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| Author: | Sluggler [ Thu Nov 03, 2011 3:39 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Walking In College Approach and Openers |
Okay so i struggle with stopping girls to talk. Here at my college i see about 5 or 6 10's on average each day. But when i see them, they are either walking in the opposite direction or walking away. I cant figure out a way to actually stop them with something interesting. It seems like if i did this i would come off as a weirdo or a total AFC. It is much harder to talk to a girl why she is walking pass, than when she is sitting down in a cafe, library, bar, or party. Ive managed to number-close 2 girls sitting in the library. I just cant seem to get enough balls to stop and draw FULL attention by stopping a girl who is walking pass. Also ive been on the game for about 3 weeks now. I get nervous before i approach a female trying to figure out how she will accept my approach. Any tips on over coming this? Any suggestions? |
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| Author: | Valor91 [ Thu Nov 03, 2011 10:44 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Walking In College Approach and Openers |
I have the same problem as you too - so I'm just pulling stuff out of my ass. I suppose that maybe there aren't many guys that do approach them when they are walking. I am guessing that it's the same fear of being rejected, not from being perceived as a weirdo. |
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| Author: | Sluggler [ Fri Nov 04, 2011 10:21 am ] |
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Yeah you are probably right man. But still it has to be something. I have no problem when i see a girl setting by herself or at a coffee chop, in the library, ect. Its just something about stopping women in public that i struggle with. Hopefully someone will leave some tips. I mat actually give it a try for the first time today, and see how it goes. |
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| Author: | VV Cephei [ Fri Nov 04, 2011 5:14 pm ] |
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I've been thinking about the same thing too. I often see so many nice looking girls that are walking down the hallways, but I don't seem to see as many that are simply sitting by themselves. Plus, a lot of the time people seem to be in a rush when they're walking or seem like they have someplace to get to, so that makes it a bit harder to stop them with an opener. |
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| Author: | bullshitter1 [ Fri Nov 04, 2011 6:06 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Walking In College Approach and Openers |
Quote: Also ive been on the game for about 3 weeks now. ?
Uh just so as you know in the UK being on the game means being a prostitute hahahayou may have been practicing your game for 3 weeks or spitting game for 3 weeks but u aint been on the game OK... second stop em and ask the time, directions, or whatever trivial bullshit u can think of to open them...then spit some game right in their faces hahahahahaha |
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| Author: | Darkie [ Fri Nov 04, 2011 10:50 pm ] |
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Just what he said. Do just what he calls himself, bullshit!! Lol Simply ask a directional question, or if they in a big group ask an opinion question. Excuse me, can you tell me where the registrar is? There seems to be something wrong with my financial aid and i cant find registration anywhere. (ya i kno i said financial aid an registrar which are 2 opposite offices, but remember we're bullshitting so we can get a convo going and checking for ioi's) One of the girls will point out the mistake and heres when you start the c&f or the negging. Another opener, hey girls i know your prob in a rush but i need a female point of view real quick. Then ask a question. I usually use the, my ex is on the rebound, and wont stop calling me. Should i answer or ignore? That will def get a good convo going. Give those a try and let me know how it works for you. |
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| Author: | gulaz [ Sun Nov 06, 2011 1:58 am ] |
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Day game, IMO, requires balls. Especially in college, because at day, normal girls are not focused in meeting men. Ask trivial stuff like "what time is it?" is a way to aproach not looking a weirdo freak, but that's it? That's all? |
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| Author: | MacReady [ Sun Nov 06, 2011 2:52 am ] |
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The reason I never really attempt that is because I don't think I could say anything to some random walking girl to get her engaged in a conversation. I can go up and say "hey! your hot!" and then just stare at her and look dumb. Though that might be because I'm 6 months coming out of extreme non-socialness. Also in a better world game would be "hey! your hot!" and then you take her to your place. |
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| Author: | Cha-Bra [ Mon Nov 07, 2011 11:45 am ] |
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Saying hi is easy enough. Useualy the cute ones will say hi back or have a short smile with you. If you both got time to talk that is best. Next is raising attraction and I am not the best with that. I get laughs and know that I raise comfort but attraction is my day game sticking point. |
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| Author: | johnleo128 [ Tue Nov 08, 2011 8:35 am ] |
| Post subject: | what to do if she does't have reaction |
saying hi is easy but the problem is how they react ? and what to do if she does't have reaction.... plzz tell me .... thank you |
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| Author: | Pinocchio [ Tue Nov 08, 2011 11:32 am ] |
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| Author: | Oshik [ Wed Nov 09, 2011 7:12 am ] |
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You: Hello, what are you studying? Her: Philosophy You: What? Why? What can you do with a B.A in Philosophy (you can use a neg here) Her: blah blah blah That's a good way to open, but I don't know how to go from here. |
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| Author: | alddur [ Mon Jan 02, 2012 5:55 pm ] |
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Man I feel with you. So hard to game at school. The girls aren't expecting to get picked up and they aren't in the mood , but use it to your advantage, the "bitch shield" is gone. Also they will always answer you, because they don't want to seem rude or as if they are thinking they are better then you (even though they do, and you have to show them that they aren't later). It's easy to open with something casual as the other guys have said, just to get them to stop, and then run your game |
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