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Author:  Skylark [ Thu Aug 05, 2010 5:47 pm ]
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Me
Hello. : )

17:52Chloe
hey, thanks for the add

17:52Me
Was it a good move, do you reckon?

17:52Chloe
what, adding me?

17:52Me
Yeah.

17:53Chloe
why not i like talking to everyone

17:53Me
I am going to ask something of you right off the bat, Chloe.

17:53Chloe
go wild

17:53Me
Wow.
At least buy me a drink or something first, sweetness.

17:54Chloe
haha, what i meant was, go for it?

17:54Me
Aha, you're cute.
I am practising something and you're going to be my guinea pig.

17:55Chloe
ooh, this is exciting. lots of people say i look a bit like a chipmunk? can i be your chipmunk instead?
and do tell, what are you practising?

17:57Me
I'll be back soon.
I appreciate your enthusiasm, though.
It's refreshing;
x

17:57Chloe
you had better be back, it's cruel to leave your rodents waiting.

17:57Me
If you're lucky.
x

17:58Chloe
damnit

18:00Chloe
unluckily for you, rodent's attention spans are very short
i'm off for a shower
ahem *rodents'

18:01Me
Without me?!
Author:  Skylark [ Thu Aug 05, 2010 5:49 pm ]
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Cont..


18:11Me
I'm now back. Ready when you are.

18:13Chloe
i am ready! as long as i can do this experiment in a towel

18:16Me
Are you trying to seduce me, Chloe?

18:16Chloe
i'm a guinea pig, i wasn't aware that sort of thing does it for you?

18:17Me
That wasn't a bad move.
I never said your efforts at seducing me were WORKING...
Anyway, here's the score:
I'm working on my social intuition and cold reading skills.
I've found that I possess this remarkable ability to make quite accurate assumptions about people very early on in our interaction.
So, I need you to keep talking to me and keep interacting with me and occasionally, I will throw out an assumption and you can tell me if it's correct or not.

18:18Chloe
this sounds like fun, i'm totally up for this little experiment

18:18Me
You jump between friends and friendship groups quite often; you don't have a definite super tight knit, super important group of friends that you stick to. Right?

18:19Chloe
wow, i'm impressed
totally correct

18:19Me
You're more of a daddy's girl than a mummy's girl.
Either you're an only child, or you have an older brother?

18:20Chloe
i am a daddy's girl, if anything. but i don't have a very tight relationship with either of my parents
and technically i'm an only child
i have 1 younger brother
half brother
sorry xD

18:20Me
Yeah, I got that as well. I sensed a sort of ambiguity about which of your parents you were aligned to.
I'm getting a MALE alignment from you, which is why I was pretty sure you didn't have a sister.
But tbh, now you've said you have a younger brother, it makes sense.
You're more confident in your personality than you are in your looks.

18:21Chloe
how do you know all this?

18:21Me
You're passive affectionate at first, but become active affectionate quite early on.
You play video games?
And you're cynical when it comes to romance.

18:23Chloe
i'm not big on affection, i always end up feeling swamped, and as for romance, you're spot on there
although, i don't play video games
simply because my brother destroyed my DS

18:23Me
yeah, DS makes sense.
You enjoy acoustic music, or music that has that sort of vibe to it, I think.

18:24Chloe
YES

18:24Me
aaand horror movies?

18:24Chloe
absolutely
YES
jesus you're good
do i know you from somewhere?

18:25Me
I don't think so.
You're not very confident with oral sex?
and you prefer sex to be more dynamic and dominating and CLOSE than you do hard.
I think.

18:26Chloe
how do you know this?
seriously?
this is amazing

18:27Me
You work, not study.
And you love animals.

18:27Chloe
i do, i adore animals
but i study

18:27Me
this may be totally wrong
but im getting
history?

18:27Chloe
definately not
art

18:27Me
Curses.
That makes sense, actually.
And I'm glad you study art and not history, for the record.

18:28Chloe
you like art too?

18:28Me
I prefer it to history.
Musician, myself.
tbh thinking about it i dont know WHY i said history.
There was an abundance of signs against that.

18:29Chloe
i would love to study music
but i'm too much of an artist at heart

18:30Me
Yeah, I'm like that with music. I can't escape it.
It's like destiny.

18:30Chloe
i know the exact feeling
like you were born to do it

18:31Me
You're an idealist and you like movies with a strong lead protagonist. 'Hero' movies.
You like dramatised lyrics that have an undertone of intelligence; Taking Back Sunday style lyricism, if you will.

18:31Chloe
you're right about the lyrics, definately
hmm, i like movies i can relate to

18:32Me
I know that cos I'm exactly the same myself. I WRITE those lyrics.
Yeah; that's me imposing masculine values on you, when you're a girl, you respond to emotional inspiration more than ideological. My bad.

18:32Chloe
that is a very sexy trait if ever there was one

18:33Me
You don't feel obligated or 'loyal' to anybody; it's not that you don't have a conscience, you're just ruthlessly, definitely your own person.

18:33Chloe
without a doubt. i'm self sufficient and independent

18:33Me
I think I love you.
I mean, what?
I think you read, too, don't you?

18:34Chloe
you love a guinea pig?
i don't blame you
i do indeed

18:34Me
She's cocky.
but it's a defence mechanism.

18:35Chloe
ha! possibly?
wanna know something else about me?

18:36Me
Would you like to tell me?

18:36Chloe
yes, i need to tell someone, i am going insane
i feel like the worst person in the world
i've only just started dating the nicest bloke ever
seriously, he's just so
fuckin nice
and i'm bored of him already
we started dating 2 days ago

18:37Me
Yeah, makes sense.

18:37Chloe
i am a horrible person :|
i haven't the foggiest what to do

18:37Me
It's psychology, sweetie. Women enjoy men who COMPEL them, not men who wait on them hand and foot.

18:37Chloe
he seems so keen

18:37Me
Textbook.

18:38Chloe
maybe so
but what the fuck am i gunna do about it?

Me
I'm afraid I'm not your relationship councillor, sweetness.
I'm good for fun times and orgasms, I'm not interested in helping you with your relationsihps.

18:39Chloe
too bad
but surely if you know so much about me, you know what i'm going to do?

18:40Me
I think, first and foremost, you're going to give me your phone number.
That's pretty definite, actually.

18:41Chloe
07504 335 386
right again

18:41Me
And I think you're probably going to allow me to lead you astray from your boyfriend, if I choose to do so.
You're not a very heavy drinker, are you?

18:42Chloe
i couldn't possibly comment on that first sentence there
and no i'm not

18:42Me
(LINK TO HER SOME OF HER ARTWORK)
I like this.
You enjoy your own company, too?

18:43Chloe
definately, i'm the least likely person to piss myself off
and thankyou
18:43Me

Time alone gives you the opportunity to think and flex your imagination.
Your imagination is very potent and you often find yourself daydreaming.

18:43Chloe
i could spend my lifetime daydreaming
it makes me happy
like napping
Author:  Brawndo [ Mon Aug 09, 2010 4:56 am ]
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Very nice. I cold read all the time, though not that definite. Kicks ass...
Author:  zazazaza [ Mon Aug 09, 2010 5:45 am ]
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Haha, man that was awesome, inspired me to look into cold reading more, bravo.
Author:  Johannes11 [ Mon Aug 09, 2010 9:44 pm ]
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I feel like you took some risks with that routine, you must have been looking at her profile and gotten a sense for her person.

All in all though, it was pretty good.
Author:  Skylark [ Mon Aug 09, 2010 10:52 pm ]
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It wasn't a routine, man. I just went with it. And yes, I decipher most of what I can about her from her photographs, the way she types & the way she structures her profile.
Author:  tbrady10 [ Tue Aug 10, 2010 4:30 am ]
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cold reading fucking cracks me up!!! i do it all the time to girls and u can almost say anything and the girls respond in a positive way! omfg!!

they did a study with students at a hs and found that don't matter what they answered on a personality test they gave the same exact answers back to everyone and about 90% said it was accurate to them..people try fit the piece in the puzzle..

cold reading is relatively easy....good post btw.. that prob took forever!
Author:  Johannes11 [ Tue Aug 10, 2010 1:49 pm ]
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It wasn't a routine, man. I just went with it. And yes, I decipher most of what I can about her from her photographs, the way she types & the way she structures her profile.
Got any tips for that or is it just pure intuition?
Author:  Skylark [ Tue Aug 10, 2010 3:35 pm ]
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I find it difficult to isolate exactly what it is about a girl that gives me the impression I get; I do tend to find, however, that the following are common:

Good grammar etc, good punctuation - Educated, possibly upper middle class style upbringing. Upper middle class girls are often quite sexually explorative and will respond well to a balance of badboyism & intellectualism.

They often play a musical instrument, sing, or are artists or linguists.

'Alternative' looking girls (dyed hair, eyeliner, etc) - Are often deep down quite insecure and will respond to well placed, personality based SOIs. They are often less educated & may well have career based interests in fashion, beauty, hairdressing etc.

Girls who have strong personalities and wit - These are a breath of fresh air, as they are genuinely enjoyable to talk to and give you a lot to bounce banter off. They make it super easy for you to demonstrate your social prowess, often simply because they 'get' it. However, you will sometimes find that these sorts of girls are less physically and sexually confident (they may have developed the strong personality as a way of 'making up' for their own perceptions of themselves).

This isn't necessarily a bad thing; many PUAs interpret a lack of responsiveness from a girl as an IOD but in many circumstances they're what I call passive/affectionate (or passive/sexual); this basically means that they will accept and enjoy affection or sexuality from someone but will be unlikely to reciprocate until they feel more confident.

Signs of passive/affection are like I said, often a strong personality but also a shy or weak personality, 'stunned' sorts of responses to sexual come-ons, inquisitiveness and VERY SUBTLE IOIs. 'Alternative' girls are often passive/affectionate; look for dyed red hair or piercings. You will also find that, as a rule, girls who have boyfriends are passive/affectionate and passive/sexual until you liberate them from their own brains; their logic is that if THEY don't do anything and just allow YOU to do everything, then they're not cheating, no matter how many orgasms they have.

A passive/affectionate girl requires a very firm, brutal pull of the trigger. This can be intimidating, no doubt, but if the signs are there, put your trust in the trigger.

That's just a few of my musings, I hope that helps some people. Any questions, ask away.
Author:  Skylark [ Tue Aug 10, 2010 3:38 pm ]
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Also quickly want to mention the difference between EDUCATION and INTELLECTUAL CAPACITY; just cos a girl isn't well EDUCATED doesn't mean she doesn't have the CAPACITY to understand and appreciate any more intellectual things you may throw at her, so test her out.

Girls who understand articulacy are educated; girls who APPRECIATE articulacy have CAPACITY.

A note about ambitious girls - They will often be VERY receptive to dominant come ons.
Author:  CharlieKelly [ Sat Aug 14, 2010 4:37 am ]
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wow! good shit bro
Author:  Skylark [ Sat Aug 14, 2010 12:10 pm ]
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Glad you like it, man.
Author:  Braddock715 [ Sat Aug 14, 2010 6:53 pm ]
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nice conv bro
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