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| Author: | Highroller [ Sun Aug 28, 2011 8:47 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Trouble Opening W/ Random Strangers |
I used to be pretty decent at just walking up to girls at the club and chatting but after a year or so of being too busy to do anything but work I now find it hard. The part I don't understand is if I'm introduced to a girl through a friend I have to issues chatting them up, and even bartenders at bars, as soon as they take my order I have no issues talking with them either it's just going up to someone out of the blue that kills me. Any tips on getting my groove back? I remember last time I got over this I'd go to malls and ask random girls questions which seemed to work but it just feels so awkward right now. I know a lot of people have been in my position so I'm curious what did you guys do to overcome AA? Probably been answered a bunch of times here but maybe someones got a good solution based on my situation. |
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| Author: | Teandor [ Sun Aug 28, 2011 9:02 pm ] |
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Personally I use a mix of things. To be honest I'm not 100% confident yet, but I'm working on it! - Try to keep to the 3 second rule - you won't have time to be nervous! - Remember that you'll probably never see these girls again if things go bad - Even if you do see them again, you'll have made so little an impact they won't remember you You have absolutely nothing to lose by going in man - you'll get a quick knockback and then you keep going. The worst case is you go home solo and hopefully a little more socially adept as you've approached a few girls. |
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