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Author:  smnyc [ Wed May 07, 2014 4:37 am ]
Post subject:  Approaching someone you "know" on a dating site

Hi everyone

Here's a weird situation. I saw a girl on a dating that I met several times over the years at parties. We had some mutual friends. I didn't talk to her too much in those days (probably 7-10 years ago) but we were both "regulars" in that scene in NYC back then. We are not and have never been friends, just acquaintances, but definitely know of each other.

I can't give my usual approach and not acknowledge that we "know" each other and met in the past. Any suggestions on how to do this successfully?

Tanks to all.

Author:  stateofarrest [ Wed May 07, 2014 6:31 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Approaching someone you "know" on a dating site

Just say hey. Do I know you from somewhere? And you both pretend not to remember each other for a few messages, then you suggest someone you will both know and then you'll vaguely remember each other and then you're in the game.

Ask her out for a drink.

Author:  CopernicanShift [ Wed May 07, 2014 10:37 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Approaching someone you "know" on a dating site

I would just be chill about it, "don't I know you from somewhere?" is fine

anything casual

you have the right to message her because she is on a dating site

Author:  smnyc [ Wed May 07, 2014 2:02 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Approaching someone you "know" on a dating site

There is no question that we know each other. I don't think pretending that I don't remember or suggesting that she looks familiar will work.

Author:  CharlesFinley [ Wed May 07, 2014 3:26 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Approaching someone you "know" on a dating site

You could always say something like:

"Well, well, look who else is hard up for a date!" and go from there.

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