Cheers guys.
I just stopped replying to her and showing her i cared what she does... now she is eating out of my hand and telling me she wants to see me and a serious relationship with me etc etc
| PUA Forum https://www.pick-up-artist-forum.com/ |
|
| HEELLP advice needed! https://www.pick-up-artist-forum.com/viewtopic.php?f=51&t=122431 |
Page 1 of 1 |
| Author: | suarez203 [ Mon Dec 05, 2011 2:33 am ] |
| Post subject: | HEELLP advice needed! |
hi guys new on here so sorry if this is in the wrong area.. There is a girl who i have been talking too and we have got together but we live an hour apart and she states that she likes me and wants to be with me etc.. I am a good looking guy (not being big headed) and at first she did say she felt she wasnt good enough for me as other girls keep showing interest? but when ever i text her i can see she has read the messages but like doesn't reply for hours if she replies at all? and sometimes she seems really interested but most of the time she is quite blunt with me until i get annoyed .then she acts all sweet again? I always end up sending another sarcastic message in relation to her not replying or ask if she wants this to work etc..? Is she doing this to keep me right where she wants me and if so how do i make here stop and start showing me more attention? Any help would be great J |
|
| Author: | detox75 [ Tue Dec 06, 2011 4:31 am ] |
| Post subject: | |
always pay attention to what a woman does, not what she says. You analysis is likely correct, she wants your attention but probably doesn't really find you attractive per se. I would freeze her out and re-engage her later with specific compliance demands to prove interest on your terms. |
|
| Author: | Styles_Mo [ Fri Dec 09, 2011 3:06 am ] |
| Post subject: | |
Just a tip, when you respond to her not texting or calling back etc. You are actually showing neediness and are giving her the power in the interaction. You need to take the power back from her. Never send messages responses right back. Be unpredictable with your messages. When she sends one wait a couple min, next time wait longer, next time shorter. Never immediately answer as though you are desperate to keep the conversation going. Be the one to end the conversation, don't let her get the chance. And if she replies with something like what is taking you so long or why did you not reply then you know it is working; You don't need to answer this question either, just start talking. If she says something that you don't like, never respond. Just act as though she never said it and move on to the next topic or shift the topic another way. You do not want to let her know that she can control and affect your emotions. If she doesn't answer your question then let it go, and doing the same to her from time to time will also make her slow down on that. Also, the only way to have a relationship or to be with her in any other way, would be to see her in person. Make plans to see her in person. If she comes up with a reason or excuse why she can't, then make other plans and drop it, no asking why or giving your emotions of neediness to her ( like, I miss you so much I really want to see you, I feel like I am losing you or any of that.) Keep the power and make her chase you. |
|
| Author: | suarez203 [ Sun Dec 18, 2011 6:24 pm ] |
| Post subject: | cheers |
Cheers guys. I just stopped replying to her and showing her i cared what she does... now she is eating out of my hand and telling me she wants to see me and a serious relationship with me etc etc
|
|
| Author: | detox75 [ Sun Dec 18, 2011 7:29 pm ] |
| Post subject: | |
nice work, now adjust your game so you dont fall into the same old traps. If you behave as you did in the past, she will reassert that same failed mode of responding to you. Seems she is really hoping your going to be the person she wants you to be |
|
| Page 1 of 1 | All times are UTC |
| Powered by phpBB® Forum Software © phpBB Group http://www.phpbb.com/ |
|