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Author:  enthused182 [ Fri Oct 21, 2011 10:02 am ]
Post subject:  MMA - Kickboxing Opener

I was speaking to a girl on facebook, and i told her that i was a Kickboxer.

She said that makes you sound like a Psycho, and i was shocked.

I thought most girls would find this quite attractive, I actually love kickboxing and its one of my passions though should i tell girls about it?

I was thinking of using this opener for when i go out this weekend:

"Hi, can i get your opinion on something? If i was to tell you i was kickboxer would you think im Psycho??"

And then feed of her reply.. With something like:

"Well its a good job im not a psycho then.."

I also read a good line on these forums somewhere where someone had used...


"Im a lover not a fighter, but also a good fighter so dont get any ideas. "

So im thinking of using this in there somewhere too?

Author:  Lucky69 [ Sat Oct 22, 2011 12:41 am ]
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IMHO, don't use that opener, it tells other girls that a girl(s) have called you a psycho... It's a bad start. I think the problem with the kickboxer facebook approach probably had a bad delivery or she just wasn't interested. All females want an alpha male that can protect the pack.

Author:  papichulo818 [ Sat Oct 22, 2011 2:00 am ]
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If it comes up, yea, but as for using it as opener I'd say HELLS NO. Kickboxing is a hyper masculine/masculine-dominated sport, being so overt about it to me at least is tantamount to a wealthy guy boasting about his wealth to attract a girl, and typically this is a complete turn off.

It's one thing being good at something, another thing entirely wearing it as your identity, and saying right off the bat you're a kickboxer sends off signals that you're trying to impress her.

Author:  enthused182 [ Sat Oct 22, 2011 2:05 pm ]
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Yeah i see what you mean, if she asks what hobbies you like you could bring it up then though?

I think its all about how its delivered? If its done discretely as in she brings it up, its ok then?

My friend is a world champion kickboxer and he goes on about it all the time and it never attracts girls so i totally understand.

Weird really...

Author:  enthused182 [ Sat Oct 22, 2011 2:07 pm ]
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Reading this back now i can see how boastful it sounds, the girl on facebook i knew for a while.. so it was ok. But i dont think its one to be used on new girls.

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