Hi, i mostly go to bars n clubs when im sarging, so tryin to seduce over the internet is a whole different animal. Im very charismatic in person n I try to get that across online...anyways I figured I would post what I have been using as a format for my initial message followed by a word for word convo w/ a 33 y/o and my analysis. I would greatly appreciate all feedback n ideas for the next steps to take.
This is the basic strucure I have been using for my first message, with little variations based on each girls profile. "Hey I just checked out your profile n thought you seemed cute n fun. Hit me back if you feel the same."
Me: I used that exact opener.
Her: Why are all these guys from gbg on here?? Lol that's where im from however I don't live there anymore
. 22 huh??? Your a young buck...Me (I noticed she was 33 when I messaged her): that's sad, it could've been so easy for you to see me, but you had to move :-p I see you are 33 if we find a 44 y/o we can have a same digit age party.
Her: lmao we could...
Me: Maybe we can invite a 55 y/o...but we HAVE to ban 66 y/o n up and 11 y/o...that would just be creepy.
Her: yes yes it would be...just plain creepy
Me: other than thinking of the hot younger guy who messaged you on pof, what exciting plans do you have for this weekend?
Her: lol nice...I have my sisters bachelorette party ugh
Me: ugh? Shouldn't that be a big celebration or are you just thinking ANOTHER day without me is just too much to bear?
Her: well celebration ya I guess Im just not a big fan of her friends, n I definitely don't like them enough to be stuck on a party bus with them from 6 til at least 2.
Me: don't worry im sure they will get drunk n super annoying :-/ im sure your sister will be happy you came tho...or at least proud that "the hot one" is celebrating her upcoming nuptials with her
Me: well if im going to hit the gym before work I have to go now...well talk later, try not to think of me too much, I don't want you daydreaming while your driving, you could hurt yourself.
That ended the conversation. My thought...her first entire response was one big shit test. I knew she was older than me n if she didn't at least think I was cute, she wouldn't have messaged me at all. I think the same digit thing worked well. After I passed that with a joke I tried to set the frame that she was already into me n I knew it. I am naturally c&f, its just a little different tryin to pull it off online. I do work out alot n I think leaving on a dhv was good.
Does anyone have any input on things I could've done better, and any ideas fir startig the next convo n taking that to eventually meeting, where I should easily f-close.