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Author:  Wolf19 [ Sun Aug 15, 2010 3:29 am ]
Post subject:  where do i go from here?
i think i may have gone into too much detail on some things with this chick but here it goes:

Me: hey there

HB:Hello there.
How are you?

Me:im good. how are you?... lol jk. i mean i'd like to know how u are and if your ok or not but really it's such a standard question it gets boring after a while you know? how about this hmm... ok! would u say your a fun and interesting girl, or someone who's just like every other girl and is nothing special.

HB:What kind of question is that!?
Read my profile. That will def answer your question dear

Me:hahaha. dear, your profile is set to private so unfortunately i can't.

Me:haha friend me and i'll be able to ready your profile which will answer my questions as you put it

Me:ok ok, so your not the average every day girl, that's good. and from the surface you seem like an interesting person which is also good. but what makes you really different and unique from all the other girls out there?

HB:Uhm what makes me different? The fact that I'm not gonna sit here and compare myself to every other girl out there to make you feel better about me I'm not into blowing my head up to make myself feel better either.

Me:i guess i worded that wrong. i was just trying to see if you were interesting and u are. you seem like a girl that doesn't take shit from ppl, and i just misunderstood you. but i have no idea what u mean by blowing up your head to make you feel better, its obvious from your profile that you've been hurt, and bad at that. i know from experience that getting your heart broken changes you, but from the way you talk, i don't think you would let it.

any tips and analysis of what im doing right and wrong will be much appreciated!
Author:  afc_gone [ Sun Aug 15, 2010 8:28 am ]
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I think you were a little bit too try-hard.I thonk you were showing interest to quickly. You don't even know how is she feeling and you want to know that kind of stuff from her. You are telling her that you don't care about her, that you just care about you.

Also I would try a different opener. A more playfull one. I tried this one once:

Me:"your turn:P"
Her:"humm...what?"
Me:"your turn to spin the bottle:P :D"
and she played along. that way you do all the boring questions and can easily escelate (just don't do it too fast)
Author:  afc_gone [ Sun Aug 15, 2010 8:46 am ]
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and use emoticons...that's why they exist
Author:  Wolf19 [ Mon Aug 16, 2010 7:07 pm ]
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ok so i was able to save it but now im stuck with logistics of actually meeting up

HB:I see what your saying. And yeah heartbreaks change people but other things change people too. It's just one of those things everyone goes through in life /:

Me:not everyone, i mean there are those rare people who get to date someone then marry them and like they've never dated anyone other than them...lucky bastards lol.

HB:Yup. But that is really rare to find.

Me: yeah, its always the lucky ones that get to end up that way. but that's why we have the dating game we call life right?

HB: Yeah. I suppose. Everyones got someone out there.

Me:yeah, u know it's too bad you have to leave soon, otherwise i could've showed you an awesome time

HB:Hahaha I'm sure. Aren't you like (insert younger age here)??

Me:ohh, your one of thoooose people

HB:Hahaha wow. Really kiddo? Suck it up. A questions a question. Age is age. It wouldn't matter if you were mature but by that comment, really?

Me:hahaha yeah, at the same time judging someone's maturity by their age is kinda childish in itself, just saying. and we really cant judge accurately without meeting each other.

HB:Partly true yes.

Me:a hundred percent true. people show their true colors when they actually meet and talk face to face.

now i'm trying to figure out how i can meet with her but i don't know how to do it. i also would like some help with the age question bcuz girls always ask about my age and stuff.
Author:  afc_gone [ Tue Aug 17, 2010 8:30 am ]
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When talking to women older than me...any time they give me crap about my age i do this

example:

Her: (something like) "you're a bit younger than me"
me: "and you're a bit older than me :P :D"
me: "but we're still getting along:P (or something like that)"

Usualy with mirroring the coment about my age works and you're not being rude, because she started it:)

But I really doubt that this girl will want to meet you. You started of on a wrong foot and to be honest, you didn't do well in the following conversation. You're topics were way to serious, there good but not for getting to know each other.

So if you're about to meet her, you should go someplace where you can do something (besides sitting and talking. I wouldn't go to a bar). That way she won't think of your date as really boring.
Author:  XponenT [ Tue Aug 17, 2010 9:58 am ]
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Just a bit of an opinion bro; you shouldn't have added her as a buddy so quickly. She hinted at wanting to know more about you, you should have forced her to ask them and not made it so easy.
Author:  Wolf19 [ Tue Aug 17, 2010 10:22 am ]
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i actually think i have a chance, and if not this'll be a good learning experience. i just need to dhv and build rapport with her right? i think i built good report by showing that i can relate and not back down but the real judge is if i see her or not
Author:  afc_gone [ Tue Aug 17, 2010 12:35 pm ]
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Well the good thing is you haven't met her in real life yet, so you can try and repair the first impression, because lots of people are different online than in reality. So what I would do (what you do is your own choice), I'd show her that time spent with me can be interesting and fun and that I'd like to know her (by letting her open up to me, finding her favourite subject), but also that I'm not needy (I would challenging on some things she says or do). You just have to really be careful not to be rude, needy. But I have a feeling that it will be difficult getting out of LJBF area. If you can pull this off and get the girl, you got some good recovering skills IMO.
Author:  Wolf19 [ Fri Aug 20, 2010 5:27 am ]
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ok now i'm stuck. i don't know how to proceed with this:

HB:Not everyone. I've met quite a few people who put up a front when I first met them and they ended up being completely different.

ME:yeah, those ppl suck, but that doesn't mean everyone is. but quick! red or blue?!?!?!

HB:Blue

ME:oohh, alrighty now cats or dogs, c'mon be creative cuz we're making an interesting story now

HB:Dogs. But they have to be like med-large. I'm not an accessory dog fan at all.

ME:haha ok, so we're walking down in the park. we stop and i show you i have a present, it's a blue dog collar for you dog, it's been three years since you adopted him and you really wanted to make the day special. We sit down at a coffee shop and you notice something on the collar. their tickets, but to where? where are the tickets gonna lead us to?

HB:Either a concert, tickets to like a theme park, or tickets to a movie/play I've been wanting to see.

i'm completely stumped. I think i built up attraction but i don't know 100 % on this one, and i'm running out of material for online game.
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