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Author:  have.fun [ Tue Oct 25, 2011 2:16 pm ]
Post subject:  20 seconds to approach - NEED HELP
Hi guys.
I'm new here and I need a little advice.
There is a girl who lives somewhere in my neighborhood (I don't know where exactly) and I see her sometimes in the bus when I go home. She gets off the bus on the same bus stop as I but the problem is that we walk the same way just for 20 seconds and then I have to turn left and go my way while she goes straight.
So I have just 20 seconds to approach her and that is really short time to build some conversation. I can't go her way because she knows that I always turn left there.

What would you do? Any advices?
Sorry for my English, I'm not a native speaker
Author:  JSmooth [ Tue Oct 25, 2011 3:55 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: 20 seconds to approach - NEED HELP
Quote:
Hi guys.
I'm new here and I need a little advice.
There is a girl who lives somewhere in my neighborhood (I don't know where exactly) and I see her sometimes in the bus when I go home. She gets off the bus on the same bus stop as I but the problem is that we walk the same way just for 20 seconds and then I have to turn left and go my way while she goes straight.
So I have just 20 seconds to approach her and that is really short time to build some conversation. I can't go her way because she knows that I always turn left there.

What would you do? Any advices?
Sorry for my English, I'm not a native speaker
You have it wrong you don't have 20 seconds to approach...you have seconds to approach and the rest of the time to get her hooked into what you are saying. :)

When you both step off the bus you run your opener on her, and start stacking material to get her to hook. Since you are both walking start slowing down...until eventually you stop so you can talk some more. Don't try to keep walking and do this or it will fail.

Best of Luck!
Author:  tippicanoe [ Tue Oct 25, 2011 7:06 pm ]
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Quote:
Hi guys.
I'm new here and I need a little advice.
There is a girl who lives somewhere in my neighborhood (I don't know where exactly) and I see her sometimes in the bus when I go home. She gets off the bus on the same bus stop as I but the problem is that we walk the same way just for 20 seconds and then I have to turn left and go my way while she goes straight.
So I have just 20 seconds to approach her and that is really short time to build some conversation. I can't go her way because she knows that I always turn left there.

What would you do? Any advices?
Sorry for my English, I'm not a native speaker
Have you thought about approaching her on the bus? I am not sure how it might work out, I never ride a bus, but it seems like you could increase your time to talk to her to by a couple of minutes.
Author:  have.fun [ Tue Oct 25, 2011 7:53 pm ]
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Thanks for your responses :)
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You have it wrong you don't have 20 seconds to approach...you have seconds to approach and the rest of the time to get her hooked into what you are saying.
yeah you're right, my bad
and I've never thought I could stop, brilliant :D but these days is really bad weather, so I have to wait when it ends

I can try it on the bus but nearly always it's very full so I can't get to her

I really like this girl, she's super hot, perfect 10 so I don't want to screw it up
Author:  JSmooth [ Tue Oct 25, 2011 9:05 pm ]
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I really like this girl, she's super hot, perfect 10 so I don't want to screw it up
Keep in mind its when you are unaffected by the outcome that you'll do better. :)
Author:  have.fun [ Wed Oct 26, 2011 3:35 pm ]
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I know, but I can't help myself... but I'll try to do my best
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