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| Author: | redstar1324 [ Fri Jul 17, 2015 1:35 am ] |
| Post subject: | How my matches on Tinder went.... |
Earlier, I said that I had 6 girls wanting to have sex with me that I met online. There were actually 7 and here are the results... 1. She wanted to but lived over 100 miles away. I was probably going to do it eventually. After the first day we talked, I messaged her three days later with no response. I thought that was the end of it, but about two weeks later, I messaged her again and she responded and said she was on board. I messaged her the next day and she said that she didn't really want to anymore. 2. I asked a girl if she wanted to hook up from Tinder. She said "why not?" but couldn't do it that day. So I messaged her a week or so later and she asked "do you want (kitty?), I said yes. She said "oh." Then got offended and told me she didn't want to do it. 3. One girl wanted to but not that night. I messaged her a week or so later and she said that she had gotten into a relationship so she couldn't. 4. One girl was all for it. Later did I find out that she was most likely not a real person, but just a profile on fling.com that is designed to keep people on that site. 5. One girl lives in Michigan and still sends me naked pictures from time to time and says she plans to fly down here whenever she can get off work. I don't know if anything will ever come of that and I'm not sure why I really care that much in the first place. 6. One girl was into it the first day. Sending me pictures and everything. Then, she didn't respond when I followed up in a few days. 7. One girl wanted to and told me she would get back to me the next day. I told her to let me know so that if she couldn't, I could make other plans. She messaged me the next day telling me she was on her period and couldn't. I messaged her a week later and she is on board. She just told me that she can't get her mom to watch her daughter, so she can't do it tonight. I asked her if she wants me to get back to her in a few days, she said yes unless she gets back to me first. In this one, I asked her if I could film myself eating her out so I could put it on my fling.com profile and she said yes. Maybe that will help on there. The majority of these seem to dwindle into me harassing women for the sex that they promised me at one point, which I don't think is a good long-term plan and I probably will shy away from the online stuff and get more into the bar/club stuff soon. There are some other online things that I could possible pursue but I think it doesn't seem worth the time, especially if it involves any sort of driving. I still use Tinder every day, though, because it is local. Also, I am wondering why I am so desperate to have sex with these women in the first place. They aren't super hot or anything. Without starting a new thread... I have begun reading and taking in depth notes on the book "Models" by Mark Manson. I have noticed some major contradictions between that book and "The Game." For example, Neil Strauss calls it a "hollow journey," while Mark Manson calls it fulfilling. I would definitely agree with Mark Manson. I like the idea that you can do this through being honest with your emotions and I recognize the fact that that may be a difficult journey and may take a lot of time and may be a painful process, but that is okay. Also, hopefully without being accused of being a troll, I would like to ask what some of you think about relationships. It has been described on here as something where the girl asks you to wash her car while never having sex with her while she bangs other guys. I am not sure that this is the case. And if you read "Models," you will see that he is talking more about fulfilling relationships than just casual sex (or both). That being said, it is not necessarily in my, yours, or even the girls current plans to be tied down to one person. I would like to ask Dragula if he regularly hooks up with girls on Tinder whose profile says "not here for hookups." I would also like to ask Dragula, since he has sex with a different girl every 4-5 days, are they just one-time hook ups? Do they call you the next day and ask you to do it again? Do they know how many girls you are with going in to it? Do you ever form any long-term relationships with them? And the same questions to anyone else that is as successful as him? Eddie Fews? If he will still respond to my posts, that is. I am really sorry if I have come across as a troll, or even just annoying, on this forum. I hope that you all can see that this is not my intention. Also, I know I have talked about this thousands of times and have been told that my "business stuff" has no value, but the other day I was at a bar "handling business" (talking to tenants, maintenance people, lenders, etc.) and I noticed the female bartenders listening and seeming to take it as interesting. Also, the other day I was talking to this guy about how I'm going to buy a Lamborghini that will pay for itself because I will rent it out and noticed girls listening and seeming to think it was cool. But then when I said it directly to a girl, she didn't seem to care too much. I have noticed that sometimes you can display value by talking to other guys, which may correspond to what Mark Manson says about showing status through behavior. Showing that you have something going for you and are sociable with other guys (or something like that). Tonight, I don't think I will go out. I think I will stay in (something I haven't done in a while) and read the rest of "Models," and wait to see what replies I get from this post. |
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| Author: | redstar1324 [ Fri Jul 17, 2015 2:01 am ] | ||||
| Post subject: | Re: How my matches on Tinder went.... | ||||
Will someone please critique my Tinder profile? "Born in Florida.. i invest in real estate.. Currently, I convert houses into "sober living facilities," Next, I will buy hotels. I will have hotels all over the world and spend my life in Tahiti.. I like to stay healthy.. I run several charities.. I am also a published author.. Don't be shy! Personality.... very caring and compassionate and like getting to know people and making their lives better... I like money because it can buy you cool things like Lamborghini's and vacations" I actually had not looked at that profile in a couple days and forgot that it looked like that. I will not get offended if you tell me it is horrible and will take all suggestions on how to fix it. I have two pictures and might add a third.... I saw another post where someone said "I'm a cunning linguist...." I like the idea of that. It's straight to the point, but do you think it is too creepy? Is that something that needs to be said? Also, I saw Dragula suggest against preselection pics, but I think I will give it a try with some of my bartender friends.
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| Author: | redstar1324 [ Fri Jul 17, 2015 5:57 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: How my matches on Tinder went.... |
Okay I just updated my Tinder profile, it now says this..... "I invest in real estate... I love chocolate, puppies, and ice cream... I am NOT here to hook up, so if you're one of those disgusting perverted girls just trying to get in my pants... GTFO!... I would prefer if you were a supermodel with a trust fund..." What do you think? And tomorrow, I'm going to a pet store and going to take a picture of myself hugging a puppy and put that as my main picture. |
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| Author: | Eddie Fews [ Fri Jul 17, 2015 6:40 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: How my matches on Tinder went.... |
You're trying way too hard man. You gotta just be cool bro. My profile on tinder went something like this: Name: Eddie Personality: PBNJ Zodiac: Twins Best Trait: Optimism Biggest Flaw: Thinking i am always right. Pet peeve: Ketchup Bottle Precum Do women read these? Put a 9 at the beginning of your response so I know you actually got this far. Real quick though. Born as the second child to a 15 year old mother of three in the Bronx, NY some years ago. Author - small business owner - blogger. I love a sense of humor and infinite curiosity. A phone conversation and/or a video chat if its available is probably the way to go before meeting up. Thanks for reading. And remember " The number 9" Peace - You can copy and paste that if you want. Its more about what you say that though man. And based on the stuff you write on the forum, I can't imagine you have that part(the most important part) down. Just keep it real man. Its all you ever have to do. |
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| Author: | redstar1324 [ Fri Jul 17, 2015 7:13 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: How my matches on Tinder went.... |
Quote: You're trying way too hard man.
What do YOU say after that? Can you give me some examples of how your conversations go? Do you also sleep with a different girl every 4 days or so? What percentage of them do you meet online versus in person?You gotta just be cool bro. My profile on tinder went something like this: Name: Eddie Personality: PBNJ Zodiac: Twins Best Trait: Optimism Biggest Flaw: Thinking i am always right. Pet peeve: Ketchup Bottle Precum Do women read these? Put a 9 at the beginning of your response so I know you actually got this far. Real quick though. Born as the second child to a 15 year old mother of three in the Bronx, NY some years ago. Author - small business owner - blogger. I love a sense of humor and infinite curiosity. A phone conversation and/or a video chat if its available is probably the way to go before meeting up. Thanks for reading. And remember " The number 9" Peace - You can copy and paste that if you want. Its more about what you say that though man. And based on the stuff you write on the forum, I can't imagine you have that part(the most important part) down. Just keep it real man. Its all you ever have to do. I'm all for changing to what works... but there is also something to be said about trying to be something I'm not. What do you think of my pictures? From my pictures, what do you think my personality looks like? Do you get a bad vibe? I posted some of those pictures on another website and asked girls what they thought of me and some of them said I looked like a killer. No joke. Some said good things, though. I will copy and paste that, but edit the stuff like "born in the Bronx" that is not true for me. "You gotta just be cool".... that might take some work for me, but I'll try. Thanks. |
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| Author: | Dragula [ Fri Jul 17, 2015 7:39 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: How my matches on Tinder went.... |
Yeah, just do what Eddie says. Obviously change "the Bronx" and adapt it to your geographics. Just use the same principles. Your profile is too try hard. Most guys write like that because it feels like they are impressing the girls but it has the opposite effect. Please avoid luxury car names at all costs. It's transparent. Your pics do have that serial killer effect, I would even suggest to put into your profile "I know what you're thinking... serial killer bla bla" comedians do this all the time to break the ice with what most people are thinking. If girls are saying this to you, then that's validated your situation. In all honestly, Your pics are horrid, your matches will be orks. You must try harder, read my online thread in my sig I have mentioned this several times, you really need to get in the trenche and do less online stuff. I'm getting frustrated repeating myself. Online game becomes amazing once you have been in the trenches of cold approach and developed a core understanding of game. The models book will cover most of this topic anyway. Puppy pic might be a good idea, please don't steal one off the street though. Also. You should put the caption "I drowned this puppy after this pic" (joking) I don't sleep with a new girl every 4 days. I'm sure I am capable but currently seeing some nice girls and I'm in maintenance mode with it all. Now jack zero on the other hand, he gets like 2 news girls per day... |
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| Author: | JackZero [ Fri Jul 17, 2015 7:59 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: How my matches on Tinder went.... |
Quote: Now jack zero on the other hand, he gets like 2 news girls per day... That's because my tinder profile has a picture of me in my Lamborghini with a bag full of cash riding shotgun.
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| Author: | redstar1324 [ Fri Jul 17, 2015 8:06 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: How my matches on Tinder went.... |
Quote: Quote: Now jack zero on the other hand, he gets like 2 news girls per day... That's because my tinder profile has a picture of me in my Lamborghini with a bag full of cash riding shotgun.If I had a Lamborghini and a bag full of cash, I still wouldn't give it to any girls. |
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| Author: | Dragula [ Fri Jul 17, 2015 8:13 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: How my matches on Tinder went.... |
Quote: Quote: Quote: Now jack zero on the other hand, he gets like 2 news girls per day... That's because my tinder profile has a picture of me in my Lamborghini with a bag full of cash riding shotgun.If I had a Lamborghini and a bag full of cash, I still wouldn't give it to any girls. Then stop mentioning it. On profile or in real life |
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| Author: | redstar1324 [ Fri Jul 17, 2015 8:14 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: How my matches on Tinder went.... |
Quote: Yeah, just do what Eddie says. Obviously change "the Bronx" and adapt it to your geographics. Just use the same principles. Your profile is too try hard. Most guys write like that because it feels like they are impressing the girls but it has the opposite effect. Please avoid luxury car names at all costs. It's transparent.
Do you really block out your eyes in the Tinder pictures, or was that just to put it on here?Your pics do have that serial killer effect, I would even suggest to put into your profile "I know what you're thinking... serial killer bla bla" comedians do this all the time to break the ice with what most people are thinking. If girls are saying this to you, then that's validated your situation. In all honestly, Your pics are horrid, your matches will be orks. You must try harder, read my online thread in my sig I have mentioned this several times, you really need to get in the trenche and do less online stuff. I'm getting frustrated repeating myself. Online game becomes amazing once you have been in the trenches of cold approach and developed a core understanding of game. The models book will cover most of this topic anyway. Puppy pic might be a good idea, please don't steal one off the street though. Also. You should put the caption "I drowned this puppy after this pic" (joking) I don't sleep with a new girl every 4 days. I'm sure I am capable but currently seeing some nice girls and I'm in maintenance mode with it all. Now jack zero on the other hand, he gets like 2 news girls per day... Maybe the better thing would be to take pictures of myself with other people so that I don't look like a serial killer. Such as, with female friends (if I had any.... which I kind of do, I think).... Would you suggest that I just copy the kinds of pictures that you have? One time I went out to a bar wearing a suit and was told that I look pretentious, so I decided to go back to khaki shorts, polo shirts, and sneakers. So you don't think a bright green Lamborghini with wing doors would attract females? I can't WAIT to put that to the test. Watch a bunch of broke ass bitches who work at a restaurant all day say they don't care about money when they don't have the intelligence to earn it in the first place. Actually, I'm going to the bank tomorrow and withdrawing a bunch of money and taking a picture of myself covered in it, then putting that as my main pic on Tinder. Like you said, you have to experiment. Maybe I'll go to the Lamborghini dealership and take a picture of me next to an Aventador. I think I will actually. |
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| Author: | Dragula [ Fri Jul 17, 2015 8:35 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: How my matches on Tinder went.... |
Quote: Do you really block out your eyes in the Tinder pictures *face palm*I pretend I'm a navy seal bro, chicks dig it. Or maybe I just don't want my face plastered on a pick up forum You don't get it. Wasting my time. Perhaps your own too.... Good luck. |
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| Author: | redstar1324 [ Fri Jul 17, 2015 8:40 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: How my matches on Tinder went.... |
Quote: Quote: Do you really block out your eyes in the Tinder pictures *face palm*I pretend I'm a navy seal bro, chicks dig it. Or maybe I just don't want my face plastered on a pick up forum You don't get it. Wasting my time. Perhaps your own too.... Good luck. |
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| Author: | R.C [ Fri Jul 17, 2015 8:47 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: How my matches on Tinder went.... |
I can feel my iq dropping with each post I read .. |
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| Author: | Dragula [ Fri Jul 17, 2015 8:48 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: How my matches on Tinder went.... |
Quote: Quote: Quote: Do you really block out your eyes in the Tinder pictures *face palm*I pretend I'm a navy seal bro, chicks dig it. Or maybe I just don't want my face plastered on a pick up forum You don't get it. Wasting my time. Perhaps your own too.... Good luck. are you just here to empty your balls into any girl? Or are you here to be good with women and to constantly meet quality women? Is having sex with this (probably very ugly girl) the pinnacle to your goal? As I mentioned, go to sugardaddie.com tell them you have a lambo, date girls for months and months and treat them with vacations and gifts. Then perhaps have sex with them. I'm pretty sure they will be good looking too. If you want to meet quality women that like you for you, then get in the trenches and earn the ladies man badge. What do you want bro? A pile of meat with a hole? Or perhaps a nice wife one day? |
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| Author: | redstar1324 [ Fri Jul 17, 2015 8:59 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: How my matches on Tinder went.... |
Quote: Quote: Well I'm about to have a video of me eating a girl out and fucking on fling.com, so maybe I don't get it. I also have full nude pictures of me with my face in it on that site. Please show pics of the ork, I mean the girl I think that finding a hot girl online is like 1 in a million. Why would a hot girl be on a site like fling.com? It's mostly older women. |
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