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Author:  McFlyin [ Thu Nov 24, 2011 5:10 pm ]
Post subject:  Need party help!
Does the club rules apply to house partys?
Author:  GoldDust [ Thu Nov 24, 2011 5:44 pm ]
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Kinda. I would treat house parties kinda like a bar.

The speed in which you can escalate differs too.

Club= Fast Escalation
Bar= Medium Escalation

Of course the music will be booming but it's not so loud you can't hear each other clearly. MM for house parties is good. Move around the sets, build social proof etc you get the drift.
Author:  McFlyin [ Thu Nov 24, 2011 6:54 pm ]
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could you specify on building social proof ? Should i just go around high-fiving everybody?
Author:  GoldDust [ Thu Nov 24, 2011 8:35 pm ]
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Personally I don't actually social proof at all. I'm good looking and I think that alone gets me IOIs and I can just take my pick whenever they show me interest.

Going around hi fiving people at a house party would be a little weird. You could just show you are a social guy and know a lot of people. Normally you would know a few people anyway, depending on who invited you. Just be social with everyone and people will pick up on it that you're a guy worth talking to.
Author:  J Slay [ Thu Nov 24, 2011 9:00 pm ]
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yo dude, ive been thinking about this question alot lately too. House parties do have different sets of rules. the dance room of the house can be considered a club but the rest of the house is like a bar, but also you may know these people at the house, so its like a college party where its a closed loop...

i just think combine some of the rules for each and use them whenever and wherever you are in the house... but i just recommend going with the flow and being natural at house parties.

but house parties, you are supposed to be with friends. Have fun and when the girls have arrived and have had a good amount of alcohol (many house parties dont start to become fun until the girls have done their second or third shot lol) then you start focusing on the chicks instead of your bros.

but make sure your frame is congruent throughout the night, that is the biggest thing i have seem. a change in personality and frame can cause you to look creepy lol.

im trying to write up a college party list of rules, ill post it on my college thread j-slays-college-thread-vt119121.html?highlight= when it is completed

J Slay
Author:  McFlyin [ Fri Nov 25, 2011 12:29 pm ]
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thanks a lot its now to late but gonna try it at the next one
Author:  gointothetop [ Fri Nov 25, 2011 3:25 pm ]
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House parties come with one major difference too bars. People go to house parties because usually they already know someone that's there. Your best game plan at a house party is to build legitimate social proof. You want to be the guy at the party that everyone knows. Personally for this reason I enjoy being the one to host the party that automatically gives you leadership and social proof but you have to know how to use that. In Bars no one knows anyone else except the people at tables. I would say at a house party if you don't know alot of ppl you're gonna need some awesome DHV routines. Do a couple magic tricks entertain a small crowd tell a story about your ex and make everyone laugh and then roll off. The girls will follow of course you need some pretty awesome skills to actually pull that off but it can be done.



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Author:  EvilBlond [ Fri Nov 25, 2011 7:33 pm ]
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club and party rules? can you please share a link?
please try to give links with more like examples rather than theoretical stuff. :)

Thanks
Author:  achilles1 [ Fri Nov 25, 2011 8:16 pm ]
Post subject:  goldust
"

Personally I don't actually social proof at all. I'm good looking and I think that alone gets me IOIs and I can just take my pick whenever they show me interest."

dude i don't get it ... why are you learning this stuff if you'r so "good looking"
stop being so cocky ... wtf is a person learn from an answer like that ... and i'm sure you'r not "all that" if you'r in this forum that's a Ridiculous reply to this question.
Author:  gointothetop [ Fri Nov 25, 2011 9:31 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: goldust
[quote="achilles1"]"

Personally I don't actually social proof at all. I'm good looking and I think that alone gets me IOIs and I can just take my pick whenever they show me interest."

dude i don't get it ... why are you learning this stuff if you'r so "good looking"
stop being so cocky ... wtf is a person learn from an answer like that ... and i'm sure you'r not "all that" if you'r in this forum that's a Ridiculous reply to this question.[/quote]

Agreed...
Author:  shyanddangerous [ Tue Nov 29, 2011 6:00 am ]
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The levels of escalation is far apart in my opinion.
Author:  Celtic-hero [ Tue Nov 29, 2011 2:20 pm ]
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Hi,

i think a good thing by a home party that the girls coudn't leave the party. So you have time to spot one out and think about a good opener.

And if you dont have any social proof. Just play the " iam the new one" game. Its always work. You just be smart because nobody knows anything of you.
Author:  Warmth [ Tue Nov 29, 2011 3:59 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: goldust
Quote:
"

Personally I don't actually social proof at all. I'm good looking and I think that alone gets me IOIs and I can just take my pick whenever they show me interest."

dude i don't get it ... why are you learning this stuff if you'r so "good looking"
stop being so cocky ... wtf is a person learn from an answer like that ... and i'm sure you'r not "all that" if you'r in this forum that's a Ridiculous reply to this question.
I go to houseparties all the time, and girls usually follow me around, even when I don´t know anyone there. That doesn´t mean I can learn more from this forum
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