Date after 3 messages on POF?! I reveal here my how to! Lots of text but for those who are PATIENCE in reading, it could definately help you get started
First follows an example, on the END I have tips how to set up your profile. Guys, I did the DIRTY WORK FOR YOU and let my profile check by mostly american girls. And YES, I only wrote good looking gals so don’t worry. Point was to see how the adventure pics would make impression and my travel text & weird date play.
So you know what I’m talking about:
http://www.pof.com/de_viewprofile.aspx? ... d=46477396
Ist not the sense that I want tob brag here, sense was to get to know what the ladies look for in a man’s profile!
// means im writing a comment
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Here are the results:
1st message was a comment about a pic. (be creative here, make sure its personal, be a bit neggi, dont comment her beauty - others do that too much)
2nd message:
Rominoo
Honestly, I just needed a reply, nothing wrong about your pics, I actually quite like em
But now I know you're alive But what I need to know is, do you think a beautiful lady would think of a fun guy to hang around with when they look at my profile? I just made this profile and I'm new on POF. Be honest!
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LaBelle
It seems like you're pretty adventurous and well traveled so unless they're couch potatoes I would assume they would want to get to know you
Kandi
Well I like it I think ur funny and I'm pretty sarcastic myself on occasion
Jasmy
yea! hell yea! lol you look just like the type of guy I or any girl at that would hang with:)
Jewel
Of course :$
Stran
Yeah sure
jem
your'e actually absolutely gorgeous but by the tone you sound like you're not having any luck... i wont understand why unless we actually speak // true, my message could deliver me as a insecure dude. suboptimal.
comfort
I certainly think so! Honest Answer...
Jade
Yeah lol looks like you travel a lot and you're enjoying life looks a little risky but never the less you don't bored or desperate and why didn't you save me one !!?! Lol
Perfect
Yes it seems like you are the life of the party
gurl
Yes I do other wise I wouldnt have replied lol. You seem very funny and I like that
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It also sorts out booring chicks! =)
WLF
If u wanna talk shit to somebody write to another girl and no I'm not snobby
Have a nice day
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Btw. Don’t just copy my lines 1:1, it’s A. respectless and B. sucessrate drops by everyone doin it. So be creative and find your own thing!
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So I continued with tactic: nothing to loose!
Note this is only the 3rd message I sent!:
Rominoo
Well then let's skip the nonsene blabla and go straight to a date! =) Friday evening, deal or no fun?
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Answers:
Kandi
Lol on black Friday?? I don't wanna die how about the next Friday
Jasmyne
Around what time? Because Friday im pulling a all dayer haha Christmas shopping and i work a 6am-4pm shift
Comfort
Loool
where r u from?
Stran
Sometime next week
Jade
I actually did have braces in middle school lol and hold your horses can I get your name first lol
Classi
I figured that! Ure a great looking guy so yes I think a woman would want to hang out with u.... If u were in tx I would hang out with u
gurl
Lmao I still wanna get to you know you silly wheres bern?
And yes I would like to go on a date talk to me ask me stuff
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Conclusion:
FUCK this stuff was so sucessful, too bad I don’t even live in america! Anybody wants to invite me over, feel free to do so!
As for you I think it made clear what you need to do with your profile:
Pics:
a. good pic of yourself (face! can be half, from side, just the chocolate side of yours!)
b. pic of you crazy stuff like skydive, huggin a lion whatever, adventure counts!
c. pic with male friends hanging out, lets you look like you have friends and are social
d. pic with some hot females (pre-selection! Important. preferably NOT a ex-gf. no sluts either)
c. party pic, showing you having fun
d. pic of you playing a insturment, painting, whatever special skills you can do! DHV
-if you dont have any of these pics, make something crazy! dont photoshop
you have to be able to tell her the story once you meet.-try to get 8 pics together! Don’t just up 1 or 2, booring.
Text:
-Don’t brag about yourself with cars, muscles, whatever. Just write about awesome adventures you do! Include funny nonsense, be playful, make sure they have a good lough!
-make sure you have some lines, not too less, not to much. I'd go for 10-20 lines.
-Don't too much shortups like lol, omg, aint, its, i and stuff: write in proper english! girls hate typos
First Date:
Write something! Fun counts here too, don’t go for usual stuff like diner, cinema booring stuff. Add something special like: We’ll go climbing on Eiffel tower and basejump down! Hope the paracute opens hahaha” guess you get it
Messages:
Be fun, add smileys(not to much like a clown tho) and random stuff , be UNIQUE =)
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Let me know in this thread about your progress
Nothing is perfect so please, add your opinion on my stuff. Let's get all the important things togehter and I'll update this post.
Cheers
Romino
