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| Author: | Periplo [ Mon Aug 13, 2012 8:28 am ] |
| Post subject: | Help making it advance or forggeting her |
Ok, so this is my first post guys. I've been lurking for a while and even though I know the most common unswer to this kind of problems (posible Oneitis), I'll give it a try. And it's a really long post, so thanks for reading this in advance. Note: Spanish guy, not that good at english, but I'll do my best Note 2: All of this was before knowing about "gaming", this forum, everything. So there's this girl (22) at my campus. I constantyl saw her (that's 5 years my friends) and we had a class together last semester. I got obsessed because of this, telling my self I had to go and talk to her, which never happened. until a few months latter, at a semester closing party, I decided to aproach her. She was leaving, and the night was god damn frozen. I stoped her and told her I thought she was gorgeous, really direct. We were both sober btw. She reacted really well, no "gtfo fucking wierdo" face or anything. She instantly opened, introduced her self (hand shake), and told me how nice it was to hear that, because she had just fought with her boyfriend (well... SHIT). We talked for a little, but she was freezing, I could tell. I told her to just go, and she replyed we should talk if we meet around, and fucking hugged me and said "how brave"... for approaching her. And then I asked if I could add her on facebook. Any way, We've come to the following situation She's never online on FB chat. All we have talked are 3 messages. They go like this: Periplo: "I wanted to want for you to be connected, but anyway... So hey XXX, I'm "insert my real name"... and even when this is pretty obvious, I think is nice to have some kind of introduction.... - I resumed what I study and what I'm doing this semester - and I don't usually talk to stranger but when I do I stumble upon some money right after" (this actually happened). "So, how are you? better than when we spoke? I really hope so." Her: Hello "my actual real name"! (I have a really strange name, we talked about it the night I aproached her... she replyed making an alusion to that) "hey, I've been thinking after our short conversation... did you take the XXX class? It's just that I took it and I think I rememer seeing you there. I'm really much better than when we spoke. Thing just fixed really well with my BF, so I am really happy. Ps: I'm sure those bucks you found were mine." Periplo: "I certaintly was on that class... -joke about the class's name- What a bad course that was. Well, in fact that's where I saw you talking to XXXX (a really distant acquaintance that seems to be almost friend of her, not close though) and I could find add you. Now, don't worry, I used really well your money: 20 hot dogs. However, at risk of making my self look kind of slow... Did you really loose some money that day? I think I still have like 60 cents, I mean I could return them to you if necesary hahhahahah And your thesis, how is that going? it is about what? Ps: I'm glad you're ok." After this came total silence. It's been about 2.5 week since my last message. Ok, so the only reason why I'm taking the time to writing this is because I sense some IOI that confuse me. The fact that she knew that I existed before talking to her, or that she gave me a hug, or describing the situation with her BF as "sooo perfect".... So guys, what do you think? should I move just move on? Send one last message, a more agerssive one? Or playful? Or maybe just wait to find her on the campus, IRL. I feel the situation is still on her hands, would be nice to turn that arround. Thank you. |
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| Author: | detox75 [ Tue Aug 14, 2012 2:25 am ] |
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send a playful message if she responds get more aggressive. dont fizxte over why it fell through, it could be your bad game or logistics you will never know. Just keep meeting new woman and improving your game. |
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