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Author:  Absoliutas [ Sat Oct 29, 2011 5:21 am ]
Post subject:  Do I look gay opener...
Ok tonight was funny night.

So I tryed to use "do I look gay" opener... 90% of girls said that I looked gay! And I was like WTF... so I asked why and they said because of my hair, my jacket etc.

So I was like wtf again... because my lether jacket was definately not gay, and my hair was not definately not gay...

Anyway, the reason why I used this all the night was that the first (or second) girl that I used this on, took my hand and made touch her pussy! LOL so I was like wtf and I kissed her, but then she replied that I am gay and went away... Maybe because I never kissed a girl and I really sucked at it? (I suck, I know.)

The other 10% that said that I was not gay, just went away anyway... they didn't wanted to play question game (well one did wanted, and she actually bought me a drink after I won, but she didn't showed any interest after that and just danced with another guy... however she added me to facebook friends lol...)


BTW thats fucking ironic and made me fucking laugh for a long time because the same night, some fucking guy really tryed to hit on me, I wanted to punch him but he went away.. so then I though really WTF DO I LOOK LIKE A FUCKING FAGGET LOL?

It was fucking strange... lol.


Anyway I just wanted to ask what should I say if a girl replyies that I look gay... (I probably won't use this opener again but still, I want to have some good reply incase I use it again lol)
Author:  DJ_Z [ Sat Oct 29, 2011 11:48 pm ]
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Let me adjust the opener slightly.

"Do I look gay?" So you either are gay or not, and if you are, well you're shit outta luck huh?

"Does this (insert item here) make me look gay?" Ok, now we are focusing on one thing, and by you asking if it makes you look gay, the question implies you are not.

And dude, you cannot get mad if they say yes. Seriously, the question has two answers so you have to assume some people will answer in the affirmative, right? If you have a problem with gay people, you probably do not want to use this opener. I have used this opener without any horrible tragic outcome like you are describing. One thing that really helped was that I used items that had been a topic of discussion with friends recently. For instance, my buds were raggin on me for wearing a vest I had just bought. I thought the vest was cool, so when I used the opener it was much more honest and natural because I was just repeating an earlier discussion. But then, after they give their opinions, you can't make the entire conversation based around it! You gotta just move on quickly. That's why openers are the least important part of talking to a girl, because once the opener is done you dive into the fun parts of gaming.
Author:  PUAMonster [ Sun Oct 30, 2011 12:12 am ]
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Well that's kind of odd but I agree with the others. You have to make it about a specific thing you are wearing. I've used this opener with tons of success!
Author:  Absoliutas [ Sun Oct 30, 2011 5:27 am ]
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Thanks for advices guys! I will try to insert some specific things like hair or jacket this time.

Maybe you could also share what transitions and routines do you use with this opener? :)
Author:  Hawke91 [ Mon Oct 31, 2011 3:35 pm ]
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Hah, i'va played around with this opener quite a lot. "Do i look gay, because some dude randomly hit on me or someone said something weird" or something. I haven't made it all about one specific item, but usually just "ah it's about my suit". Works well :) The point is to escalate. And it's easy enough if you are fashionable, just push some related topic and move on.

Now, for the "yes" part. You can push it a bit farther, make a girl emphasize it, and then "ah, i've heard girls have no problems with kissing gay guys, so prove it". Or play an insecure guy who takes it personally. As far as i'm concerned and as far as i've used this opener, the point is to make the object of your game DHV to you. You just sit back and let her make the magic happen.
Author:  PUAMonster [ Mon Oct 31, 2011 4:49 pm ]
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Quote:
Thanks for advices guys! I will try to insert some specific things like hair or jacket this time.

Maybe you could also share what transitions and routines do you use with this opener? :)
I just kind of transition into whatever I notice about the place I'm at or a specific person around. You could say "What about the jacket on that guy?". Of course, you still need to get out of the original opener but it's not that hard from there. If you're at a club just say something like "Can you tell me if I dance gay?" and start dancing with her. So many options. Good luck!
Author:  Nova1989 [ Tue Nov 22, 2011 9:56 pm ]
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another optional i like to throw in.... and once u clarify your not gay... you can playfully say something along the lines like "if i wasn't gay id so be hitting on you right now".

to me it shows a double meaning... a slight hint of interest.... possibly along the whole "push-pull" concept.
Author:  gointothetop [ Wed Nov 23, 2011 4:20 am ]
Post subject:  Frame Change
Your biggest issue here is frame man. When the girls say you look gay respond with "thank you gay men always have the best fashion. In fact we should go shopping your look is [insert gay voice] so 1999." The idea here is to be unreactive. The minute you say WHAT I LOOK GAY? You're seeking validation and now they're qualifying you. Cut the thread and change the context.





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