PUA Forum :: How to open a semi-oneitis that is ignoring you.............

She doesnt realy seem like a bitch, but she had a bf before and was to attached. She knows i like/liked her but she didnt reply to merry christmas on fb which was annoying.
Replied to Happy birthday tho several months prior which was wierd..

Don't tell me to "move on" (but this is the correct answer, you can not fuck a person who does not want to fuck you back, you would not fuck a 350 lb morbidly obese 40 year old with acne all over her face and a stub for an arm, just cause she persisted, the girl wants the same thing, quality over quantity and right now you can not produce the kind of quality she wants, and on top of that she is taken with a boyfriend) in any way shape or form. I'd rathwr fuck this up and blow it in a big rage or just get shut out than just move on.(you all ready have, non responsive and flake mode, are the same thing as blowout, but the girl does not want to face the tension of a direct encounter where should would possibly have to face negative feedback so she just ignores instead) I cant live with myself if i do that. Its not me to give up.. So if thats your avice kindly take it somewhere else.(this is neediness, and as long as you are needy, you will never be able to produce the kind of quality this girl seeks, you will only push her away by being so fixated on her with such a strong need to get her, sort of a paradox that fucks you in the ass, but it is what it is)

Author:	BeastFromDaEast [ Fri Jan 27, 2012 7:38 am ]
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She doesnt realy seem like a bitch, but she had a bf before and was to attached. She knows i like/liked her but she didnt reply to merry christmas on fb which was annoying. Replied to Happy birthday tho several months prior which was wierd.. Don't tell me to "move on" in any way shape or form. I'd rathwr fuck this up and blow it in a big rage or just get shut out than just move on. I cant live with myself if i do that. Its not me to give up.. So if thats your avice kindly take it somewhere else.

Author:	Capper [ Sat Jan 28, 2012 5:32 am ]
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Send her a fb msg: "Hey! Long time no talk, how's it goin?"

Author:	BeastFromDaEast [ Sat Jan 28, 2012 5:35 am ]
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That seems pretty ignorable though doesnt it?

Author:	Capper [ Sat Jan 28, 2012 6:04 am ]
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I feel your pain. Been there before myself, countless times. You must believe in yourself. It's okay to be a nice guy. To care about girls. A true alpha provides for his woman, in every way. Not just physically through sex but emotionally, intellectually, spiritually etc. etc. etc. This is why we grow in all aspects. So we can become leaders. You've got to believe in yourself. So what if she ignores you? You're being a man. You're being THE man. You care about her, so show her that. Show her you can take care of her unlike the guy before you who could not. If you think she will ignore you, then it will most likely happen. Your lack of confidence will show. If you believe that you are the man and that all girls are attracted to you because of this, then that's exactly what will end up happening. You reap what you sow. So think positive. Rather than say "Oh she'll likely ignore that" you could easily think "She'll read this and get so excited that I messaged her because she loves me!" haha. It's just a thought. We choose our conscious thoughts and can only hold one at a time. So "feel" out a msg. Meditate for a bit on what you want to say. What I typed earlier is just something I feel. I don't know the ENTIRE situation though...don't know all the intricacies, maybe it isn't "right". Follow your heart and accept whatever the universe gives back to you. It's the only way you'll find true happiness in life.

Author:	BeastFromDaEast [ Sat Jan 28, 2012 6:12 am ]
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Ya... I agree with what you're saying. You make more sense than most of the people here who have 1000's of posts and can only utter two words.. My thing is this... It's Valentines Day in two weeks and girls get all sappy about that shit and its the first V-Day she wont have a bf for since she broke up with her bf of like4-6 years within a couple months ago....

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Author:	Capper [ Sat Jan 28, 2012 6:24 am ]
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Quote: Ya... I agree with what you're saying. You make more sense than most of the people here who have 1000's of posts and can only utter two words.. My thing is this... It's Valentines Day in two weeks and girls get all sappy about that shit and its the first V-Day she wont have a bf for since she broke up with her bf of like4-6 years within a couple months ago.... Thanks mang. Those are kind words. I really appreciate that. It's rly bc most of the ppl on here are "players". They just wanna bang. So they find a "routine" and manipulate girls with it to get what they want (sex) and then they do it again with a different girl. Seems addictive in a sense... Girls are similar, they are attracted to similar things, but each one is still different. They have different interests, different personalities, different looks. If you want a relationship with a girl, you have to be true to you, and weed out the girls who don't "fit". Took me a while to realize this, but it's been life changing to say the least. It's going to be difficult. I don't want to discourage you, nothing is impossible. Just speaking from experience (and by the sounds of this girl) she is emotionally scarred, and you have to be VERY strong if you want to help her, it COULD (may not, depending on her maturity) be stressful and take a lot of energy from you bc she'll be a constant drain lol. But if you love her, then you're willing to provide her with the knowledge and wisdom you've acquired over your life, to share with her, to help nuture her through this difficult time. As for V-tines day, I wouldn't get TOO ahead of myself. Might not be a bad idea to keep in the back of your mind that you'd like to ask her out for it. Just remember to always be open and accepting of whatever the facts are. I mean that in the sense don't have this expectation or goal of taking her out on Valentine's Day. It won't seem natural if you do. If it happens it happens, if not, that's okay, there's plenty more potential V-Tines Day's to share with her. Live one day at a time. Right NOW your only real option is to contact her and show your interest. So do that, and worry about the rest later.

Author:	Capper [ Sat Jan 28, 2012 6:34 am ]
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... So start one.

Author:	Capper [ Sat Jan 28, 2012 6:38 am ]
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No need to explain yourself, I'm exactly the same way.

Author:	MynameisFisher [ Sat Jan 28, 2012 10:43 am ]
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I haven't read these answers, sorry. My first advice would have been to move on, but you said you didn't want that so I'll give you another one which you may also not like. Whoever says whatever, I don't care, but Real Infield gaming beats the motherfucking shit out of online BS. Go and talk to her personally. You message her on facebook. Great... so do others I think. It's easy for her to not even read it. Go up to her, and talk to her. That's harder to ignore because of the social pressure, and it also shows some balls.

Author:	pumpington [ Sat Jan 28, 2012 11:12 am ]
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Quote: She doesnt realy seem like a bitch, but she had a bf before and was to attached. She knows i like/liked her but she didnt reply to merry christmas on fb which was annoying. Replied to Happy birthday tho several months prior which was wierd.. Don't tell me to "move on" (but this is the correct answer, you can not fuck a person who does not want to fuck you back, you would not fuck a 350 lb morbidly obese 40 year old with acne all over her face and a stub for an arm, just cause she persisted, the girl wants the same thing, quality over quantity and right now you can not produce the kind of quality she wants, and on top of that she is taken with a boyfriend) in any way shape or form. I'd rathwr fuck this up and blow it in a big rage or just get shut out than just move on.(you all ready have, non responsive and flake mode, are the same thing as blowout, but the girl does not want to face the tension of a direct encounter where should would possibly have to face negative feedback so she just ignores instead) I cant live with myself if i do that. Its not me to give up.. So if thats your avice kindly take it somewhere else.(this is neediness, and as long as you are needy, you will never be able to produce the kind of quality this girl seeks, you will only push her away by being so fixated on her with such a strong need to get her, sort of a paradox that fucks you in the ass, but it is what it is) once again as previously posted in another one of your threads, the absolute only way you could possibly get this girl, is to play more numbers, improve your skills, and actually have other girls that are sucking you off/fucking you, not pretend you do, not put on an act of some kind, be pre-selected, non-needy, and less geared towards seeking her approval, you won't do this because it is counter intuative to the strong emotional investment you have in this girl, even though it is the answer and pretty much the only thing that could possibly get you this girl, you will choose to ignore it, following your emotions rather then logic (that is my sage like prediction anyways), the only variable here is how long will you waste your time, before you realize it was all a waste of time and get bitter about it when you could have been getting other girls (that are easily just as hot or better), except it is tough to get motivated to face the rejections it takes to get a girl like that due to your ego facing some heavey shit for you (currently because you are sensative to not having the approval and validation of others) anyways you need abundance and more skill and the only way to get those two things is by practising on other girls, you gotta play the game to get good at it, you can't just read an e-book and expect to have magical powers GOOD LUCK

Author:	Capper [ Sat Jan 28, 2012 8:07 pm ]
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Quote: I haven't read these answers, sorry. My first advice would have been to move on, but you said you didn't want that so I'll give you another one which you may also not like. Whoever says whatever, I don't care, but Real Infield gaming beats the motherfucking shit out of online BS. Go and talk to her personally. You message her on facebook. Great... so do others I think. It's easy for her to not even read it. Go up to her, and talk to her. That's harder to ignore because of the social pressure, and it also shows some balls. Also solid advice. I dunno if you see her in person, but that could potentially be another way communicating with her.

Author:	lukcyyyyluke [ Thu Feb 09, 2012 8:55 am ]
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Oneitis is a self fulfilling prophecy. Dude, I feel for you. It reminds me of a girl who’s number I recently sharked off POF. Once I had her number, I googled her POF name just to see what came up, and I found an actual guy who had created a POF account which said something along the lines of, ‘I only set up this account in the last ditch hope of winning the affections of **. If you see this , I just want you to know that you seem like an amazing person…..’. I felt pretty sorry for the guy, he was obviously not in a great place, and especially since I had just got her number by sending this ridiculous message: ‘Wassup, I'd stick my neck out there and say that you're favourite ever song is Egyptian Lover 'Freakaholic'. If its not then you owe me a date! If it is then I owe you a date. Don't argue with the maths. We should go jiving or something I well wanna shake your tree. L’. The point is that I clearly didn’t care much about whether she would reply. I just sent something that I thought was funny, that took 10 seconds to write. She digged it. Now I have her number, hopefully first date next week. Oneitis is a self fulfilling prophecy. By allowing yourself to care too much, you automatically turn the girl off. My tip, send her something short and a little crazy, like, ‘Yo **, whats the crack? Good wkend?’. And send it on Sunday night. Peace Out

Author:	BeastFromDaEast [ Thu Feb 09, 2012 9:44 am ]
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well im tight cuz i msged her wattup *******(name) how do u like college no fucking reply' i might just go for broke tell her flat out that i like her and ask her out for valentines day tomorrow.. either i get a yes and im happy or i get a no and i delete all traces of her so i never see her again

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