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| Author: | imanewbie [ Thu Nov 23, 2017 4:57 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Unsure about what to do with a tinder match |
Hi guys, long history short resume. I keep matching with a girl on tinder for 3 years. And as she is always just passing by the city we never had met. Last january we matched again and I realized I had her on facebook. We chatted it died. Fast forard 6 months last june same thing but this time we kept talking, A LOT, like the whole day along. Like messaging first thing in the morning. She even asked me for sex over the phone (fucking boring) and we were discussing to meet. Things changed in her life and she is back on the state after a year abroad. I was hopeful to meet all was fine until she moved back. Seems she got cold feet. We hadsome push and back forward regarding meet. And she said she needed some time to settle. I've said not so much more to discuss online as all I asked her was for a coffee. She said she might be available on the weekend (I dont work with mights). But I have a fucking judo competition in her city next week and I plan to arrive one day earlier as I fight on the morning. So what do you suggest, ping her this friday about the weekend? Keep cool like since we last talked (monday) and see if she appears or just send my location next friday when I arrive there to fight? |
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| Author: | Crow55 [ Sun Nov 26, 2017 12:17 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Unsure about what to do with a tinder match |
I would tell her you are going to be in her city for a judo competition and will be free at time X to go grab some drinks with her. If she doesn't confirm or offer an alternative time, then move on. Why bother wasting time chatting to someone you haven't met yet if she can't put a little bit of effort to actually meet you? |
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| Author: | imanewbie [ Mon Nov 27, 2017 4:53 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Unsure about what to do with a tinder match |
You are right. I tried to call Saturday no reply. This is the first time this has happened to me with her. I will lay quiet until the competition gonna call her on friday. Else find some other chick in town, not much to sweat about anymore. |
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