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Author:  superman1 [ Thu Dec 15, 2011 8:21 pm ]
Post subject:  Need advice on Mystery's social proofing on a girl...
Okay so i know this girl and shes likes me..but when shes with friends she likes to throw me under the bus as a practical joke and constantly shit tests me. this girl is very immature but nontheless what can i do to get this girl to chase me.

She LOVES being center of attention
Is a Control Freak!

Previously i did some Ross Jeffries openers on her and i got really good results like getting good morning text messages everyday LOL...10 days straight...=D

so for a girl like her...can i get her to chase me or value me more if i start using mystery's social proofing like for example talk about all the crazy sexually implied adventures ive had with my Ex-girlfriend..

What kind of responses do you think a girl of her caliber would make? Or should i open with the CUBE...do you think the cube will be more effective??

Thanks guys!
Author:  Chai [ Thu Dec 15, 2011 9:43 pm ]
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can i get her to chase me or value me more if i start using mystery's social proofing like for example talk about all the crazy sexually implied adventures ive had with my Ex-girlfriend..
Why would she want to hear about all the crazy sex you've had
with your ex? There's probably no attraction in the air for now
to go into that, if you do say something like that she'll
probably be thinking "Ok, why is he telling me this...?".
It's got to have a reason an point to it. Don't just
say "Oh I had crazy sex with my ex!" and then
she might neg you by saying "Keep telling yourself
that xD" Bam. Under the bus again.

I'd rather go direct about it. Next time you see her, just
ignore her and wait for her to talk to you instead if you can.
The way you can about doing that is by talking to either
a group or her friends first. By ignoring her and talking
to separate people besides her, you will gain social
proof from the others for being nice and friendly
while she'll be left out wondering why you're
not talking to her! She's the best looking
girl in the place, why WOULDN'T you
be talking to her? The reason for
that is cause you don't want
to seem needy in order to
lower your own value.
All while this is happening,
your getting social proof from
the other groups, and you'll get pre-selected
from your target!


When she does eventually talk to you or when you
get around to talking to her AFTER having
fun with everyone else, say this... "You know what...
I've got alot of girls in my life
and I have many friends that chill with me and
enjoy my company all the time and I'm going not
to blow them all off for you...tell me 3 interesting things about
yourself that would want me to get
to know you better."

This is a compliance test to see
if she can actually name 3 interesting things about
herself. If she complies, she will then begin to start
qualifying herself to you to seem worthy or interesting
enough to want to hang around with you. If she does
name something interesting about herself, lets say
she likes art, say "That's cool. HIGH FIVE!" (another
compliance test, plus kino) If she high five's you
you're doing well and she's complying with
you. Get her to name another, if she
says "I have a car" say "That is awesome! Up high!"
after that do another High Five and take her hand
and transition it into a quick hug (more kino)

Finally, after the 3rd one, do high five, quick hug
and make it seem like you want to move in for a
quick peck on the cheek. If
she moves away from you, you didn't build up
enough attraction but it doesn't matter...you don't have to feel
awkward cause she will think you wanted to kiss
her but you wanted to get a hug and her head was
just in the way. Regardless, if you do get to peck her
say this "Listen, before we go any further, I just
want to say that I'm bad news. I'm really bad
news. I'm, not looking for a relationship and
I'm not that kind of guy. So if you think
you're just going to get hurt by this,
you should probably leave now..."

That is the big part to see how really attracted
she is to you. If she just sits and does
nothing say "OK then..." then kiss
her on the lips. The chances
are that she won't know what
to do at this point is very high and
she won't get up and leave, so she'll just
be ready for anything next. When people
are suprised or just in a moment of
confusion, their
general response is to sit still
and not say anything! That is the moment when
the attraction builds up because you took the time
and the balls to say what you feel and plus
you got to know her a little without
seeming needy, that's a big DHV.

(All the credit goes to AFC ADAM for that technique by the way)

I think that's substantially better then opening
with The Cube don't you think...?
Author:  calif9876 [ Sun Dec 18, 2011 3:05 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Need advice on Mystery's social proofing on a girl...
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Okay so i know this girl and shes likes me..but when shes with friends she likes to throw me under the bus as a practical joke and constantly shit tests me. this girl is very immature but nontheless what can i do to get this girl to chase me.

She LOVES being center of attention
Is a Control Freak!

Previously i did some Ross Jeffries openers on her and i got really good results like getting good morning text messages everyday LOL...10 days straight...=D

so for a girl like her...can i get her to chase me or value me more if i start using mystery's social proofing like for example talk about all the crazy sexually implied adventures ive had with my Ex-girlfriend..

What kind of responses do you think a girl of her caliber would make? Or should i open with the CUBE...do you think the cube will be more effective??

Thanks guys!
Just curious, and I am not hiding any sarcasm or trying to insult, but, why would you want to be with someone like that anyway? That behavior seems like the tip of the iceberg for some personality issues. Is this just about sex or conquering?

On another note:

I think you are putting yourself in a weakened position by telling her about sex with another woman, that doesn't seem like valid social proofing, because talk is cheap and anyone could say that stuff. I think it will look obvious. If any woman fell for you talking about sex with another woman, shes got some issues, I would think.
Author:  Chai [ Sun Dec 18, 2011 4:10 pm ]
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Either that or she's horny.
Author:  calif9876 [ Sun Dec 18, 2011 4:13 pm ]
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Either that or she's horny.
I stand corrected. This is true and I have personally experienced this.

Asa
Author:  superman1 [ Wed Dec 21, 2011 2:12 am ]
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Either that or she's horny.
I stand corrected. This is true and I have personally experienced this.

Asa
LOL you guys are hilarious!

im basically trying to convert my self from an AFC to what i like to call PUA-in-training!

basically there is a birthday partying happening very soon and i know the birthday girl very closely and i know the target is going plus shes obviously going to try to steal the center of attention. its gonna be inside a restaurant/lounge and it involves dancing! so im trying to figure out a good strategy in

1) Ignore the target, say hi the first time then ignore!
2) Increase DHV amongst peers! i already have that since the bday girl is VERY cool with me!
3) Neg the target if she tries to insult or try to lower my DHV! =D
4) this is the part i dont know what to do! should i simply isolate the target! do the cube for jokes!? or should i just be a bad ass and grab the back of her hair like how mystery demonstrated within the kino escalation! Oh yeah i lack kino for sure i gotta build that up! man this is gonna be FUN!! wish me luuck guys!!

leme know if this plan is good/bad!! cause ive been studying Niel Strauss openers and i like the best friend test and who lies more men and women? all the good stuff!!! hmm but is it smart if i focus on multiple targets cause i dont wanna become needy!! gotta control myself!!!
Author:  Chai [ Wed Dec 21, 2011 7:44 am ]
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1) Ignore the target, say hi the first time then ignore!
Don't even acknowledge that she's there. Why she deserve the attention?
Does the think she's a special snowflake cause she just rocked up at a
party? I think not good sir. So what, she's hot, you've got other
interests besides talking to her. You're there to have fun,
hang out with friends and be merry, not be her puppet.
The second you become her dancing monkey its over,
you're the prize dude, make HER work for you and
make her qualify herself and validate herself to you later
so she can prove her worth to you.

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2) Increase DHV amongst peers! i already have that since the bday girl is VERY cool with me!
Increasing DHV doesn't make grammatical sense, just for future
reference just say "DHV among peers" :roll: Just sounds better lol.
If you demonstrate your value to her friends and be accepted in
their groups and show them that you're a fun guy you will
get social proof and the women will pre-select you.
This way your target will become indirectly
attracted. But hey, there could be more
than one hot girl there and you may
get pre-selected by her too...just
keep in mind what your fighting
for and why.

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3) Neg the target if she tries to insult or try to lower my DHV! =D
In the last part you said you would try to lower your value. Grammar is
your friend on this forum dude haha. Yeah, if she does try to insult
you just brush it off with a playful neg and make it seem like it
doesn't faze you at all. Why should it?

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4) this is the part i dont know what to do! should i simply isolate the target! do the cube for jokes!? or should i just be a bad ass and grab the back of her hair like how mystery demonstrated within the kino escalation! Oh yeah i lack kino for sure i gotta build that up! man this is gonna be FUN!! wish me luuck guys!!
The cube is kinda overdone, but if you REALLY want to then go ahead. But make
sure you have formed some initial attraction with her first before isolating
and running this routine on her. It's also a good compliance test, if you
just tell her you wanna do something called "THE CUBE" on her she
can end up using cruel sarcasm to disregard it at all.

As far as the hair pulling goes, if I walk up to a chick and
began pulling her hair, that would land me a hard hot slap
in the face :roll: Once again, form initial attraction with
her while kino escalating...then once you can feel the
spark, go for it. But don't tug to hard. Just grab
a bunch of hair from her scalp leading back of
the skull (the round part at the back of the head)
and lightly tug her hair. This takes balls and
must be done with confidence, purpose
and intent.
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