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Author:  Rag&BoneMan [ Sat Dec 03, 2011 4:57 am ]
Post subject:  Club game approach
Hey so I'm relatively new to club game.

Went out tonight with friends to a student club. Great SPAM, I'm surrounded by good friends and feeling pretty confident. I leave dancing with strangers till later on having made out with a friend of a friend for a bit of the night.

Its 2:30 in the morning and I start to try things out with others. I'm getting eye contact from various girls but can't really establish whether I'm initiating it or not. On one or 2 of them I dance close to them usually touch their back with a hand, catch their eye, raise an eyebrow then they turn around and move away slightly.

This is a constant theme to my nights in clubs. Once I've got someone looking at me how can I approach them without them rejecting me as often? I haven't been able to establish anything non verbal because eye contact is too brief!

I know what I've written here sounds a bit of a feeble attempt. Please be as brutal as you want with this. I want to and will learn from this experience to better myself, but I do need advice. I'm open to any forms of advice :) fire away

Ta

R&B
Author:  GWhizz [ Sat Dec 03, 2011 6:02 pm ]
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Well, club game is mostly based on appearance and looks. But having fun and being alpha can be just as important.

And if you want to dance with a girl but don't want to get rejected to hard, I guess you could try this:
You step up to her and tell her: Hey I'm gonna have a drink/smoke/greet a friend/ over there, but I'd love to dance with you in a minute! So if you wait for a second, ill be right back okay?! ;)

If she says, no thank you. Then you'll say; okay but dont u come begging for me in an hour!
And I know the Okay? is a bit approval searching, but you have to give her a chance to say no, or else you'll wind up coming back to her while she's still thinking fuck off. :)


goodluck! ;);) playboyz united
Author:  Leauge [ Tue Dec 06, 2011 2:51 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Club game approach
Quote:
Hey so I'm relatively new to club game.

Went out tonight with friends to a student club. Great SPAM, I'm surrounded by good friends and feeling pretty confident. I leave dancing with strangers till later on having made out with a friend of a friend for a bit of the night.

Its 2:30 in the morning and I start to try things out with others. I'm getting eye contact from various girls but can't really establish whether I'm initiating it or not. On one or 2 of them I dance close to them usually touch their back with a hand, catch their eye, raise an eyebrow then they turn around and move away slightly.

This is a constant theme to my nights in clubs. Once I've got someone looking at me how can I approach them without them rejecting me as often? I haven't been able to establish anything non verbal because eye contact is too brief!

I know what I've written here sounds a bit of a feeble attempt. Please be as brutal as you want with this. I want to and will learn from this experience to better myself, but I do need advice. I'm open to any forms of advice :) fire away

Ta

R&B
I would suggest not to do the hand approach, several reasons:
First it seems to much like "nice guy" realm. When a women goes to a club they tend to be drawn to the more alpha man.
Try to caveman. If that really isn't your thing I would reccommend Gambler's four steps to party pickup.
Author:  "The Gift" [ Tue Dec 06, 2011 3:26 am ]
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I'm in Leeds.

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