Yeah, I'm glad you acknowledge it's a long shot, and anything you get out of this girl is bonus round.
Re: the text. I'd send it in the evening, maybe 8ish, which is usually a time when girls are asking each other what they should do. Try this:
Text No. 1: Hey HB, I'm going with a group of friends to (club) tonight. Bring some friends and meet us there.
At this point she can say, sorry I have plans (scratch her off the list permanently), tell you it doesn't work tonight but definitely hang out soon (depends on tone whether it's a blowout or sincere desire to reschedule), or she'll tell you that she'll try to stop by.
Text No. 2: Cool. We're taking a limo. If you and your friends want to ride with us, you can meet us (location and time).
If you can toss in some callback humor from what you learned about her during the Q&A, all the better. It would be nice for you to make some very subtle demonstration that you're going to be turning up the sexual tension this time.
If nothing else, you learned a valuable lesson: that you can't procrastinate sexual tension. You've gotta start immediately!
Heh, if she shows up, I'll lend you a little trick I like to use when the conversation's losing tension. Interrupt her and say, "Oh, did you remember you toothbrush?" She says, what? Why do I need my toothbrush? You say, "Because I don't want you to borrow mine -- that's gross!"
Obviously, you'll have to already have set the tone with some cocky / funny material, or this kind of trick is too over-the-top, but all the more reason for you to get you in that kind of frame of mind, where you're self-amusing and looking for sexual innuendo in everything she says.
Good luck!
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. I knew she wasn't in town so there was no chance of meeting up.