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Author:  Verain [ Mon Aug 29, 2011 9:56 pm ]
Post subject:  So, you've just approached a set and it went badly.....
I think before even progressing on my journey as a PUA I need to know how to eject from a set while keeping as much dignity as possible any advice?
Author:  splican21 [ Mon Aug 29, 2011 11:05 pm ]
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Depends how they reject you. If they reject you in a polite way, the best thing you can do is say: "Have a nice day/evening!" and turn back and go to the next set.

If they insult you, you should backfire on them and insult them. However those bitches may think they're smart and their ego is big when they reject you in a humiliating way you can always humiliate them.

There was this 5 set I approached with my buddy outside of a night club, we were very polite, and not even a second they started giving us some shit.


"Well, I hope we get so drunk that we forget about you tonight."
Then the fat one from their group said: "You're dumb."
I asked: "What did you say?2
She replied: "You're Du...." ME: "HRNK HRNK" (imitating the pig voice)
Both me and my buddy cracked laughing there, and they all had pale look on their face. We left.

Don't insult and provoke people, but don't let anything unanswered. Be careful with sets where there are men. Men will test for dominance. Don't get scared like a bitch in there, but you must be ready for a brawl If you're gonna answer them.

The only thing you have to learn is how to cope with rejections. You must really make yourself believe it isn't you why she reject you, it's her problem. You really have to believe in that shit, because after all, it's truth. I sometimes get rejected by ugly girls and hot ones chase me.

Keep your head high all the time.
Author:  Verain [ Tue Aug 30, 2011 8:10 am ]
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Ahh thanks man actually helped a lot I mean what you said was how I would react I just didn't know if it was appropriate.

They disrespect you show zero mercy ha

love it thanks my man!
Author:  chill46 [ Thu Sep 01, 2011 2:05 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: So, you've just approached a set and it went badly.....
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I think before even progressing on my journey as a PUA I need to know how to eject from a set while keeping as much dignity as possible any advice?
So you Have just approached a set and it went badly...

What do you mean by the set goes badly here? The key difference between the people who fail at pick up and the people who succeed is how they look at the situation.

is getting rejected make a set go badly for you? i have gone out and done this enough to the point where rejection still stings a bit but it does not affect me as much as it used. There are no magic words, lines, or routines to make the girl feel the way you want her to feel about you. You cant control if the girl is going to reject you. But you do have 100% control over how you are going to respond to it.

Do you let this one set going badly stop you from approaching other sets? The thing is no matter how good you are you still get rejected. Its just the people who succeed at this do NOT let this stop them from doing more approaches.

When you approach a set and it goes badly it is never a attack on you as a person. they do not even know you yet. What it really is feedback on how you approached them? No one gets good at this skill without having bad sets? But learn from the feedback you get. Its only a mistake if you fail to learn from it.
Author:  Verain [ Thu Sep 01, 2011 3:25 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: So, you've just approached a set and it went badly.....
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I think before even progressing on my journey as a PUA I need to know how to eject from a set while keeping as much dignity as possible any advice?
So you Have just approached a set and it went badly...

What do you mean by the set goes badly here? The key difference between the people who fail at pick up and the people who succeed is how they look at the situation.

is getting rejected make a set go badly for you? i have gone out and done this enough to the point where rejection still stings a bit but it does not affect me as much as it used. There are no magic words, lines, or routines to make the girl feel the way you want her to feel about you. You cant control if the girl is going to reject you. But you do have 100% control over how you are going to respond to it.

Do you let this one set going badly stop you from approaching other sets? The thing is no matter how good you are you still get rejected. Its just the people who succeed at this do NOT let this stop them from doing more approaches.

When you approach a set and it goes badly it is never a attack on you as a person. they do not even know you yet. What it really is feedback on how you approached them? No one gets good at this skill without having bad sets? But learn from the feedback you get. Its only a mistake if you fail to learn from it.

Yeah sorry let me clear this up a bit.

It's not a fear of rejection or getting knocked back it's sort how you react to it

So it's a club setting and you approach a set and they turn out to be the biggest bitches in the world they're on their periods/got sacked at work who knows they just BAM shoot you down.

how to you walk away from that situation without loosing face to other people that may have seen this?
Author:  gabi4play [ Thu Sep 01, 2011 4:04 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: So, you've just approached a set and it went badly.....
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I think before even progressing on my journey as a PUA I need to know how to eject from a set while keeping as much dignity as possible any advice?
So you Have just approached a set and it went badly...

What do you mean by the set goes badly here? The key difference between the people who fail at pick up and the people who succeed is how they look at the situation.

is getting rejected make a set go badly for you? i have gone out and done this enough to the point where rejection still stings a bit but it does not affect me as much as it used. There are no magic words, lines, or routines to make the girl feel the way you want her to feel about you. You cant control if the girl is going to reject you. But you do have 100% control over how you are going to respond to it.

Do you let this one set going badly stop you from approaching other sets? The thing is no matter how good you are you still get rejected. Its just the people who succeed at this do NOT let this stop them from doing more approaches.

When you approach a set and it goes badly it is never a attack on you as a person. they do not even know you yet. What it really is feedback on how you approached them? No one gets good at this skill without having bad sets? But learn from the feedback you get. Its only a mistake if you fail to learn from it.

Yeah sorry let me clear this up a bit.

It's not a fear of rejection or getting knocked back it's sort how you react to it

So it's a club setting and you approach a set and they turn out to be the biggest bitches in the world they're on their periods/got sacked at work who knows they just BAM shoot you down.

how to you walk away from that situation without loosing face to other people that may have seen this?

You simply do it , quietly.
Author:  Darth Vader [ Fri Sep 02, 2011 4:57 am ]
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Pull out your phone and pretend you're answering it and turn around and walk away
Author:  Virindi [ Fri Sep 02, 2011 8:03 am ]
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If a set is not going good, just move on to the next. Just look at them and be like, "This is too weird, we aren't gonna work out" and walk away. They'll probably want you after that.
Author:  SQDiablo [ Fri Sep 02, 2011 11:04 am ]
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Smile, say "It's been a pleasure talking" and move on.

The best thing to do after that is reflect and consider what you would have done differently if you had the chance to do it again.

Keep your chin up, it's their loss. They missed out on your company:)
Author:  Amit [ Fri Sep 02, 2011 11:45 am ]
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When you notice that bitchness and figure you don't want to go on with this set, turn your body away from the set or focus on your friend, while throwing something you know will drag a moderate, non violent response from her :)

the bitch will surely toss an answer, just make sure it seems to others like she is the one trying to get your attention.

as you probably know, in clubs only the ones in proximity to you will hear your argument with the set. other people might notice facial expressions, so make sure you keep smiling and laughing with your friends, regardless of whatever happens.

remember she means nothing to you, shes just a tool for you to laugh and have a good time.
Author:  axeman24 [ Fri Sep 02, 2011 10:43 pm ]
Post subject:  make her feel like a bitch
I'm not a PUA (yet), but what I'd probably do is just be the bigger person when a girl bitches you out. If there are other people around, it might make her look like a bitch and take the attention away from you. Plus, who knows, she might end up coming back to apologize to you.

If she just says no politely, just shrug it off and move on. Happens to everybody.
Author:  yayer [ Fri Sep 02, 2011 10:52 pm ]
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Depends how they reject you. If they reject you in a polite way, the best thing you can do is say: "Have a nice day/evening!" and turn back and go to the next set.

If they insult you, you should backfire on them and insult them. However those bitches may think they're smart and their ego is big when they reject you in a humiliating way you can always humiliate them.

There was this 5 set I approached with my buddy outside of a night club, we were very polite, and not even a second they started giving us some shit.


"Well, I hope we get so drunk that we forget about you tonight."
Then the fat one from their group said: "You're dumb."
I asked: "What did you say?2
She replied: "You're Du...." ME: "HRNK HRNK" (imitating the pig voice)
Both me and my buddy cracked laughing there, and they all had pale look on their face. We left.

Don't insult and provoke people, but don't let anything unanswered. Be careful with sets where there are men. Men will test for dominance. Don't get scared like a bitch in there, but you must be ready for a brawl If you're gonna answer them.

The only thing you have to learn is how to cope with rejections. You must really make yourself believe it isn't you why she reject you, it's her problem. You really have to believe in that shit, because after all, it's truth. I sometimes get rejected by ugly girls and hot ones chase me.

Keep your head high all the time.
haha thats a good one. You make fun of them with your friend by your side and you leave laughing. You could have also gone with "HEY! Why don't you pick on someone your OWN size!" Then laugh.

These insults would be alot harder to pull off successfully by yourself. You need someone to laugh with you.
Author:  Verain [ Mon Sep 05, 2011 2:26 pm ]
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Ha wow thanks guys I've taken what was said and used it out in the field at the weekend.
I've noticed that if I actually neg them " Ha well you guys are no fun to hang around with cya later and enjoy your night"

they actually stop being bitches and say " ohh no no no come back"

I used that on this complete bitch she was Just looking at me like i was some loser and then after the neg she brought me a drink lol....
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