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Author:  Flashover [ Thu Dec 17, 2009 4:30 am ]
Post subject:  Night gone wrong, followed by a facebook add!

Winged for a buddy: His girl HB8
2 left over girls easily HB 7 and 8

I winged for a buddy of mine on Saturday, and the night went terrible for me. I introduced myself to the girls, and barely said another word to them for the rest of the night. The night with them was awkward, and for some reason I felt like I came across weird. After I left for the night my buddy and the girl he was with talked to the HB8 I thought I had struck out with, and she added me on facebook the next day. How do I go about this? Should I initiate a conversation, and how would I start it? I literally said nothing to this girl besides introducing myself and saying my name. Thats it. The girl is his neighbor so meeting up again would be easy, so if anyone could tell me how to go about this situation I would appreciate it.

Flashover

Author:  R-m [ Thu Dec 17, 2009 5:11 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Night gone wrong, followed by a facebook add!

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Winged for a buddy: His girl HB8
2 left over girls easily HB 7 and 8

I winged for a buddy of mine on Saturday, and the night went terrible for me. I introduced myself to the girls, and barely said another word to them for the rest of the night. The night with them was awkward, and for some reason I felt like I came across weird. After I left for the night my buddy and the girl he was with talked to the HB8 I thought I had struck out with, and she added me on facebook the next day. How do I go about this? Should I initiate a conversation, and how would I start it? I literally said nothing to this girl besides introducing myself and saying my name. Thats it. The girl is his neighbor so meeting up again would be easy, so if anyone could tell me how to go about this situation I would appreciate it.

Flashover
First, don't sign a post you send to her...second, just apologize and say you'd like to make up for an awkward evening... And don't do it with another awkward evening, get some balls, converse, dialogue, talk and all that...

Unless there's something that makes that a problem for you.

Author:  Flashover [ Thu Dec 17, 2009 3:26 pm ]
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No its not really a problem at all. When I actually get a chance to hang out and talk with a girl things go pretty smooth. That night was just full of messed up situations, and I wasn't sure how to start a conversation on facebook without coming across as slightly desperate. Wow I really didn't put much detail. She is my friends neighbor, so I wasn't sure if I should message her on facebook because I don't know when I will be over there again, or if I should just wait until I run into her.

Author:  R-m [ Thu Dec 17, 2009 9:11 pm ]
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As I said, just say sorry, you'd like to make up for a less than great evening, invite her somewhere, and don't mess it up. Doing it in person would probably be better, (if she knows you know where she lives) but if she doesn't know, then facebook.

Author:  Flashover [ Thu Dec 17, 2009 11:37 pm ]
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Cool, I won't make the same mistake twice. I really appreciate the help!

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