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Author:  deltakrisp [ Sun Oct 30, 2011 5:31 pm ]
Post subject:  Perfect opener while shopping at mall
I thought of this one which I think is great:

*approach girl*
You: Hold on, I'm sorry, I'm shopping around for an outfit to give as a gift for my friend and I couldn't help but notice you're her exact body type and size.
Her: blah blah blah
You:My names whatever by the way
Her: introduce herself
You: You work out a lot? You look really fit like friend "sarah". Anyways I'm trying to find a top and some jeans maybe you could help me.
Her: Ok! I'm waist size 28...etc

The downfall is you'll probably have to actually buy the outfit to remove suspicion- you could always return it though.
Author:  Entourages [ Sun Oct 30, 2011 7:32 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Perfect opener while shopping at mall
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I thought of this one which I think is great:

*approach girl*
You: Hold on, I'm sorry, I'm shopping around for an outfit to give as a gift for my friend and I couldn't help but notice you're her exact body type and size.
Her: blah blah blah
You:My names whatever by the way
Her: introduce herself
You: You work out a lot? You look really fit like friend "sarah". Anyways I'm trying to find a top and some jeans maybe you could help me.
Her: Ok! I'm waist size 28...etc

The downfall is you'll probably have to actually buy the outfit to remove suspicion- you could always return it though.
Well if this works, you don't actually have to buy the outfit, at least I wouldn't. If she was in fact helping me shop, you would definitely have to make her attracted to you first. She might think sarah is a gf or something else. So here's maybe a thought, it might work not sure will try it though.


You: Hold on, I'm sorry, I'm shopping around for an outfit to give as a gift for my friend and I couldn't help but notice you're her exact body type and size.
Her: blah blah blah
You:My names whatever by the way, it's just her birthday is coming up and she has been like a sister to me since 8th grade (time period make it decently long even if its a year exagerate it a bit like.... we have been friends for a year but she feels like a sister she has helped me out a lot and vis versa... show your human, have no commitment faults, and have a good heart)
Her: She will probably say thats so sweet blh blah blah... cut her off
You: Do you work out, cause well my friend does, she has your body type and everything... I'm like every other straight guy, I only go to a mall when I need to buy a shirt. (maybe make a mom joke) ex. The last time I ever really went on a shopping spree was with my mom and I was 12 (it's a cute joke)
Her: Laugh
You: Do you mind helping me, I really would appreciate a female perspective?
Her: Sure!

Than as you are shopping build connections, she might say so who is this girl cause she is interested you answer honestly. Make it a story though, how you met, why you became such good friends and so fourth. She will appreciate honesty, throw some cute lines in there, and your good. Then get a couple of dresses ask the cashier to hold it for you and tell her.
You: I appreciate it, you really are a big help. I'm probably gonna call her tonight tell her this crazy story (if you want to add that) and tell her about our outfits we chose (say our makes you sound collective girls like that imo) and see which she likes best, that way you don't need to buy them.
Her: Something (Look for IOI she will say she had a really fun time if she does then your in)
You: I really enjoyed this, we should hang out some time, maybe we'll go shopping for you next time. (I usually even ask for her number, be bold. Going in through the back door, and her giving you her number is awesome and powerful, but if you are confident and she had a great time she will 100% give it to you)
Her: Gives number
You: What ever you want, you can even try and continue your little mini date you just had.
Author:  Psychopath [ Sun Oct 30, 2011 8:20 pm ]
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Have you guys ever actually tried this stuff out though???

You seem to be coming up with these crazy, movie like scenarios but my experience says that human interaction CANNOT be planned out this way. 100% chance she will say something that's NOT in your script and you will end up just having a regular conversation anyway - so why not just come up with a real ONE LINER that gets the ball rolling as in "Hey, I think you would look great in this dress!".
Author:  Entourages [ Sun Oct 30, 2011 8:44 pm ]
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Have you guys ever actually tried this stuff out though???

You seem to be coming up with these crazy, movie like scenarios but my experience says that human interaction CANNOT be planned out this way. 100% chance she will say something that's NOT in your script and you will end up just having a regular conversation anyway - so why not just come up with a real ONE LINER that gets the ball rolling as in "Hey, I think you would look great in this dress!".
Well the thing is you can assume sometimes, a response is usually stimulated immediately when asked a question. You just have to trigger the question in such a way you get the response you want. For example when Obama speaks (and I believe everyone can agree he has great rhetoric abilities) he uses specific gestures at times to enhance a point, his tone and such fourth do the same. By reaching out his/her hand, there is a trigger on our brains to want to shake it or agree. For instance go talk to someone random just go up to them say anything. I like boats, I always been fascinated by them, you seem like a boat guy/girl. They will respond, with what ever. Stick out your hand, they will most probably shake it, and then talk saying yea when I was young my father used to take me out, I really love them you feel so free, you know what I mean? Watch him/her agree with you on every word, he/she will hold onto what you are saying. I wrote this originally talking to a guy, but I bet it can work with girls just different subject.

So as I was saying... If you put the idea of yes in her head, before you even finish the quesiton she will say yes. Do you mind helping me? That can be a yes/no but if you somehow excuse me for saying this and sounding inhumane, but if you manipulate how you ask it, it will manipulate her answer. Also I generally assume people are nice and will help you for a second. If not well then forget them and go onto the next right?

I would love to hear your thoughts on my approach. I am not only using this tactic for females, but every day scenarios. Although negative you can use it positively almost everywhere. With power comes responsibility ey!
Author:  Psychopath [ Sun Oct 30, 2011 8:56 pm ]
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Have you guys ever actually tried this stuff out though???

You seem to be coming up with these crazy, movie like scenarios but my experience says that human interaction CANNOT be planned out this way. 100% chance she will say something that's NOT in your script and you will end up just having a regular conversation anyway - so why not just come up with a real ONE LINER that gets the ball rolling as in "Hey, I think you would look great in this dress!".
Well the thing is you can assume sometimes, a response is usually stimulated immediately when asked a question. You just have to trigger the question in such a way you get the response you want. For example when Obama speaks (and I believe everyone can agree he has great rhetoric abilities) he uses specific gestures at times to enhance a point, his tone and such fourth do the same. By reaching out his/her hand, there is a trigger on our brains to want to shake it or agree. For instance go talk to someone random just go up to them say anything. I like boats, I always been fascinated by them, you seem like a boat guy/girl. They will respond, with what ever. Stick out your hand, they will most probably shake it, and then talk saying yea when I was young my father used to take me out, I really love them you feel so free, you know what I mean? Watch him/her agree with you on every word, he/she will hold onto what you are saying. I wrote this originally talking to a guy, but I bet it can work with girls just different subject.

So as I was saying... If you put the idea of yes in her head, before you even finish the quesiton she will say yes. Do you mind helping me? That can be a yes/no but if you somehow excuse me for saying this and sounding inhumane, but if you manipulate how you ask it, it will manipulate her answer. Also I generally assume people are nice and will help you for a second. If not well then forget them and go onto the next right?

I would love to hear your thoughts on my approach. I am not only using this tactic for females, but every day scenarios. Although negative you can use it positively almost everywhere. With power comes responsibility ey!
Nice...that's pretty deep but I understand what you mean. I think I'll try that sometime..."somehow putting the idea of yes in her head before you ask whatever"

And I guess your body language, tone of voice, helps with that also?
Author:  Entourages [ Sun Oct 30, 2011 9:03 pm ]
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Have you guys ever actually tried this stuff out though???

You seem to be coming up with these crazy, movie like scenarios but my experience says that human interaction CANNOT be planned out this way. 100% chance she will say something that's NOT in your script and you will end up just having a regular conversation anyway - so why not just come up with a real ONE LINER that gets the ball rolling as in "Hey, I think you would look great in this dress!".
Well the thing is you can assume sometimes, a response is usually stimulated immediately when asked a question. You just have to trigger the question in such a way you get the response you want. For example when Obama speaks (and I believe everyone can agree he has great rhetoric abilities) he uses specific gestures at times to enhance a point, his tone and such fourth do the same. By reaching out his/her hand, there is a trigger on our brains to want to shake it or agree. For instance go talk to someone random just go up to them say anything. I like boats, I always been fascinated by them, you seem like a boat guy/girl. They will respond, with what ever. Stick out your hand, they will most probably shake it, and then talk saying yea when I was young my father used to take me out, I really love them you feel so free, you know what I mean? Watch him/her agree with you on every word, he/she will hold onto what you are saying. I wrote this originally talking to a guy, but I bet it can work with girls just different subject.

So as I was saying... If you put the idea of yes in her head, before you even finish the quesiton she will say yes. Do you mind helping me? That can be a yes/no but if you somehow excuse me for saying this and sounding inhumane, but if you manipulate how you ask it, it will manipulate her answer. Also I generally assume people are nice and will help you for a second. If not well then forget them and go onto the next right?

I would love to hear your thoughts on my approach. I am not only using this tactic for females, but every day scenarios. Although negative you can use it positively almost everywhere. With power comes responsibility ey!
Nice...that's pretty deep but I understand what you mean. I think I'll try that sometime..."somehow putting the idea of yes in her head before you ask whatever"

And I guess your body language, tone of voice, helps with that also?
Yes exactly, I promise you this. I used to get sent to principles office every day never one got detention and do you know how I did that. Through charm, some call it kissing up I dont, I didnt kiss up once. I manipulated the scenario for him to feel sorry and understand where I was coming from. I instilled in him the concept that the reason I misbehaved is due to some other reason. That I could change I just need a chance, so when I asked him, I am really sorry, I will try harder, I think I just was having a bad week and it came out in class, when I return I will apologize, but I think tis more important that I apologize to you, see I bothered you and interrupt you during your work, so do you forgive me.

1. I show him he is important, that he is busy
2. I am a retarded kid with problems just let me go
3. I am a sincere kid with problems :P

Just rephrase yourself I guess, but don't lie. I did apologize to my teachers, I did interrupt him, and so fourth. Good luck and tell me how it goes with you. Also stare directly into her eyes, you can not be taken more seriously when you look at their eyes. Then look at her mouth later in your attraction phase, her 6th sense will tell her you are doing this and she will love it.

I feel like leonardo di caprio, except with out the awesome camera crew, in inception. Good luck and seriously tell me how it goes!
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