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Author:  Starkid1987 [ Sun Dec 11, 2011 7:45 pm ]
Post subject:  New member and approach question.

Hey guys. I'm 24 m from Phoenix. Been reading the game and enjoy it fully.

Have a question. Met this girl at a party. We've texted a few times. Anyway I had this convo occur and want y'alls advice lol.

I was attempting the whole random approach thing. Even though we've met in person and I didn't want to like "ask" her. So ya.

Me Hey what's up
Her Hi early ass
Me Did I wake you?
Her Lol no
Me Good. So I'm picking you up on my bike tonight at 8 right?
Her...no
MeYes
:-)
Her Lol no
Me Afraid?
Her No
Busy. Bye
Me Well another time perhaps

Author:  sh0gun0ftheast [ Sun Dec 11, 2011 8:18 pm ]
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Well to start, this is in the wrong section. Now to the critique. You came on way to strong! Almost demanding. You can't ask a girl to comply if she isn't comfortable or giving you an type of IOI's.

Read up on text game, escalating and building comfort. Also, I would start back at the beginning of the game and a suggested read is "The Pickup Artist" By Mystery.

Author:  jabmaster [ Sun Dec 11, 2011 9:28 pm ]
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Sometimes I think of pickup as fishing...

-set the bait
-see if the prey likes it
-pull the string

on other words... first give her something to enjoy (laughs, connection, make her interested) and after that you can invite

Author:  Starkid1987 [ Sun Dec 11, 2011 10:23 pm ]
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Ya Ive thought about it and should have asked when she would like to go for a motorcycle ride today. Or whatever. Vs saying it direct. Again im a newb at this and ya. Learned not to be completely direct lol.

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