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| Author: | xvxv3ndetta [ Sat Dec 01, 2007 8:26 am ] |
| Post subject: | Opening a person.. whos not in the mood to talk |
I'm having trouble with this one. Im decent with people who are already talking. But what about a person who just dosent feel talkative that day? Openers dont seem to work on this girl. At least it dosent seem like it. She takes them as just pointless questions I guess. I might be doing it wrong, but I seem to be able to get in a conversation with others. Any thoughts? |
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| Author: | PUA to be [ Sat Dec 01, 2007 9:10 am ] |
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Im no expert but what i have noticed about girls who dont like to talk much is dont waste your time. Like i was after this one HB8 no matter what i tryed i couldnt get anything but a lame ass one word answer from her for some reason she just isent the talkative type. I might sound AFC here or whatever but i would just say screw it bro there are many many more HB's out there that will talk |
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| Author: | xvxv3ndetta [ Sat Dec 01, 2007 8:00 pm ] |
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I've actually thought about that. But since I have your input I might as well implement that. |
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| Author: | tic-tac [ Mon Dec 03, 2007 2:07 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Opening a person.. whos not in the mood to talk |
Quote: (... ) But what about a person who just dosent feel talkative that day? (...)
open - depends of situation... Any thoughts? And after that: talk, talk and talk about something interesting and funny... Dont wait for her answer, dont look for reaction or understanding... and sooner or later she starts talking to you... But preferable if you try this on a girl who is seating in a coffe shop (or something like that) so you have more time to talk. |
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| Author: | raycasanova [ Mon Dec 03, 2007 2:54 pm ] |
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Have a funny opener, no stupid opinion opener. Those are used to death, come up with something situational. Hopefully it's spontaneous enough to ath them off guard, if they're uneasy about the joke or w/e neg em. If they're bitches about it move on who cares. |
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| Author: | The Wild One [ Mon Dec 03, 2007 3:40 pm ] |
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I've come to understand in some part of our game we have to become good entertainers. Now look at those around you that interest you, and entertain you. A girl thats bored or angry isn't a lost cause you may want to ask her a question then listen to her problem. You can steer her to different emotional states and this comes threw acquired knowledge using MM, The Game, and all your resources available. Also practice will allow you the ability to better read this situation. I've seen guys not realize a girls mood and neg thinking they are running text book game to only piss her of and be blown away. You need to understand situational game and this comes with practice. |
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| Author: | Desmaro [ Tue Dec 04, 2007 4:54 am ] |
| Post subject: | there are times. |
Sometimes HB's don't want to be PU'd. You don't want to say the wrong thing and her father died or something. If you can tell whether her attitude is a Bitch shield or emotional/mental stress will influence whether you should game her or not. In either case be smooth, and gracious. "Hey have a great day, cool talking to you" cooly leave. |
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| Author: | kremie [ Tue Dec 04, 2007 6:01 am ] |
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rule number one is to never try, make them try. |
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| Author: | The Bad Guy [ Tue Dec 04, 2007 9:31 am ] |
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You have to think outside the box, be the exception to the rule. I like to come in with a slightly higher energy level. I try to refrain from asking questions if they aren't talkative. INSTEAD make open-ended statements. |
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| Author: | xvxv3ndetta [ Tue Dec 04, 2007 12:36 pm ] |
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Wow, how could I forget that? Thanks, you all have reminded me of a little something I can do. |
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| Author: | Crasher [ Wed Dec 05, 2007 12:19 am ] |
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i dont know if it will work but seem like ur in a bad mood too a worse mood then they are do somthing to spark a conversation like fake talk on a cell phone and say out loud that your grandma died or whatever then you hang up the phone and either ask if she was easdropping or apologise for being loud shell say im sorry for ur loss then say what made her to be in such a bad mood instant conversation misery loves company warning friend zonebe sure to avoid it also i would use this as a last resort |
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