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| Author: | amatpua [ Wed Nov 30, 2011 2:05 am ] |
| Post subject: | Situational question - is it fine ? |
I have just started sarging, the first time I went I was facing Approach anxiety so I kept it simple - I used a situational question like at what time the train services stop - it was an underground train station, all I talked to replied and then I could get under their radar a bit, so is this a good approach just start with anything till you get confidence, or in your experience different openers - like direct opener - I find you cute, have better results. I though will have to try them out, but I have to develop some confidence before that, so trying to get opinions first. |
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| Author: | Raiden2k2 [ Wed Nov 30, 2011 3:02 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Situational question - is it fine ? |
Quote: I have just started sarging, the first time I went I was facing Approach anxiety so I kept it simple - I used a situational question like at what time the train services stop - it was an underground train station, all I talked to replied and then I could get under their radar a bit, so is this a good approach just start with anything till you get confidence, or in your experience different openers - like direct opener - I find you cute, have better results. I though will have to try them out, but I have to develop some confidence before that, so trying to get opinions first.
When I began for the first time, I'd just ask the time, that was it. I'd smile and thank them. Then I'd ask the time and I'd tell them my phone broke and I need to get a new one and ask what service they had. Then I got a bit more brazen, and I'd go up to women and tell them I liked something they were wearing, and that I was looking for a gift for my sister, and ask where they got it. Then, after a few times of that, I finally started trying to pick them up. So, if you can move into conversations, your confidence is fine, and hey, whatever works. Do what makes you anxious enough, soon you won't be anxious.
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| Author: | LordCaine [ Wed Nov 30, 2011 5:35 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Situational question - is it fine ? |
Quote: I have just started sarging, the first time I went I was facing Approach anxiety so I kept it simple - I used a situational question like at what time the train services stop - it was an underground train station, all I talked to replied and then I could get under their radar a bit, so is this a good approach just start with anything till you get confidence, or in your experience different openers - like direct opener - I find you cute, have better results. I though will have to try them out, but I have to develop some confidence before that, so trying to get opinions first.
Congratulations on getting your feet wet. Beware of misleading information.An easy way to develop approach confidence so that you can actually try out your ideas, is to talk a walk someplace where there are people. Just smile and say "Hi" or "Good morning" to strangers you pass. That's men and women both. Then throw in some variety, "Nice hat," "How's it going?"... If you need an intermediate step, go to the bank and stand in line. Have a brief line conversation. These exercises, though simple, really get you in the practice of talking to people you don't know, and when you realize that the best way to start a seduction is to have that same easy, coincidental vibe that makes it feel so natural, all you have to do is approach the same way, just using something with a little more interest and conversation value. Good luck! |
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