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Author:  Superalex929 [ Thu Apr 19, 2012 6:31 pm ]
Post subject:  Girl. Not sure what to do.

Basically, I met this great girl on the internet. We went out to see a film, had a really good day. And we had been speaking for around 6 / 7 months. We had a fairly good relationship, but lately shes been alot more cold to me. We had an argument over something stupid. But she said to me: " i dont hate you". Me and her used to text regulary and now when I text her, she doesnt even answer my texts. She might read them, but its rare she gives me a reply. And if it does, it's usually a fairly short one. We used to SPAM and msn everyday. She hasnt been coming on SPAM much anymore. And neither msn. I do feel like she could be "playing" me to get my attention. She's 16 years old and is a very confusing girl. I am being too "needy" and coming accross that way to her. She doesn't even speak with me at the moment how we used to. Before we met, and before this incident happend she used to make a much more worthwhile effort with me. And now, it's completely changed. I can send her a text in the morning, and she wont even reply. We used to have lengthy phone texting conversations in the morning before she went to school. But now, nothing. She feels like I "fked" her over the other day. She speaks to alot of guys on the internet. And these other guys may be giving her things which I'm currently not. She declared to me in the past how she loved me so much and I was the only guy for her. Right now, things are a little different. If she comes on SPAM, she's usually "appearing offline". I do feel like she is just using me for my attention. I tried ringing her on SPAM, and I texted her to answer my SPAM call if she was there. And she didnt reply on either. She said to me: " My brother needs the laptop, Ill be back later ". But yet, her SPAM is still set on "appear offline". What would you advise I do guys? I still feel there is interest from her there, but not as much as there was before.

Author:  Crokker [ Thu Apr 19, 2012 8:05 pm ]
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Stop chasing her dude. If she's interested, she'll come to you. Or she won't in which case you move on.

Author:  Crypto [ Fri Apr 20, 2012 1:23 pm ]
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Right now you are giving her all the "Attention"...You are lowering yourself each time you text/IM/SPAM her. Stop that immediately...Go out with friends and start living your life. She will start to wonder why you are not giving her the attention anymore and "MAY" come back. If not oh well...

You can't control her, but you can control you!

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