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Author:  theblacksheep [ Wed May 30, 2012 3:31 pm ]
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"the idea 'breakfast in-bed' is really good because there is one good thing that sets my mood in the morning. I will tell you later, I'm sure you will like it"

How would you reply to this message? Thanks in advance
Author:  Heywood Jablowme [ Wed May 30, 2012 3:38 pm ]
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How would you reply to this message? Thanks in advance
I'll be right over!
Author:  Crypto [ Wed May 30, 2012 3:55 pm ]
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I would reply in a non-sexual way! If you make it sexual then she is leading the interaction and thus has control over you with "sex". I would reply with something like "A cold glass of OJ and the Sunday Comics?" or "I bet you have really cold toes!" This type of slight Neg says you can't use that thing between your legs as a weapon against me!"

Obviously I am assuming this is not part of a larger "Sexual" conversation ya'll were already having.

Peace...
Author:  SexAddict911 [ Wed May 30, 2012 4:39 pm ]
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"the idea 'breakfast in-bed' is really good because there is one good thing that sets my mood in the morning. I will tell you later, I'm sure you will like it"

How would you reply to this message? Thanks in advance
Just one? I can think of many things that could set you in a good morning mood and I guarantee you would love them all.

Or play along with her and say: I'd much rather you show me. :)
Author:  SexAddict911 [ Wed May 30, 2012 4:42 pm ]
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I would reply in a non-sexual way! If you make it sexual then she is leading the interaction and thus has control over you with "sex". I would reply with something like "A cold glass of OJ and the Sunday Comics?" or "I bet you have really cold toes!" This type of slight Neg says you can't use that thing between your legs as a weapon against me!"

Obviously I am assuming this is not part of a larger "Sexual" conversation ya'll were already having.

Peace...
She already has control sexually, all women do pre-sex. Thats what the game is all about. That's why you play along, then take control during sex.

This is in essence the dance of seduction.
Author:  Crypto [ Wed May 30, 2012 5:51 pm ]
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Addict, I disagree but I understand there is no perfect way...I most of the time have them thinking about and initiating the sex. I always assume that they want to have sex with me, and I act accordingly! Not to imply that I have sex 100% of the time with every girl I meet, just my point of thought each time I enter a womans world is that she wants to have sex.

Peace...
Author:  SexAddict911 [ Wed May 30, 2012 7:40 pm ]
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Addict, I disagree but I understand there is no perfect way...I most of the time have them thinking about and initiating the sex. I always assume that they want to have sex with me, and I act accordingly! Not to imply that I have sex 100% of the time with every girl I meet, just my point of thought each time I enter a womans world is that she wants to have sex.

Peace...
I don't understand how you do not see that women are in fact in absolute control sexually, every man wants to have sex with women. For the most part, women decide who gets to have sex with them. Most men that approach women approach them out of sexual interest. The sex/porn industry is a billion dollar industry, it is a majority of men paying for this industry, strip joints, etc etc.

Sex is everywhere, and the power lays within the woman's discretion. Sure men can have the power, but it is usually obtained after the fact. In general, women are in control of sex.

I am not sure what you are disagreeing upon. I too assume that woman want sex with me and I work on creating the sexual tension and appeal but that doesn't mean I don't accept that they are for the most part in control of dishing it out.

A beautiful woman can walk into a cafe, and every man in there will want to have sex with her. Not true of the beautiful man that walks into the cafe. See the difference?. Even if woman want to have sex with that man, they are still generally in control if the man is attracted to them enough sexually.

This is how the world works (western society) and how it always has, minus the cave man days and a few male dominant religious countries.

Seduction can become the great equalizer, but in it's essence it really is just convincing the woman to give up that initial control. Ideally the men can take control after sex. or in specific cases, but in general, the woman have the control.
Author:  rjames24000 [ Thu May 31, 2012 3:24 am ]
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Addict and Crypto, you're both right.

Crypto is talking about his frame.. when you talk to a target you have to have the confidence to assume she already wants to have sex with you... this is a good state to put your mind in to allow you to reach an alpha state..

and Addict,

Except when that beautiful women enters the cafe while everyone else is googling over her Crypto is the guy who bumps into her in line "accidentally" and asks her if shes always this pushy thereby assuming the mind state that she already wants to fuck him... This is how the world works (western society)

Pua's are always the exception
Author:  Crypto [ Thu May 31, 2012 1:28 pm ]
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rjames...You sir are a visionary! 8)
Author:  rjames24000 [ Thu May 31, 2012 2:41 pm ]
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rjames...You sir are a visionary! 8)
anyone can talk game theory.. playing it is the hard part
Author:  SexAddict911 [ Thu May 31, 2012 3:49 pm ]
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rjames...You sir are a visionary! 8)
anyone can talk game theory.. playing it is the hard part
LOL Are you suggesting I don't know how to play it? You are obviously new to this site, so i'll cut you some slack. Just because you perception is one way, does not mean you assumptions are correct. If you read my quote, I never once said, I did not have the mentality that all women want sex from me. I merely stated a general fact. Perhaps you should not be so quick to judge.

You may learn a thing or two.
Author:  rjames24000 [ Thu May 31, 2012 4:34 pm ]
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rjames...You sir are a visionary! 8)
anyone can talk game theory.. playing it is the hard part
LOL Are you suggesting I don't know how to play it? You are obviously new to this site, so i'll cut you some slack. Just because you perception is one way, does not mean you assumptions are correct. If you read my quote, I never once said, I did not have the mentality that all women want sex from me. I merely stated a general fact. Perhaps you should not be so quick to judge.

You may learn a thing or two.
Lol I'm sorry that came across the wrong way.. what I meant was I suck at playing it.. which is why its much more easy for me to understand its theory than its practice

no one is perfect, and its the reason I'm here..

and your general fact was right, I am not saying you were wrong in any way.
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