Ok , so I went starting to send PMs to some pretty hbs on facebook , and to no avail,because 90% of the chicks ignore it (the other either give a neutral response , or a negative one )

It's bad for me because there's nobody in my country that uses Okcupid and POF,and that becomes hard,as facebook , is kinda the only site where I can meet girls online.

The only other way to meet girls for me would be on the streets or at the mall (no chance in highschool with the girls,unfortunately).

So i sended openers gotten from here,or a simple Hi , or sometimes I used something refering to her profile , but it didn't all they do is ignore my message.I don't really think im that ugly,or am I ? I want an honest oppinion guys (promise I won't get hurt)

Here's my fb profile : http://facebook.com/gabi4play

I want some really good advices with the openers so that they could respond properly!

lol nah man wtf ur alright. yeah i tried to add girls too, with a mutual friend, 1 added me and then deleted me in a few mins, none of the others added me haha. so its pretty hard, they are too used to getting attention from random guys. lol.

Yeah that's why I prefer cold approach , Online dating sucks actually.

Now I know many people won't agree with this but I do. Online dating sucks. I mean...how am I supposed to really know her? I don't even see her. I can't see her body langauge can't hear her voice. I can't decide whether I want her or not this way. Yes I could just set up a day 2 and meet her but then again it's like almost the same as a cold approach. I don't need to waste my precious time online for shit I can do on the field.

Yes yes dude!!!!!!!!! You know my feelings.You don't really know how she feels and you can't really do anything about it.You know when we are face to face,and she feels disinterested,and doesn't continue conversation,you can bring up a big silence , and make her notice a lack of interest from you.But if you are online she won't really know that , and most of the time she ignores that. In face to face you can bring DHV by your behaviour , and make her curious about you when in online it's usually the other way around. Texting game is a bit the same , but you have her number and that is always good start , and better than only having her fb . You can also call her.Also my anxiety is at it's highest levels when chatting than when Im hearing her voice , I found out that online dating is good for some , but it's not the thing for me.

Well... It's not just that I can't really game her. It's that I can't tell whether I want to or not. Her full personality can not come through the internet afterall...

Anyone who says they have connected with random HBs on FB are either

- Talking absolute nonsense.
- Have been really riding their luck.
- The girls must be either really trashy pseudo-porn stars who will just accept anyone or, more disturbingly, are really lonely obese middle-aged men posing as an HB!

Seriously, think about it, girls will have their bitch shields on when online and if they receive a random message from someone they have never met before then, erm, regardless of what the message is won't they be a bit puzzled and wondering who on Earth this random guy is and why he contacted her? I somehow think it is more than likely that the girl will be weirded out or whatever.

It is all very well seeing the profile of a random girl who looks very attractive but seriously, unless you really have met before then all you can do is look but don't touch.

Hmmm, i # closed many girls on facebook, i like online sarging because i still have AA. girls do not accept strangers, she does only if she has 4765 Friends or she found that you don't seem like a stalker, wussy ect. so if she accepts you in her freinds list, consider it an IOI.

First of all get a picture that demonstrates your confidence, social value ect. this is the most effective way to show you're valuable since you can't use BL.

For example, you in a party, looking to the camera, standing straight. laid back cool look, with glass in your hand, and girl(s) laughing around you...

After an HB accept in in her list, freeze out, you want to look like the busy guy, don't let everyone have a look at your photos, only if the are really demonstrating your social value ect... repond 3-4 min after you receive a message. don't stay on for long. be always the one to end the conversation. if she's talking about a subject tell her to be brief becaus you have to go to *somewhere* in 5min. ect

If a girl adds you, then deletes you.it's a bad sign! this means you have to work on your private profile, status, links ect! share one link per 3 days or so...just keep in mind what would be the attractive attitude when talking to an HB face 2 face?how to use/show it online throw status updates, links, comments?

Anyone who says they have connected with random HBs on FB are either

- Talking absolute nonsense.
- Have been really riding their luck.
- The girls must be either really trashy pseudo-porn stars who will just accept anyone or, more disturbingly, are really lonely obese middle-aged men posing as an HB!

Seriously, think about it, girls will have their bitch shields on when online and if they receive a random message from someone they have never met before then, erm, regardless of what the message is won't they be a bit puzzled and wondering who on Earth this random guy is and why he contacted her? I somehow think it is more than likely that the girl will be weirded out or whatever.

It is all very well seeing the profile of a random girl who looks very attractive but seriously, unless you really have met before then all you can do is look but don't touch.