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Whats the difference between approaching and conversing with people at your workplace compared to approaching and conversing with people outside of your workplace.
He's gettin' paid haha...
No but really... I've worked retail myself, I understand where you come from and the simple reason why you can approach these people at work. It's because you have no expectations when you go to approach the potential customer, you have it in mind that helping them is your main goal, everything else takes second place. I mean breaking it down to the simple basics, your objective is to see if they need help, so you ask them. Once you've found out what they want you find it, convince them why they should choose the over-rated model, compared to the basic, then close the sale. Cha-ching, job well done.
Now when it comes to approaching women, there's this instantaneous stigma that occurs, where you think so far into the future it hampers your ability to function in a social manner. It's a subconscious response that you wanna mate with her, and women can see (or smell) that from a mile away. So when approaching women in the field I have it mind that all I want to find out is the target's name, why she came to the club/restaurant, who she's with, and if she's single. I have these self imposed goals when approaching just to make the approach a lil more structured. It's like the routines used after the approach, to help you seduce the target.
Long story short... it's all inner game, and trial and error, and having fun with it all, even though it's short term disappointment (even if you crash & burn), it's a great story to tell in the future, that you will be able to laugh at.
""When I let go of what I am, I become what I might be." -Lao Tzu"