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Author:  bearfox [ Fri Sep 09, 2011 2:50 pm ]
Post subject:  Approaching a girl on facebook
ok so the thing is: I've got a girl on my friend list that I've partied with 2 times before. Both times we were kissing and stuff, but I really don't know her other than that.

It's been like 4 months since we hooked up last time and now I really want to get her interest again.
At that time earlier I didnt really care, but now I do! So what im wondering is how am I going to approach her?

I see facebook as the easiest way to start talking to her, and I hope you guys could give me some tips about how to get started..
All comments appreciated!
Author:  MPUA.Swift [ Sat Sep 10, 2011 7:04 am ]
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facebook through my experience didn't work to well in the same type of situation you are in, but that was really down to what i sent.

Although a good way in my opinion you can use to get the chat rolling on facebook is to see her when you are out with a couple of friends (even if she doesn't see u) then u can open on facebook with something like " hey i seen u in town the other day and i realized that i have talked to u in months" but you get change it up a bit, maybe add some humor into the comment

hope this helps
Author:  cesar [ Sat Sep 10, 2011 2:12 pm ]
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I would not write "I saw you the other day in the center..." I feel it sends the idea that you didn't have the guts to talk to her. How old is she btw ?

I would go chat her when she is online, and make a funny reference to the party. Something such as : "Wow, it's been about 4 months we didn't talk ! You must almost dance as good as me now :P" (if you negged her a little about her dancing previously for instance). It's not that a big deal what you say to engage conversation, as long as it's playful !

Finally, even if you do care about her, don't show it too much/too early, it's an attraction killer. Act like you choose the girls and not the other way around.
Author:  Lodewijkp [ Sat Sep 10, 2011 5:46 pm ]
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funny message + a huge neg and you will do fine....
Author:  BRAMWELL [ Sat Sep 10, 2011 11:31 pm ]
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FUCK HER! You didn't close, NEXT! or untill you physically see her next.
Author:  system-t1 [ Sun Sep 11, 2011 10:28 am ]
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this has worked for me in the past: say something like 'hi :)' or 'hey stranger' on facebook chat, ask her what shes been up to and when she asks you, say you're a bit bored and you thought you'd start a conversation with someone different and interesting :)


she'll take it as a compliment and you can pretty much do anything from here arrange meet ups phone calls etc

goodluck!
Author:  bearfox [ Sun Sep 11, 2011 6:53 pm ]
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thx guys, this really helps acutally :P What ur saying sounds good, and it makes me think more creative on making an "opener" in this case!
Keep posting
Author:  bearfox [ Sun Sep 11, 2011 7:05 pm ]
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oh, and she is 1 year younger than me, which normally should make things easier...
How does this sound to u guys (I know it isnt anything special, but still):
-Hi :)
-how are u doing? what have u been up to lately?
she says hi and hopefully tells me a few things + asks the same back at me
- Then Ill answer with something funny, which she hopefully catches, and tells the stuff about that I was bored and saw her online, and just thought I could hi since I havent really spoken to her in a long time.. And then im up running!

is there anything about this that is dramatically wrong?
feedback greatly appreciated guys!
Author:  SicFIT [ Sun Sep 11, 2011 7:20 pm ]
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Quote:
funny message + a huge neg and you will do fine....
^This^ FTW
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