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Author:  Michaelson996 [ Thu Nov 03, 2011 8:32 am ]
Post subject:  Day Openings In College
Hello, I am new to the game and as of right now have virtually no experience beyond smalltalk and even then it can be tough. So are there any good openers for the day in a college environment?

Thanks you in advance.
Author:  JustAsk [ Thu Nov 03, 2011 10:03 am ]
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Ask the way to a classroom, or ask for a lighter. Ask where to buy drinks, ... and so on. It's a very direct question and I use the kind of answer to see where it's going.

Sometimes they answer to your question while passing by without stopping to explain. Not a good sign. But if they answer friendly, go on and ask more. Try to get out the college talk quickly. Ask her name, where she lifes, and so on.

So open with a simple question, then move the conversation quickly away from the college relevant part. Don't start to question what's she doing, if she likes the college, if she have a lot of work to do for college... That's way to standard approaching. Just be direct. Talk about 5 minutes, your first 2-3 lines about college, then ask her name, have a nice conversation and end the conversation with the suggestion you think it will be great to have a drink later on. Like 'Thanks a lot for the help! I'll own you a drink, where do we meet up?'. If she doesn't give you her number, say you have to go and tell her you will send her a text or give her a call later on that day. *get the number* *go away* *call her after she ended class*

Important! You have to call her soon, best moment is if you know when she ended class. Give her the time to eat something and meet up at a bar, or other nice place. Don't let her wait untill the evening. And don't start sending textes while she or you have class. If she's done with class at 5 o'clock, call her 10 minutes later.

Good luck my friend.
Author:  Michaelson996 [ Thu Nov 03, 2011 1:14 pm ]
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Ask the way to a classroom, or ask for a lighter. Ask where to buy drinks, ... and so on. It's a very direct question and I use the kind of answer to see where it's going.

Sometimes they answer to your question while passing by without stopping to explain. Not a good sign. But if they answer friendly, go on and ask more. Try to get out the college talk quickly. Ask her name, where she lifes, and so on.

So open with a simple question, then move the conversation quickly away from the college relevant part. Don't start to question what's she doing, if she likes the college, if she have a lot of work to do for college... That's way to standard approaching. Just be direct. Talk about 5 minutes, your first 2-3 lines about college, then ask her name, have a nice conversation and end the conversation with the suggestion you think it will be great to have a drink later on. Like 'Thanks a lot for the help! I'll own you a drink, where do we meet up?'. If she doesn't give you her number, say you have to go and tell her you will send her a text or give her a call later on that day. *get the number* *go away* *call her after she ended class*

Important! You have to call her soon, best moment is if you know when she ended class. Give her the time to eat something and meet up at a bar, or other nice place. Don't let her wait untill the evening. And don't start sending textes while she or you have class. If she's done with class at 5 o'clock, call her 10 minutes later.

Good luck my friend.
Thanks alot for the advice, and I also have a question tangent to this sadly. How do you keep the conversation going? Earlier while I was in line for breakfast I attempted to chat up a girl and I asked her "Was she in my FYE class" as an opener. I knew that she wasn't but obviously that wasn't the point. Once she responded she doesn't know I elaborated on my class and then stated that this was a simple mixup and that it happens to me all the time; she said it happens to her a lot too and laughed, then I changed the topic to the omelets we were getting. Thats were I hit a roadblock, I couldn't continue think of something to say after she responded about how she liked omelets I was left speechless. She got her omelet and left. Any tips on how to prevent this from happening again, I usually don't talk to girls outside of parties and even then when dancing I can't hold a conversation.
Author:  Psychopath [ Thu Nov 03, 2011 2:05 pm ]
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She got her omelet and left. Any tips on how to prevent this from happening again, I usually don't talk to girls outside of parties and even then when dancing I can't hold a conversation.
One thing you will eventually learn is that you can pretty much say anything. Just talk...talk about anything lol.

Just to give you an idea of the concept I am talking about:

You : So you like omlets?
Girl : Yeah.
You : Damn do these have onions and green peppers? I love those in my omlets.
You : Do you like those in ur omlet?
Girl : Not particularly.
You : Well I like that crunch and the kick it gives to it, you know? So where are you going to sit?

Sorry I can't give you more but alot of my conversation is situational and based on what I'm reading from the moment so it's hard to make stuff up. I hope you got an idea of what I mean though.

Side note about college girls since I am a college student myself:

Many of them play games and will purposefully lead you on after you initiate conversation with them. Some will go so far as to approach you first and flirt, give what you all call IOI's, then as soon as you start hitting on them, they let you know quickly that they "aren't interested". They do it to boost their own ego - to say that they have people who want them. So if you're finding that you can't get that shit past friendship, just know it's like that for everyone. lol

You best bet is at a party or club and not going up to some girl in a cafeteria line - unless all you want is friendship. :D
Author:  Michaelson996 [ Thu Nov 03, 2011 3:11 pm ]
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She got her omelet and left. Any tips on how to prevent this from happening again, I usually don't talk to girls outside of parties and even then when dancing I can't hold a conversation.
One thing you will eventually learn is that you can pretty much say anything. Just talk...talk about anything lol.

Just to give you an idea of the concept I am talking about:

You : So you like omlets?
Girl : Yeah.
You : Damn do these have onions and green peppers? I love those in my omlets.
You : Do you like those in ur omlet?
Girl : Not particularly.
You : Well I like that crunch and the kick it gives to it, you know? So where are you going to sit?

Sorry I can't give you more but alot of my conversation is situational and based on what I'm reading from the moment so it's hard to make stuff up. I hope you got an idea of what I mean though.

Side note about college girls since I am a college student myself:

Many of them play games and will purposefully lead you on after you initiate conversation with them. Some will go so far as to approach you first and flirt, give what you all call IOI's, then as soon as you start hitting on them, they let you know quickly that they "aren't interested". They do it to boost their own ego - to say that they have people who want them. So if you're finding that you can't get that shit past friendship, just know it's like that for everyone. lol

You best bet is at a party or club and not going up to some girl in a cafeteria line - unless all you want is friendship. :D
Thanks, I prefer party SPAM but It's the weekday and I only have time on weekends as I have early morning class.
Author:  JustAsk [ Thu Nov 03, 2011 8:52 pm ]
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Many of them play games and will purposefully lead you on after you initiate conversation with them. Some will go so far as to approach you first and flirt, give what you all call IOI's, then as soon as you start hitting on them, they let you know quickly that they "aren't interested". They do it to boost their own ego - to say that they have people who want them. So if you're finding that you can't get that shit past friendship, just know it's like that for everyone. lol
That's why I say you need a short conversation with a number-close.

You approach a girl with a question to explain something (where the classroom A 0.07 is? Where they have coca cola? what's the best food in the restaurant today?)

*bla Bla*
You: Ok, I really have to go. But I own you a drink! I appreciate your help!
Girl: No problem, your welcome *and maybe some other stuff*
Y: Where will we meet up?
G: Uhm..*she thinks*
Y: I have to go, what's your number, I'll call you.
G: *gives number*
Y: *goes away*

And you call her as I said before.

What's good about this?!

1) If she's just checking how hot she is, she will not respond positive on your question to meet up again. As if, she won't give her number.
2) Even if she gives her your number and she doesn't like you. She will hesitate to meet up again if you call.
3) Positive: You had a short talk and you'll feel quickly if there is a need to go on with the target, or just leave her alone. So you don't have to conversate half an hour to see if she's just friendly or pleasing her ego.

Don't try to keep up the conversation as long as possible. The time of the conversation doesn't say if your set is working or not. When you feel the conversation is ended, go over to the set above and leave. If she likes to talk to you, let the conversation as long as she need and it's a natural conversation. Do not try to say stupid little things, where you push her to answer, when you see she's responding not so much.

A lot of guys think that when they talk to a target for about 2 hours she will surely kiss them... Some of them are just friendly and like to have a nice conversation. This set is designed to get the target back to you and she will respond positive if she want to get back to you. if she's just enjoying your funny accent, she'll never call you or come after you to another club.
Author:  Psychopath [ Fri Nov 04, 2011 1:37 am ]
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Many of them play games and will purposefully lead you on after you initiate conversation with them. Some will go so far as to approach you first and flirt, give what you all call IOI's, then as soon as you start hitting on them, they let you know quickly that they "aren't interested". They do it to boost their own ego - to say that they have people who want them. So if you're finding that you can't get that shit past friendship, just know it's like that for everyone. lol
That's why I say you need a short conversation with a number-close.

You approach a girl with a question to explain something (where the classroom A 0.07 is? Where they have coca cola? what's the best food in the restaurant today?)

*bla Bla*
You: Ok, I really have to go. But I own you a drink! I appreciate your help!
Girl: No problem, your welcome *and maybe some other stuff*
Y: Where will we meet up?
G: Uhm..*she thinks*
Y: I have to go, what's your number, I'll call you.
G: *gives number*
Y: *goes away*

And you call her as I said before.

What's good about this?!

1) If she's just checking how hot she is, she will not respond positive on your question to meet up again. As if, she won't give her number.
2) Even if she gives her your number and she doesn't like you. She will hesitate to meet up again if you call.
3) Positive: You had a short talk and you'll feel quickly if there is a need to go on with the target, or just leave her alone. So you don't have to conversate half an hour to see if she's just friendly or pleasing her ego.

Don't try to keep up the conversation as long as possible. The time of the conversation doesn't say if your set is working or not. When you feel the conversation is ended, go over to the set above and leave. If she likes to talk to you, let the conversation as long as she need and it's a natural conversation. Do not try to say stupid little things, where you push her to answer, when you see she's responding not so much.

A lot of guys think that when they talk to a target for about 2 hours she will surely kiss them... Some of them are just friendly and like to have a nice conversation. This set is designed to get the target back to you and she will respond positive if she want to get back to you. if she's just enjoying your funny accent, she'll never call you or come after you to another club.
Numbers don't mean much bro. They will

- give you their numbers
- flirt with speech and with eyes/body language,
- may even make out during a party or something

then when you try to make a move and push it further, they get cold and you're left like "What the fuck happened?". It's downright pathological. The reason I'm mentioning this is because ALOT of college girls do that shit - especially if you're just walking up to them on campus. Most are focused on school work and when you approach them they already have it in their head that they are focusing on school and they don't need a male friend but they will lead you on anyways.

You : Hey babe, here's my number
Girl : Thanks, here's mine. Lemme see ur phone.
You : So I'll call you later and we'll hang out sometimes.
Girl : Sure sounds good.

And they go through a convo like that with NO intention of doing anything with you. It's simply in their nature to do so.

Buy anyways, if this guy finds that he can't get past a certain point, he should keep in his head that it's probably not his issue and he needs to be a better game player than them to impress. :wink:
Author:  JustAsk [ Fri Nov 04, 2011 10:30 am ]
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Numbers don't mean much bro. They will

- give you their numbers
- flirt with speech and with eyes/body language,
- may even make out during a party or something

then when you try to make a move and push it further, they get cold and you're left like "What the fuck happened?". It's downright pathological. The reason I'm mentioning this is because ALOT of college girls do that shit - especially if you're just walking up to them on campus. Most are focused on school work and when you approach them they already have it in their head that they are focusing on school and they don't need a male friend but they will lead you on anyways.

You : Hey babe, here's my number
Girl : Thanks, here's mine. Lemme see ur phone.
You : So I'll call you later and we'll hang out sometimes.
Girl : Sure sounds good.

And they go through a convo like that with NO intention of doing anything with you. It's simply in their nature to do so.

Buy anyways, if this guy finds that he can't get past a certain point, he should keep in his head that it's probably not his issue and he needs to be a better game player than them to impress. :wink:
Haha, actually that's the same what I'm saying. I prefer to not waste my time on them. So with a quick numberclose, I lose 5 minutes of my time to get to it. When she's not interested in further meet ups, you'll see it real quickly. I think we are getting to the same point here. the numberclose is not to fix up the set with this kind of girls, it's made to not waste time on them. When she's not responding positive to a call or text, I leave them for what they are. It's just one 'test'.

*Phone call*

Y: Hi! Nice to hear you again. We could have a drink in 'Paddy's corner' that's a sweet pub.
G: Ow, sorry, I actually have an appointment with a friend, I totally forgot about it!
Y: Oh, OK. No problem. Anyway, have fun :)
*quickly end the call*

From that view, I took me a conversation of 5 minutes and a phone call of 2 minutes. And it's clear she won't show up again. So didn't wasted my time to please her ego :) So as you see, the number isn't important at all. It's just an easy way to not waste your time.

Don't meet up at a club of party. Look for a nice little bar, with you 2, no friends and shit. what you are saying about make out and leave you cold I surely understand. This happens a lot on parties, the environment I'm talking about is more personal, it doesn't invite them to just play with you. And if she's just joking around with you, she will not go with you alone to a sweet pub. (In general I see that's working like this :) Not all girls are like that, but I use it and it seems to work).

What I want to say is that it's not important to keep up the conversation, as the topic opener says. If you're in college, it's better to approach girls on parties :)

as you see, what I'm telling here is more a 'test' and is not designed to fix a broken set, or try more to get the ego-pleasing girl. It just tells you what to do and if you are wasting your time on that girl. Do not use it to get a girl on your side, If she's not interested in you just leave her!
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