Ok so I'm trying to game this HB9 on POF who I could tell wouldn't go for most of my usual game. So, I tried to be "from the heart" and got a response, but now I'm at a dead end after she didn't respond to my last message.

Me: You are clearly cut from a different cloth than most girls in today's world. You seem extroverted yet reserved, confident but
at the same time down to earth, and playful yet caring; you are an anomaly. Most importantly, you are definitely motivated
and driven to succeed.

Too many IOIs stacked into one paragraph, comes across as needy/seeking validation.

Also, when you read my profile, remember I just wrote it with the goal of putting smiles on people's faces. I don't really take
myself too seriously.

No response, so I waited a couple of days and then messaged her.

Me: Hey, so I never message a girl twice, so I am obviously breaking my own rule. I am sure that you probably get a ton of messages from random losers who are are obsessed with your looks. I am not like them.

My las two girl friends were both signed models, and they taught me that what is on the inside is far more important that what is on the exterior.

I am extremely outgoing, have a great sense of humor, am very intelligent, and am actuall really down to earth. I truly have a lot going for me.

If you are merely here for a self confidence boost, no need to message me back, but if you actually do care to find someone who has a similar personality and has similar interests to you then you should get to know me.

Trying too hard "last 2 gfs were both signed models" why even go there? And I wouldnt explicitly state what you have, or have not going on but rather convey it through conversation rather than directly listing your virtues - looks very unbecoming and again trying too hard. You bought right into her frame that "I am hot, I am the prize, men need to PROVE themselves to me". With all due respect, she likely msg'd you back to be nice, and that's why you haven't heard back from her.

By the way, my name is X

HB9: Definitely not here for a self confidence boost. No offense to you that I didn't write back I've been busy and I kinda met a guy on here so I was gonna see how things go. You seem very mature for your age, and that's awesome you dated models ha.

Me: None taken haha, and thank you very much. Most people have that same opinion of me.

As for the models, it was exciting at first, but they were both pretty superficial people. I tend to prefer a person who I can truly connect with.

So you're studying to be a nurse. Where are you going to school?



Any ideas on what I should do since she hasn't responded?