high school (17 year old) is dating high school teacher (29 year old). This guy Paul started sending her email messages and eventually she started to feel attraction for this guy and gave him her number. Now she rings him every weekend and also has 'cyber-sex' with him on facebook - talking about how wet she gets when she thinks about him etc... She wanted to book a hotel room so they could have sex but this guy is still a virgin and was scared to go.
Ok are you sure this isn’t bullshit, Paul has made up to be perceived as the man... it just sounds a bit to good to be true.
The "My best friend’s girlfriend just found a shoebox he keeps hidden in a dresser drawer, and she’s really upset about it. just pictures of him and ex-girlfriends on vacation" line is a totally canned opener, to be honest i am surprised she has not heard it before.
On the other hand her response is good, she didnt mind you called her "missy", she has given you advice and then related it back to herself (a good sign when women do that!), Your accretion that "She is obviously desperate since she has tried to meet up with a 17 year old" is potentially dangerous, although it is not an impossible and you cannot help who you are attracted to, you do have to consider the possibility he might be a Billie bull shitter, before you are to direct, end up stepping over the line and get royally fucked by your high school.
By her response she is clearly happy to speak to you out of high school, (good sign..) she related it to herself (good sign) but be careful because she may just have been being friendly, so don’t not get ahead of yourself.
Where do I take things from here?
Use some stealth stuff on her, make her laugh via fb, in high school ect, just be careful, you need to keep it indirect/stealth until you have a definite from her (doggy dinner bowl look ect) in which case you can escalate.
Hope that helps!
missy Alex xxx
p.s when are you going to make your move.. lol seriously though it would be pretty funny if she did reply to your post..