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| Author: | papichulo818 [ Thu Oct 06, 2011 5:19 pm ] |
| Post subject: | anyone have a list of IOIs? |
On several occasions I find out a woman likes me after she's gotten fed up dropping multiple hints. I was wondering if anyone has a list of IOIs to look for so I don't seem so oblivious to signs of interest. tnx |
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| Author: | Chai [ Thu Oct 06, 2011 7:22 pm ] |
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An indicator of interest can range from anything from her laughing at your jokes when they aren't funny, touching you (kino), when she plays with her hair, when she smiles and looks enthusiastic when you talk to her... In you're experiences what did the chicks particularly do or say when you missed the hints. Use the above examples of IOI's as reference. |
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| Author: | papichulo818 [ Thu Oct 06, 2011 7:33 pm ] |
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I actually had this really cute asian chick at my gym, who i had spoken with on and off (at gym only) with for past year do all those things (laugh at everything, touched my arm, kept bumping her leg into the machine and 'owwing' as she was leaning over as she'd talk with me. I got her number, met her only once for coffee, seemed very platonic, told her it was nice catching up with her as hadnt seen her in a while, and she responded like a week later lol. I'm pretty sure she's not interested, but definitely seemed she was at the time. I get touched often by women, but i dont take that as interest necessarily so I sooner just think to myself "she's just this way, just being friendly" so I dont react to her. |
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| Author: | jpmorganjr [ Thu Oct 06, 2011 10:59 pm ] |
| Post subject: | IOI's are poison |
IOI is essentially the most destructive idea pickup has ever taught. Don't look for IOI's. They will destroy you. Waiting for a woman's indication of interest is essentially following a woman's lead. Act as if she is already interested, or in the very least, that she would be interested if she really knew you. |
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| Author: | Chai [ Fri Oct 07, 2011 12:34 pm ] |
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Good point jpmorgnjr. But you must't abolish the thought that you mustn't look for IOI's. Acting as if she's interested is an idea but you don't ever want to come off as a needy person with no value without DHV'ing yourself first. |
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| Author: | debugger [ Fri Oct 07, 2011 1:47 pm ] |
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Most of the IOI`s you`ll feel it subconsciously Others: Playing with hair Participating in conversation Jumping over your topic(High energy) Touching you Negging you (im shit serious) Shit-testing you (the more hardcore the shit test the more she`s attracted) |
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| Author: | Defy [ Fri Oct 07, 2011 4:30 pm ] |
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SHE IS STILL HERE. The only IOI you need. |
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| Author: | jpmorganjr [ Fri Oct 07, 2011 10:42 pm ] |
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Quote: Acting as if she's interested is an idea but you don't ever want to come off as a needy person with no value without DHV'ing yourself first.
Acting as if someone is interested isn't needy, it's confidence. Confidence IS value. No need to demonstrate when it's legit. Most importunity is that orienting yourself with IOI and DHV is about acting in response to her instead of from yourself. Self reliance and self expression is the most attractive qualities a man can have. Such techniques undermine these traits and then attempt to mechanicay patch them up through controlled responses. Flip your frame and you'll be set free. |
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| Author: | Chai [ Sat Oct 08, 2011 7:58 am ] |
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Quote: Confidence IS value
That makes sense...
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| Author: | SQDiablo [ Sat Oct 08, 2011 8:02 am ] |
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Buy/have a look at the 'Lay Guide' - they've got a good list in there. |
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| Author: | axeman24 [ Sat Oct 08, 2011 4:22 pm ] |
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iois-the-complete-list-vt12025.html |
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| Author: | Don Draper [ Sat Oct 08, 2011 5:30 pm ] |
| Post subject: | IOI's - The Complete List |
*She reinitiates conversations when you stop talking *She giggles *She touches you *She tries to get rapport and build comfort with you *She looks back and glances at you repeatedly ever minute or so *She tosses her hair (to see if you will look) *If eye contact happens from a distance, she holds it for a second *She smiles at you *She stands nearby (proximity) *She interrupts your conversation from nearby or laughs at something you said *While walking by, she turns her body toward you or brushes against you *She says something to her friend and they both giggle *She asks you for a light or the time or in any way initiates a conversation *While you're talking to her group, she is particularly talkative (to get your attention) *She asks you for your name *She asks you your age (make her guess) *She compliments you *She is playful and tries to challenge you *She's disagreeing but laughing *She's punching your arm but laughing *She uses nicknames for you *She plays with her hair while talking to you *When she is sitting next to you her leg touches yours *She repeatedly touches you in any way *She asks if you have a girlfriend *She mentions your girlfriend without knowing if you actually have one *When she has to go to the bathroom, she comes back *She holds eye contact for longer periods of time when she speaks with you *She avoids mentioning her boyfriend *If it comes up that you like somthing, she mentions that she likes it, too, or needs someone to show her how to do it *When she says or does something, she looks at you to see your reaction *She looks at you from the side, to hide the fact that she's looking *She introduces you to friends *She buys you a drink *She calls you a player or a heartbreaker *On her way out, she reapproaches you to tell you that she is leaving (Get her #) *On your way out, she asks you where you are going (Invite her) *She returns your calls *She invents reasons to be near you, intereact with you, or have isolation with you *She mirrors your gestures Passive IOIs *Her friends go (to the bathroom or bar or dancing) but she stays *She moves to see you and hangs with you for extended periods *If you move, she follows you or waits for you *She doesn't flinch or pull back if you happen to get too close *She doesn't resist when you escalate physically (or she gives token resistence to avoid feeling like a slut) The most important IOIs to look for are: *She reinitiates conversation when you stop talking *She giggles *She touches you *She tries to get rapport and build comfort with you ALL Credits go to JSmooth. I have re-posted this here, for a complete and comprehensive answer to your problem. |
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