My main problem is the DHV spikes in story telling and this is kind of where I lack the confidence to talk to them.
Author:  Eyrie [ Sun Jan 15, 2012 4:25 pm ]
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Its the same for me but I'm in the UK

If your lacking in confidence it will be obvious in your body language and it will be noticed. Tell yourself you're confident and you can do it should get you in the right frame of mind, if that doesn't work a bit of alcohol will help.

You being sociable with everyone should be a big DHV. DHV's I use when I have isolated the target are just me mentioning I'm in a rugby team, workout a lot stuff like that. Make sure its casual and brief and not blatant.

E.g Dancing with target and I want to further kino escalate on the couch
Me: Come lets go to the couch If dance any more I will collapse, had a intense leg workout today

Something like that and make sure you smile a lot.
Author:  Slip n Slide [ Sun Jan 15, 2012 5:06 pm ]
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So befriend everyone there, pick target isolate then close. My main problem is the DHV spikes in story telling and this is kind of where I lack the confidence to talk to them.
I don't use conscious DHV spikes at all. I let my own high value naturally present itself. I'm also a bad story-teller, maybe that's part of it.

When I'm in conversation, I demonstrate my value (without meaning to) by understanding the person for who they actually are and connecting with that. Respect only the things that are worth respecting. I have strong belief systems that I can talk for hours about, I have multiple hobbies to talk about, I usually have shared experiences with nearby friends that we can talk about.

While you're trying to tell a story, if a girl thinks you're being a show-off, she may stop reacting to it. Sit there sort of stony faced while you tell it. Don't stop, don't apologize, don't react. Keep telling your story, keep enjoying your story, and you'll come off looking better for it.
Author:  SikGun [ Mon Jan 16, 2012 12:36 am ]
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So being confident and having good body language can give a DHV?
Im having trouble contacting this girl I met recently during new years eve. She doesn't seem to use the social networks as much as every other high school girl and we seemed to hit it off really well. Any ideas how I can talk to her??
Author:  Slip n Slide [ Mon Jan 16, 2012 1:26 am ]
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Im having trouble contacting this girl I met recently during new years eve. She doesn't seem to use the social networks as much as every other high school girl and we seemed to hit it off really well. Any ideas how I can talk to her??
Nope. If you can't answer that, your chance with her is probably gone.
Author:  SikGun [ Tue Jan 17, 2012 3:03 am ]
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Hmm ok. Just got invited by my ex to go to party..is that such a good idea??
Author:  Slip n Slide [ Tue Jan 17, 2012 3:29 am ]
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Hmm ok. Just got invited by my ex to go to party..is that such a good idea??
I go to parties whenever I can. PM me questions if you have any specifically for me.
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