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Author:  Mr.Brohemian [ Tue Oct 04, 2011 1:16 am ]
Post subject:  NEED help it's killin me
So I've known this girl ever since elementary school (we're in high school), and I thought she was really pretty even from then. She teases me in ways that she takes my stuff or calls me names and I do the same with her, but I don't know if that's just the flirting (she doesn't do it to anybody else) or just making fun of me. She doesn't usually give me a straight answer whenever I try to talk serious to her and she's always joking around and insulting me. Sometimes she's serious with me, like she asks me a question just to talk, but when her friends are usually around she just goes with what they do. And I'm not even that close with her, I don't talk to her outside of school except if I see her at a party or something like that. She also gives me looks from across the room occasionally, but I'm not too sure what to make of it. What do I do? It's really botherin me and I don't know how to handle it. I wanna approach her but I know she'll never take me seriously.
Author:  anthonypham [ Tue Oct 04, 2011 8:37 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: NEED help it's killin me
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So I've known this girl ever since elementary school (we're in high school)

Because you don't want to break this 'friendship', you never made a move. This is very normal. She got comfortable with this.

You have One-itis. You like this girl too much, therefore you can not think well. Therefore your game will not be effective....

instead of a good friend, you have to present yourself as a potential lover. You are a sexual being, let her notice this without being creepy. Escalate, hold hands, say NO, etc.
Author:  *FlaiR* [ Wed Oct 05, 2011 2:27 am ]
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Hey man.. it's quite easy to spot a girl hitting on you or who likes you. You basically look for IOI's.. touching of the hair, scratching of the elbow of the hand, her feet point towards you, she crosses her legs towards you, gives you eye contact, kinos you a lot (looks for oportunities to kino you), the tone of her voice.. and many other things. But really, if you think she likes you she probably is.. but just to make sure.. you have to qualify yourself or to escalate sexually with her in order to see her reaction. If you do any of those things and she runs away from you or leans back or doesn't seem happy.. well.. she's not interested. But your problem really is that you are not escalating! Escalation is the key to everything in pick up! Talk to her and just kino a lot.. your just a touchy guy! It's not your fault.. you're not trying to hit on her you just like to touch people that's it.. hope I helped! Peace out!
Author:  *FlaiR* [ Wed Oct 05, 2011 2:28 am ]
Post subject:  Re: NEED help it's killin me
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So I've known this girl ever since elementary school (we're in high school)

Because you don't want to break this 'friendship', you never made a move. This is very normal. She got comfortable with this.

You have One-itis. You like this girl too much, therefore you can not think well. Therefore your game will not be effective....

instead of a good friend, you have to present yourself as a potential lover. You are a sexual being, let her notice this without being creepy. Escalate, hold hands, say NO, etc.
One itis ruins your game! This is really really true in every way possible.. I experienced it many times and it does fuck you in the head! Therefore, your mindset is super important!
Author:  T_Rex [ Wed Oct 05, 2011 2:41 am ]
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The best way to get out of the friend zone is to start escalating sexually and subtly, while acting normal. This will build sexual tension, between you two.
For example, you walk by her, give her a little tap on the ass without even caring! If she says: " Why did you just tap my ass?" find something funny to say, its often a shit-test. You can say: " What ass?...white girl ;)" or " look stop talking about your ass, i have to talk to you about something...(you change subject abruptly)" or "you had a fly on your pants, it's alright, it's gone now, by the way (change subjects)"

An other way to sexually escalate is too talk about sex in front of her, you can also kino her alot. When you talk to her, play with her body, start gently kicking her feet, grab her hand and swing them around, you can even approach your crouch to her pelvis area.

These subtles moves will build sexual tension and with the right attitude get you out of the friend zone
Author:  Mr.Brohemian [ Wed Oct 05, 2011 7:49 pm ]
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I think that the one-itis is my problem, i just didn't how to label it. And I'm tryin to keep that in mind, and hopefully move on. Thanks guys!
Author:  T_Rex [ Wed Oct 05, 2011 8:00 pm ]
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By the way, for the teasing...you gotta tease her back, neg her, alot!!! :P
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