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Author:  JXDX [ Sun Sep 11, 2011 2:33 pm ]
Post subject:  I NEED SPECIFIC ADVICE!!! WANT TO START COLLEGE GAME
Bear with me. I've decided I need to start this PU shit because Ive literally been putting it off for a LONG time. I'm 21 and have not done anything with a girl whatsoever, despite knowing about seduction for 4+ years now. Best I've gotten is a hug. I have average/good looks and a good fashion sense[people like the way I dress]. I feel like people expect more out of me if they don't know me, which only contributes to my AA.

MY MAIN PROBLEM IS I AM A PUSSY..I get scared to talk to women thinking some way I'll fuck it up.

Another thing..I usually depend on the other person to carry the conversation until I loosen up and become friendly with them[which CAN take awhile]..my main problem is I oftentimes have a problem continuing the conversation or say something awkward because I don't think before I speak. I WANT TO BE THE PERSON THAT LEADS!

I am not a funny guy until I feel comfortable around the person, which I want to change.

With all of this in mind, how can I strike up a conversation with a girl by herself at college? What if she's doing homework?? I say this because I can't just jump in with a funny comment; I feel physical attraction is not an issue for most girls but my personality/game can definitely fuck up my chances.
Author:  taylorcole16 [ Sun Sep 11, 2011 2:38 pm ]
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alot of the reason your uncomfortable is ur afraid of rejection and what she is going to think i used to have the same problem try pretending that your having a nice conversation in your living room and that you have known her for along time
Author:  JXDX [ Sun Sep 11, 2011 3:09 pm ]
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alot of the reason your uncomfortable is ur afraid of rejection and what she is going to think i used to have the same problem try pretending that your having a nice conversation in your living room and that you have known her for along time
What do you talk about though?? The reason I cant carry conversations is because Im basically good at shit talking. I can talk shit[obviously fun shit talking not serious] with other guys[and even girls that have this personality]. Im not good at fluff talk.

So say a girl was doing homework by herself on campus. Could you give an example of how the conversation might go??
Author:  taylorcole16 [ Sun Sep 11, 2011 3:22 pm ]
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ummm... the first thing is dont walk up from behind and talk to her come from an angle ask her what class and if u have the same class start talking about it with her like whats hard and whats not and ask her if she needs help if she says yes thats an IOI if she says no just say ok then sit down next to her and pull out your homework if you dont have any then act like your doing it then just start up a conversation trying doing a magic trick. the one that i use is ask her to think of a number 1-4 and then guess 3 (most commonly guessed number) then if ur right or wrong ask her to think of a number 1-10 guess 7 if ur right she will ask how you did that and dont tell her smile and tell her a magician never reveals his secrets then wink and get up and walk away ive used this routine many times next time you see her it will be easier to tlk to her and shell be more interested
Author:  SicFIT [ Sun Sep 11, 2011 6:57 pm ]
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Style had some really good advice in "Rules of the Game" (which would help your situation tremendously!)...but style said if you fear rejection so much then go in trying to get rejected. There is no weight or worry to this because you went in with rejection as your goal, also he took a student out to do this exact thing and never once got rejected that night.

As for how to start up a conversation, sit down close to her and like it was said above look like your doing homework, fumble with your pockets and bag, then go ask her for paper or a pen. While she is looking for it, notice what shes studying and ask her about it. If you tell her youve thought about taking that class...boom shell sit and explain what its like.

Hope it helped! And good luck
Author:  Streaks [ Sun Sep 11, 2011 10:50 pm ]
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i think its easier if you stuck somewhere, like on a bus. for example i was on the bus on my way to go go-karting, and i choose to sit opposite of a HB8, just to have eyecandy. we both had out headphones in and we caught eachothers eyes but it wasnt anything i was gunna go for. we did that for like 5 mins straight when i mentioned how clogged up the road was (and that was to myself i didnt even think she heard me), and she commented back saying something else. i said i felt bad for the people going the opposite way and we just chatted from there. she asked me what my name was (IOI), what my major was going to be (IOI), and then she kept comming up with topics the rest of the bus ride. i let her talk the entire time throwing in my opinion that would continue the convo from time to time. by then end of the ride i got her number so we can hang out some time.

i Agree with SicFIT as well. if she's studying sit next to her fumble for a pen(or better yet have an empty pen otu and make it obvious your out of ink) then ask her for one. comment, it doesnt even need to be funny. just..idk, be u, college girls seem to like that these days lol

i can go on for days but i dont wanna seem like im a cocky ass punk so yea... we are in college and you should come out of that shell of your while u can. it tottally helps.
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