so I'm curious to hear others thoughts if you message a chick on OKC or other dating sites is it best to establish rapport first before you get into push/pull, tease and or disqualify or does it really just depend on the girl and the way she views herself and you? What i mean is that I've received different responses in the past, coming from girls who are the super hot bitch/full of issue types to the slightly attractive girls who are super confident to other. I'm not trying to come off as an asshole just slightly edgy. what is the order of progression with these things?